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Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by anungangampu: 8:50am On Jun 16, 2019
I have never been disgusted like I am now.. I don't know how psychological it seems but I have my hearth deeply rooting for another girl, I think she is the girl of my dream than my girlfriend who can do anything for me ... My girlfriend has been begging me that she love's me and I should stay more in the relationship before I let her Go
I tried to show her affection but the only one I think about is elsewhere... Sometimes I have to imagine is her am touching.. The latest of it is Erectile dysfunction am having which I still think is because my heart is far away from Her.

She did not do anything wrong but I think our lifestyle don't match and she sees me as what I can never assume of her.
Since she started seeing another girl's call on my phone and later found she was the girl I once toasted after we had a misunderstanding.
She knows that's the kind of girl I like and she never believed am not dating the girl even when am not dating her yet. The more she keeps complaining , the more I keep seeing something different about the girl.

Today, I can't stand her face as she keeps nagging , have told her many times the relationship is no more healthy and I love another girl.
Instead of Her to see it from my point of view ..she sees it as an insult...and want me to apologize....imagine.
She has her Own fault..which is, if u start taking her serious, she would be seeing you as a burden..but once she sees you are leaving her or ignoring her, she would become over submissive, I don't really love over submissive girls. Told her many times stop being at the begging end.
Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by AntiWailer: 8:51am On Jun 16, 2019
Bro, Give her a chance.

As for the begging it is normal.

There is a saying that says "..women are like Shadows, if u run after them, they will run away from you. If u move away, they will run after you."

Don't lose a girl that adore u for one that u will end up being at the begging end and always feeling u are not doing enough.


All these girls have their annoying part and I are lucky to av known ur baby's annoying part.

The next girl u are running after might be so terrible and complicated.

I will advise u give ur current baby a fighting chance.

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Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by nzeobi(m): 8:56am On Jun 16, 2019
my guy leave girl matter ,my girl this my woman that. do you expect us to help you sack your girlfriend.
GA chuba ego.

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Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by tyup(m): 8:59am On Jun 16, 2019
anungangampu:
I have never been disgusted like I am now.. I don't know how psychological it seems but I have my hearth deeply rooting for another girl, I think she is the girl of my dream than my girlfriend who can do anything for me ... My girlfriend has been begging me that she love's me and I should stay more in the relationship before I let her Go
I tried to show her affection but the only one I think about is elsewhere... Sometimes I have to imagine is her am touching.. The latest of it is Erectile dysfunction am having which I still think is because my heart is far away from Her.

She did not do anything wrong but I think our lifestyle don't match and she sees me as what I can never assume of her.
Since she started seeing another girl's call on my phone and later found she was the girl I once toasted after we had a misunderstanding.
She knows that's the kind of girl I like and she never believed am not dating the girl even when am not dating her yet. The more she keeps complaining , the more I keep seeing something different about the girl.

Today, I can't stand her face as she keeps nagging , have told her many times the relationship is no more healthy and I love another girl.
Instead of Her to see it from my point of view ..she sees it as an insult...and want me to apologize....imagine.
She has her Own fault..which is, if u start taking her serious, she would be seeing you as a burden..but once she sees you are leaving her or ignoring her, she would become over submissive, I don't really love over submissive girls. Told her many times stop being at the begging end.

Ok
Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by QueenSekxy(f): 9:00am On Jun 16, 2019
anungangampu:
I have never been disgusted like I am now.. I don't know how psychological it seems but I have my hearth deeply rooting for another girl, I think she is the girl of my dream than my girlfriend who can do anything for me ... My girlfriend has been begging me that she love's me and I should stay more in the relationship before I let her Go
I tried to show her affection but the only one I think about is elsewhere... Sometimes I have to imagine is her am touching.. The latest of it is Erectile dysfunction am having which I still think is because my heart is far away from Her.

She did not do anything wrong but I think our lifestyle don't match and she sees me as what I can never assume of her.
Since she started seeing another girl's call on my phone and later found she was the girl I once toasted after we had a misunderstanding.
She knows that's the kind of girl I like and she never believed am not dating the girl even when am not dating her yet. The more she keeps complaining , the more I keep seeing something different about the girl.

Today, I can't stand her face as she keeps nagging , have told her many times the relationship is no more healthy an
d I love another girl.
Instead of Her to see it from my point of view ..she sees it as an insult...and want me to apologize....imagine.
She has her Own fault..which is, if u start taking her serious, she would be seeing you as a burden..but once she sees you are leaving her or ignoring her, she would become over submissive, I don't really love over submissive girls. Told her many times stop being at the begging end.
God, Please, save us from the hands of these sons of Adam. This minute, they love submissive girls, next minute they don't really love submissive girls.

