I was using my wife phone and i was disturbed with the likes notifications from her Facebook comment on a particular group, i opened it to see what her comment was all about ,only for me to be shocked with what i read from that post.

A married woman was sick and her husband had to tell their pastor to come pray for his wife ,the pastor rape the wife and it happened another time when the pastor visit the man's house in disguise of praying for there family to avert evil ,the husband wasn't at home ,pastor rape the wife the 2nd time, now she is asking the women in that group what she should do as she is scared of opening to her husband and her husband refused her request for them to leave that church.

Below is the screenshot from the post, sexual abuse from pastors is getting out of hand

CC: Lalasticlala

I'll keep on saying it, when i get married, my wife will never attend any vigil,only Sunday service and church anniversary, i will never allow her to get closer to any pastor, no calling of a young pastor Daddy, my pastor dare not visit my house in my absence cus ,if he do, i will change it for him, disgrace him and sue him, me ,my wife and kids will form our own church in our sitting room.i cant let this endtime pastors sexually harass my daughters and wife all in the name of Man of God,

Note: female genders are easy to manipulate or brainwhased , pastors have sweet mouth ,trick and some uses juju (talk and obey, Yoruba call it Mayehun).

Let me reserve my comment.

Love and respect given to pastors is too much though, but at the same time I grew up seeing Nigerian married women fornicate, pastors turn shouldn't be later called rape.

rubbish

she over enjoyed it, she's having guilty conscience that's all

imagine, he did it the second time, with you alone at home but your brain didn't tell you to plant camera or a recorder

next her husband will call her she should go "home"(because he can't pray with you at the shop)

then she will go home waiting to be " pounced"



abeg go and sleep

lilmax:
rubbish

she over enjoyed it, she's having guilty conscience that's all

imagine, he did it the second time, with you alone at home but your brain didn't tell you to plant camera or a recorder

next her husband will call her she should go "home"(because he can't pray with you at the shop)

then she will go home waiting to be " pounced"



abeg go and sleep

Have you ever had something taken away from you forcefully at your weakest point Did you had time to plant camera or recorder? Except you are a clairvoyant that knows when something bad will happen or a seer, you never can tell.
We all sounding soo judgy until it is our turn.......

I am afraid that even if she tells her husband, he might not believe because of the pastor's hold.

She should set the pastor up and show proof to her husband.

the first time she went to get him water she was not weak why is it that you became weak when he was pulling your pant

If she tells her husband, that marriage is dead.

The first incident could be accepted as rape but the second one was consented. He raped her the first time at least that should send a strong signal to her of the kind of dangerous sex predator he is, going to your your home alone to meet that kind of man means she knew what she was doing, she should have atleast called a friend, relative, or go with somebody to the house and insist the person stays while the pastor pray for her, and she also said " I don't know if am enjoying it or not either" now questions really needs to be asked here.
1, does anyone enjoys being raped?
2. How would she not know if she enjoyed it or not, is she a baby?
3. As a full grown adult you didn't scream or fend him off, grab his balls, pushed, kicked, scratched his face with your nails, or even bite his ear when he was attempting to rape you for the second time?
4. Why didn't she go to her house to meet the awaiting rapist with weapons like dry grinded pepper, broken glass, or even a knife to defend herself and her husband's pride in case the pastor trys anything stupid?
5. why didn't she threatened the pastor that there are hidden cameras in all areas of the house to scare him?
Above all she used the word "sexed the hell out of me" and not raped the hell out of me.

Nigerians believe too much in religion this is why Pastors, Imams, Native doctors and other religious leaders take advantage. Don't be a scapegoat, how clean are some of these religious leaders before God? while on earth Jesus called many of them hypocrites, their character hasn't changed over the years, some even use charms for power. Serve your God, read your Bible, pray and do good. You don't need to depend on these people because many are as weak as you and I.


CC: please censor her face and name, unless she has chosen to reveal her identity. I think that's a closed group on facebook

Zombiekiller010:
I'll keep on saying it, when i get married, my wife will never attend any vigil,only Sunday service and church anniversary, i will never allow her to get closer to any pastor, no calling of a young pastor Daddy, my pastor dare not visit my house in my absence cus ,if he do, i will change it for him, disgrace him and sue him, me ,my wife and kids will form our own church in our sitting room.i cant let this endtime pastors sexually harass my daughters and wife all in the name of Man of God,

Note: female genders are easy to manipulate or brainwhased , pastors have sweet mouth ,trick and some uses juju (talk and obey, Yoruba call it Mayehun).

