y me:

i don't think that is normal
sometimes i get the urge to make my Man mad at me for no reason and i just love doing it sometimes
it is either she isn't letting out the real her or she wanna get to know you more before doing that
how long have u two been dating?

We've been dating since January this year.
She has always been like this from the start of
our relationship. She sometimes goes of on other people
but not me, so, i wonder why? Am I such an angel? I know
I am not.

@op

give hot slaps when next u see her and watch her next reaction,

Inked_Nerd:

Well, because she likes you. Either that or she just likes being obedient to you. She's probably doing it because she thinks she's pleasing you by going along with everything you say and do. If bothers you so much then leave her alone and find someone else who will yell at you. [b]By the way, don't take scopedon's advice[/b].

    why now , try my method and am sure u will get sharp result

Imagine not being able to say no when you feel like saying no just to make
the other person happy. That is one of the things she does. And if she says no
and I get angry, she'll just bend to my side.

Could this be a healthy way of building a relationship?

Well, she is just a submissive person! she wants to avoid trouble, re u hot tempered?

It is purely abnormal.She simply doesn't have a mind of her own when she's with u.I wonder how that kind of person can complement u when d need arise bcoz i believe 2 good heads is beta dan 1 head.

Hmmm! wondering what to do

She sometimes goes of on other people but not me

well, this makes it a bit creepy.

i'd have thought maybe it's just her nature, but if she shows emotion with other people-just not with you- then i dont know.

Don't have much 2 say, but must let dis country lad know herein dat he's exhibitin nothin but his ego,

Meanwhile, aside infidelity, a man shud learn 2 address every other issue amicably.

Its really strange man, is she a robot?

I am going to have another open talk about this with her.
I once spoke to her about this, and she told me she can't help
it, that she's just like that (just like a robot, that's not so acceptable).
I'll keep you guys posted.

Ok o, waited wait for the update

@jaysay da truth me na tell u is Omo dis 1 na koni koni love. RUMOBOLASTICORIGA dnt try 2 look 4 d meaning because dt babe is nt ur babe she is choping a better yam outside ur is jst a screen saver.

It's either of 2 things. She's either a great pretender or she doesn't have a mind of her own when she's with u on which case I'd say she's PATHOLOGICALLY in love with u. You have to find out which. If it is the later u need to let her know that her opinion really counts and also relate with her in like manner so that she can be herself with u otherwise u'll just be getting married to yourself as there will be no contributions from her to ur future together.

Sweetdoct247:

It's either of 2 things. She's either a great pretender or she doesn't have a mind of her own when she's with u on which case I'd say she's PATHOLOGICALLY in love with u. You have to find out which. If it is the later u need to let her know that her opinion really counts and also relate with her in like manner so that she can be herself with u otherwise u'll just be getting married to yourself as there will be no contributions from her to your future together.

I can see a lot of sence in what you posted. [color=#770077][/color]

PATHOLOGICALLY inlove with me. I think that is the problem. if she'll never
have a mind of her own, it simply means i'll be getting married to myself. hmmm!
i don#t want that. I have to get to the root of this and get it sorted out. thanks, Doc.

Na wa oh. we dey nice again una go complain. haba!

Absolutely abnormal and misnormal.Run!RUN!!RUN!!! FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE.Dat seems too much of a plastic lady,whose got a lot to reveal when let in(married).Even Jesus xpressed His anger,He only says don't let anger make u sin.QED.

nat138:

@ Poster,
One thing you should ask yourself is if you are a control freak, because if you are, the babe
just doesn't want any trouble from you for deferring your orders and will rather stay in your goods books.
Or as someone said, she is hopelessly in love.

Hopelessly in love? I don't think so. Loves me, yes.
I spoke to her friend and neighbour this evening, this is
what she said:
"she is a nice person, she loves people and likes to help, when
I came late from work yesterday (12am) she gave me several missed
calls and was waiting outside for me, I was looking for cash in my office.
"she sympathize with people."
She went on to say I should me with her and spend time
with her in an informal environment and see if her true self will come out. to
check how she'll treat other people.

I'll have to take my time to get to the root of this. search continues,

This is easily now.

How does she act to other people? If she is harsh to them then she is just taking her time b4 she reveals her true self to me this are the most dangerous kind.

How does she treat her own people,friends,colleagues etc you will get a clue .

Are you rich? so she is trying to hide her true feelings till when the time is right?

it is possible she's sincere afterall.

I have sort through my mind, I think I have been suffering from ego.
She loves me so much that I am not giving any room in my heart. For two
days I gave her time in my heart, its a different ball game now. She's been sincere,
I will give the two of us a chance and she'll come through.

Now that she knows how much I love her too and am relaxed with her, she's acting more
normal. All she wanted was me reassuring her that I love her. We still have some time to proove
what we have for ourself.

thank you all for your comments, I have seen clearly now.
I love her too, and I just showed it to her and she opening up
little by little, she's not hiding anymore.

I think what she wanted before was re-assurance that I
love her too. We are in a level playing field now. hurray!

What do you want? Only you can decide.

You probably have come across people who have reacted in the way you expect from them that it becomes difficult to understand why someone should have a cool disposition whenever you make effort to annoy them. People like your girl are rare, they may have the capacity to rant, but they choose a better option. Do not be in a haste to see trouble where there is none its better to be with someone who gives you peace than to be with a tyrant.

degubi:

You probably have come across people who have reacted in the way you expect from them that it becomes difficult to understand why someone should have a cool disposition whenever you make effort to annoy them. People like your girl are rare, they may have the capacity to rant, but they choose a better option. Do not be in a haste to see trouble where there is none its better to be with someone who gives you peace than to be with a tyrant.

Gbam! you are onpoint sir. (same spirit)

January 2011

the last response to this post was in October.
I have since then showed my love unbiased to her,
I think, she could not afford to loose me, coming from
the kind of background, a little troubled.

Now we may not be going out together, *break up* I mean.

Family issues. Her family are stunch, and mine, I can handle them,
but I can't turn my back on my family. but she's ready to do that.

I am afraid for her, if she does that, would she live the world alone.

*sobbing* is this the end?

Let sleeping dogs lie

marry her and see if she will be the same