@acidrop
good for you. keeping eating what you're eating.

abegoooooooooooooo am not married, just kidding around

@ acidrop
is that really you? i have a thing about putting my pic on the internet though.

yeah, datz me, abeg put ur pic, if u want 2, nothing go happen 2 am

@acidrop
i knew that. was just humoring you. ive seen ur other posts. u do sound 18.

is that a compliment, tnk u very much, so i no mature now huh?

@ acidrop
i just put up a pic of my "essence" if you see what i mean.

that 1 no be u sha

i know. its my effigy.

y, not put a real pic, its more u, abi u dey fear

i think its better to be mysterious. people are always suprised when they see me. i look different from the way i sound.

in a good way or in a , u know

@ acidrop
i would like to think in a good way.

just making sure, lol

diff strokes 4 diff folks i guess

Wow. The thought of spending my life with ONE person doesn't seem to bother me alone some of we guys often say that marriage is a highway to hell.
Just paranoid about getting married (And for a god reason). Lovelife withers like a rose with time ('xept if watered everytime, and blimey!, I aint no Gardener )

wow! Must women bring up topics of this genre? Can't believe I'll have to spend the rest of me life with ONE person, But if I do (and if most guys do), then the woman must be something else. Serriously, any woman that can get me (and most guys) to propose must be Wonderwoman or Superwoman

Tick tock tick, say the clock, why dont she start looking around at least the eggs wont be in one basket with `big holes`.

I ve learnt one thing in life, if a man approaches u its either for plain friendship or sex. The fact that he is not commiting himself shows that he wants things d way they are, so it wont be difficult for him(both) to let go when they cant cope. I understand the guy is scared of goin into something that would result in what he has seen arnd. I would advice the guy and the girl to sit and agree on this issue, if they re not resolving to anything, i would advice the lady to let go.

Where your treasure is that is where your heart is.

Marriage ain't by force and having kids either ain't by force!

I never knew there were such men out there who just want to have kids and not get married I was very sure life ain't as hard as people say it is.

The guy obviously has problems with commitment, and that could (like some have said) be explained by his parents' divorce. It's a well known fact that children can get traumatised by bad marriages/divorces etc.

That said, if it's a well known fact, why do we still get the knee-jerk condemnation of this guy by most NL girls? The guy needs help, not abuses!

it's a typical Nigerian misconception that just cos naijans don't visit shrinks as often as we see 'em do in Yankee movies, Naija ppl are immune to mental troubles. Get this guy a good shrink and he'll be proposing in good time

I will only accommodate marriage in my life if I have enough security to take a chance with all the BS that will surely surface down the road. Jumping into marriage with the usual expectation that love will cure all the ills associated with marriage is more often a recipe for unnecessary aggravation and unhappiness. The gains of marriage is completely wiped out in the face of an unstable financial security. My happiness is paramount in this short life of ours, and not to perpetuate a family lineage or some societal norm.

Can you see? And this is why i have always recommended a contract Wedding/Marriage. You need not worry about any gad-dam Man/woman. Just your kids if you care to have em. What more do one need?  

Despite d fact that truth is bitter,d guy should not b crucified for calling a spade a spade,and not a garden fork. must all relation end up in marriage? no more fling? the choice is urs, stay or leave.

Radiant's backkkkkk

and i dont know why you people on page 1 are running your mouths, dont even know if the girl has been intimate with the dude or not. typical assumption that he doesnt wanna get married cos he probably already slept with her, not always the case, so what excuses do you hav for him this time?

where dem write am 4 constitution say na by force to marry.?

ThiefOfHearts:

Radiant's backkkkkk

and i don't know why you people on page 1 are running your mouths, don't even know if the girl has been intimate with the dude or not. typical assumption that he doesnt want to get married because he probably already slept with her, not always the case, so what excuses do you hav for him this time?

Tiffy, yes I'm back


Their reason now is that "he comes from a broken home"

i will just like to add, i\m scared of that thing call marriage so please, nobody should tell me it is not true because someone might be serious yet finding it difficult to marry for diff reasons.

Actually, there are many reasons to stay single.

A friend once told me they are 2 types of girls in Naija, 1. a girl in Naija, and 2. a naija girl. i see this girl in qus as a Naija girl.personally i feel she has seen the writing on the wall but see dose not want to move on because of some other things she has seen in him that she feels other guys wont/cant have, hay girl tell your friend that A BOY THAT SAYS HIS FATHERS FARM IS THE BIGGEST IS SAYING SO because HE HAS NOT SEEN OTHER PPL FATHERS FARM. MOVEEEEEEEE ONNNNNNNN.

to be honest despite my mum and dad aint divorces, i still find it alil difficult to come to terms now whether am ganna marry or not. and my friends kinda ask mi who's the lucky woman? and when i say i aint got 1, they call mi a gay. but trust mi i anit a gay thou is just difficult not becoz i dont wanna hav kids just bcoz of wat happens in the society and wat hav seen so far in terms of marital life

nobody is obliged to get married. suit yourself.