You say females are easy to manipulate? can an average man resist a woman's advances? human nature is weak but rape is a forced action, only one party is willing not both so it doesn't often involve manipulation

Graduateacher:



You say females are easy to manipulate? can an average man resist a woman's advances? human nature is weak but rape is a forced action, only one party is willing not both so it doesn't often involve manipulation

yes there are very desciplined men who can resist a woman's advance. If she is not sexually appealing to him there is nothing that woman would do to succeed in seducing that man.
A female friend was having issues and humbly requested to stay with me for a while and I obliged, then i wasn't into any relationship, when she came we would go out together, drink together, laugh together, watch TV programs together, eat from the same plate together but we don't FVCK, after taking her bath she would put on night gown revealing her clevelages, for inside my mind "i say see this one u think say na by like that" we slept in thesame bed for a month, and for night na so sha go trow shagalo come with her leg and her boobs make body for touch body, all the same I was not moved, pls note there is nothing wrong with me, a real man should have descipline, respect and self control, as we speak this lady respects and hold me in high esteem.

Graduateacher:
Nigerians believe too much in religion this is why Pastors, Imams, Native doctors and other religious leaders take advantage. Don't be a scapegoat, how clean are some of these religious leaders before God? while on earth Jesus called many of them hypocrites, their character hasn't changed over the years, some even use charms for power. Serve your God, read your Bible, pray and do good. You don't need to depend on these people because many are as weak as you and I.


CC: please censor her face and name, unless she has chosen to reveal her identity. I think that's a closed group on facebook

..thats not the face of the poster, thats the admin .

mysticwarrior:
yes[b] there are very desciplined men who can resist a woman's advance[/b]. If she is not sexually appealing to him there is nothing that woman would do to succeed in seducing that man.
A female friend was having issues and humbly requested to stay with me for a while and I obliged, then i wasn't into any relationship, when she came we would go out together, drink together, laugh together, watch TV programs together, eat from the same plate together but we don't FVCK, after taking her bath she would put on night gown revealing her clevelages, for inside my mind "i say see this one u think say na by like that" we slept in thesame bed for a month, and for night na so sha go trow shagalo come with her leg and her boobs make body for touch body, all the same I was not moved, pls note there is nothing wrong with me, a real man should have descipline, respect and self control, as we speak this lady respects and hold me in high esteem.

How many Josephs are in the Bible? you're giving me your experience and you expect me to use just that personal experience to show that all men can withstand manipulation. Bro I don't think we can reason together.

Graduateacher:



How many Josephs are in the Bible? you're giving me your experience and yoy expect me to use just that personal experience to show that all men can withstand manipulation. Bro I don't think we can reason together.

read you previous and subsequent post and listen to how disappointing u sound, u asked "can an average man resist a woman's advance?" Am an average man and I only share my experience to demystify your wrong impression on MEN, yes of course we can't reason together because evidence suggests you only aired your opinion out of unreasonable supposition.

Where is the Rape? Cause I'm not seeing it

SMH @ Holyghost Fire is burning her

A man raped you in your husband's house? This one serious, any man wey want bring that play near me is ready for his grave. I will kill him there! Not now that I'm old enough to defend myself.

Oyindidi:
A man raped you in your husband's house? This one serious, any man wey want bring that play near me is ready for his grave. I will kill him there! Not now that I'm old enough to defend myself.

Even if not there, I will haunt him and take him out in the most barbaric way possible. I will make sure his family would faint when they sight his corpse.

pocohantas:


Even if not there, I will haunt him and take him out in the most barbaric way possible. I will make sure his family would faint when they sight his corpse.

I'm angry at her weakness, it may not be rape. She won't feel guilty if she was raped. I have a weapon in my house, if someone start rough play the person is going to his maker. That woman allowed the pastor to browse her

This is too bad

Madam, the only way to handle this matter is to plant a camera in your house and show your husband his action if he returns to do the same . Do tell your husband without concrete evidence .

Oyindidi:
A man raped you in your husband's house? This one serious, any man wey want bring that play near me is ready for his grave. I will kill him there! Not now that I'm old enough to defend myself.

please tell us what happened to you when u were young and couldn't defend yourself