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Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by lilianofentse(f): 9:02am On Jun 16, 2019
QueenSekxy:

God, Please, save us from the hands of these sons of Adam. This minute, they love submissive girls, next minute they don't really love submissive girls.

grin
Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by chinchonglee(m): 9:08am On Jun 16, 2019
QueenSekxy:

God, Please, save us from the hands of these sons of Adam. This minute, they love submissive girls, next minute they don't really love submissive girls.

Nt all men likes over submissiveness.

I personally dnt even fancy it.
Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by Unlimitk2(m): 9:09am On Jun 16, 2019
Then dump her ass

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Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by Oluromantic: 9:13am On Jun 16, 2019
First she's not emotionally stable then second you shouldn't promise a girl love when you are not sure of where the relationship is heading, seeing each other as friends is better. Even your new love too, you shd be careful with promising love to her cus another better girl would show up soon and you'll do exactly same.

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Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by QueenSekxy(f): 9:15am On Jun 16, 2019
chinchonglee:

Nt all men likes over submissiveness.

I personally dnt even fancy it.
What do you mean by over submissivemess?
Abeg, teach me. embarassed
Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:16am On Jun 16, 2019
I don't know if you're older than me or not, so I will not attack you. You don't need an advice, you need an attack.

But where guys de see all these kind girls de follow self?

We for here de just de de reject us
Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by CosmicPhoenix: 9:18am On Jun 16, 2019
stop punishing that girl and end the relationship

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Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by Sirmuel1(m): 9:18am On Jun 16, 2019
Relationship in Nigeria na scam.

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Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by chinchonglee(m): 9:23am On Jun 16, 2019
QueenSekxy:

What do you mean by over submissivemess?
Abeg, teach me. embarassed

U supposed knw... Its jst like worshipping.
Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by fecosequence(m): 9:24am On Jun 16, 2019
same her with me
Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by mylove4God(f): 9:25am On Jun 16, 2019
I hope your girlfriend realizes soon that she deserves better. One does not have to beg for love.
The new girl you want. You might start dating her but one day you would you were still with your gf.

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Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by GraGra247(m): 9:25am On Jun 16, 2019
After you've had enough of the innocent girl, you now want to dump her.

When you're done with this new one too you'll get fed up with her and up to the next.

Someone will dump you one day too when your heart is totally immersed.

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Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by QueenSekxy(f): 9:25am On Jun 16, 2019
chinchonglee:

U supposed knw... Its jst like worshipping.

Thought you guys like to be worship as the small god you are?

So much confusion in the land.

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Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by anungangampu: 9:26am On Jun 16, 2019
AntiWailer:
Bro, Give her a chance.

As for the begging it is normal.

There is a saying that says "..women are like Shadows, if u run after them, they will run away from you. If u move away, they will run after you."

Don't lose a girl that adore u for one that u will end up being at the begging end and always feeling u are not doing enough.


All these girls have their annoying part and I are lucky to av known ur baby's annoying part.

The next girl u are running after might be so terrible and complicated.

I will advise u give ur current baby a fighting chance.
That's just my fear .. I can't tell more about the Other girl .though she opens up to me alot but there are things you won't know about a girl till you leave every other option to focus on her or leave her to focus on other option... One of it must unveil her emotional vacuum....This is what I never tried with Her
Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by ValCon888: 9:27am On Jun 16, 2019
This girl you want to dump, remember that once upon a time she was the apple of your eye who could do no wrong. Now she disgusts you.

The other girl you can't stop thinking about may one day disgust you too. Sometimes when we go through hard times with our spouse, it is good to remember the times we once chased them and how they brought happiness into our lives and use this as motivation to help them become better.

No woman is perfect and no relationship is.
But by putting in the work and commitment, you can bring back the spark and have a loving relationship.

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Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by chinchonglee(m): 9:28am On Jun 16, 2019
QueenSekxy:

Thought you guys like to be worship as the small god you are?

So much confusion in the land.
You deaf abi u cant read nii

I said i personally dnt like it. Y u join me nd others together

Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by anungangampu: 9:35am On Jun 16, 2019
QueenSekxy:

God, Please, save us from the hands of these sons of Adam. This minute, they love submissive girls, next minute they don't really love submissive girls.

u saw the "over" added to it.. I love girl's that respects me. But when u exaggerate it.. My mind sees it as a psychological leak.
Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by anungangampu: 9:36am On Jun 16, 2019
CosmicPhoenix:
stop punishing that girl and end the relationship
is the other way round though
Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by QueenSekxy(f): 9:42am On Jun 16, 2019
anungangampu:
u saw the "over" added to it.. I love girl's that respects me. But when u exaggerate it.. My mind sees it as a psychological leak.
Please, shut up.
And keep sharing diçk.
Re: Am Emotionally No Longer Attracted To My Girlfriend by anungangampu: 5:59am On Jun 17, 2019
QueenSekxy:

Please, shut up.
And keep sharing diçk.
I have noting to say to you

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