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| Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Brownteeth(m): 4:45pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
Something prompted me to ask this question. I have to go straight ahead with the question to save you time. What if you have a boyfriend then a guy you found attractive comes arround to tell you he likes you and requested for your phone number, will you refuse to give him your number to protect your relationship or will you go ahead and give him your number without bothering about your relationship? I need anwers. |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Omolola1(f): 4:47pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
This is a very gud question and a trickish one at that. Well, i would! giving him my no doesnt mean that i wuld date him |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Brownteeth(m): 4:52pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
Omolola, you are aware that his intention is to date you, so why then will you give him your number when you wouldnt date him? Besides remember his gonna be bombarding you with sensitive calls and text. |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Omolola1(f): 4:56pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
If his intention is to date me, then i won't! That is only if am in a very serious relationship! |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Brownteeth(m): 5:04pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
omolola, remember that most guys do not make their intentions to date a girl instantly. They just collect your number and save the final request for another day. So you wouldnt be able to know at that instant whether he wants to date you or not for you to then decide whether or not to give him your number. |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Omolola1(f): 5:08pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
This is very trickish!I wuld not give him my no 4 nything!If he gets it somwhere else, fine! it has 2 do wiv Dterminatn |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Brownteeth(m): 5:10pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
omolola, besides he looks more attractive than your current boyfriend. |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by iice(f): 5:12pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
No number. Has nothing to do with protecting relationship. Respect for self, respect for partner |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Omolola1(f): 5:14pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
Dont kill me wiv questions o! I have a thing 4 fyn guys! anyway, i still wont! i hate cheating and i wuld neva do that |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by 190: 5:15pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
@Post, 99% of Guyz would never ask for your # Without having the intention to ask you out, Offtopix: My Gf is just exposing herself  |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Omolola1(f): 5:17pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
HEHEHEhehehe, pls dont start |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Brownteeth(m): 5:21pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
iice you and your language again. You said you wouldnt give out your num and it has nothing to do with protecting the relationship. But you also its all about respect for self and partner. Doesn't it mean in a way that you are protecting your relationship through that respect? |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by iice(f): 5:29pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
It simply means, i have a code I respect myself, i honor the boundaries i put myself in. I respect my partner. I give him the courtesy, he deserves. The relationship is another thing. Even if we were on the rocks, i wouldn't still give my number out. Hence it's not about protecting my relationship. |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Brownteeth(m): 5:39pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
iice, Ok. But how would you do the refusing? You can't just say ''NO'' or ''I dont have a num'' or ''am sorry. am in a relationship'' |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Omolola1(f): 5:41pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
Simple thing: "Am in a relationship and am very sure you wouldnt want me to be doing this if i were your GF" End of |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by googles: 5:44pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
I would give him . . . .making friends with a guy I like doesn't affect my relationship in anyway,Its all about self-discipline |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by 190: 5:45pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
Iice i respect your understanding alot, Your Boyfriend must be really lucky! |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by iice(f): 5:46pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
Brownteeth: Lol what's wrong with saying "NO"? |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Brownteeth(m): 5:48pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
omolola, telling a guy you are in a relationship when he hasnt asked you out doesn't sound too good I think. |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by iice(f): 5:50pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
190: Oh he knows that. And vice versa. |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Brownteeth(m): 5:55pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
iice, Telling a guy ''NO'' just like that without polishing it can make the guy feel like he doesnt look presentable to you. |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Omolola1(f): 5:57pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
Brownteeth, it seems you already know the answer to your question |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by iice(f): 5:58pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
Hah! Ok then i'll just tell him, i don't really do phones, which is true. I rarely answer calls, don't reply to sms. |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Brownteeth(m): 6:02pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
iice, I thought you were too sharp. Why not ask the guy why he wants your num? From his reply you will know your refusal pattern. |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by 190: 6:08pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
Im male so this question doesnt relate to me! |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Nobody: 6:11pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
Brownteeth: If it's a serious relationship, I'll tell him no with a sad sad face!  If it's not a serious relationship, I'll give it to him sharply . . .  |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by 190: 6:16pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
Ujujoan: Sighzz **Uju-wan** |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by Brownteeth(m): 6:24pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
Ok ladies. But wouldn't it make a little sense if you get his number without giving him yours, so that when your current relationship suddenly collaspses at some point you can mount on the guy's back immediately and life goes on? |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by adagz01(m): 6:38pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
Brownteeth na journalist? |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by tjskii(f): 7:09pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
no i wudnt give my number,there's no point starting somthing i cant finish,of course i saw a lot of attractive guys out there b4 i decided to settle for my bf i made a decision to be with him& im sticking to it, no point in allowing for distractions of any kind |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by 190: 8:24pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
tjskii: Thanks for deciding 2 stick wiv me, I will always be there for u  |
| Re: Ladies Should Answer This Question For Me. by tjskii(f): 9:00pm On Oct 11, 2010 |
^^lol u and who  |
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