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Help I Am Dying In Silence by MrHandsome2013: 9:14am On Jul 20, 2019
I dont know what is totally wrong with me. I am too emotional and is affecting me. I shout too much and use negative words on others. I dont feel comfortable around others. I dont go out all the time. I am always lonely. If someone provoke me, i will start keeping malice with the person and i talk sometimes without reasoning. This is really affecting me. My blood is always on high side.
Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by donbachi(m): 9:30am On Jul 20, 2019
Read books on conflict resolution and work on urself.also do more of listening than talking,have a win win discussions with others and stop allowing discussions end the way u want it.learn to say sorry when at fault..before u go kill somebody oneday.

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Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by Melison(m): 9:35am On Jul 20, 2019
Ur are 60% just like me,but I have a very loud voice though I don't shout unnecessarily,am fun to be with like am a very funny guy,that's it after staying with few people around me,I go back to being the lonely dude again,it hurts but that's who u are,if u try being quiet or forcing urself to change then it would be better u stay the way u are,they say u make or break a habit after 21 days so if u wanna change try being open,reduce your shouts, apologize and don't keep malice and etc for the next 21 days and let's see how that helps

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Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by CosmicPhoenix: 9:35am On Jul 20, 2019
you need a psychologist
Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by Melison(m): 9:37am On Jul 20, 2019
Did I forget to add that my blood is on a much higher side?? When provoked to an extent I can't even talk or I stammer but I try not to get provoked by laughing at every damn situation
Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by Nobody: 9:57am On Jul 20, 2019
all these things u saying is what is giving u high blood pressure.i suggest u take things easy.join any exercise group or fitness club around ur locality or u can enlist in a judo club and get enuf rest.make friends with positive minded ppl.if u do all this u will get calm and ur blood pressure will go down.its highly essential u get ur blood pressure down biko.
Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by Nobody: 9:58am On Jul 20, 2019
CosmicPhoenix:
you need a psychologist
in nigeria?
Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by Nobody: 10:00am On Jul 20, 2019
Melison:
Did I forget to add that my blood is on a much higher side?? When provoked to an extent I can't even talk or I stammer but I try not to get provoked by laughing at every damn situation
abeg take it easy oo.whatever dey make ur blood pressure go high do away with it asap.
Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by raphroye: 10:14am On Jul 20, 2019
MrHandsome2013:
I dont know what is totally wrong with me.
I am too emotional and is affecting me.
I shout too much and use negative words
on others.
I dont feel comfortable around others.
I dont go out all the time.
I am always lonely.
If someone provoke me, i will start keeping
malice with the person and i talk sometimes
without reasoning.
This is really affecting me.
My blood is always on high side.


Anxiety my friend....You need to work on it, get a partner (if you don't have any), make friends, go out often, worry less about future (especially things you can't change), read books on how to overcome anxiety

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Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by Melison(m): 10:20am On Jul 20, 2019
lefulefu:
abeg take it easy oo.whatever dey make ur blood pressure go high do away with it asap.
grin grin I have two sides bro,that loving funny side and the one i just explained, although I don't get angry easily unlike before,I discovered that I now tend to look at situations twice shaa,when someone annoys me sometimes I feel like hitting them or slapping the living daylight outta them but something holds me back, although sometimes I do react shaa but am working on myself and God has helped me

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Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by Nobody: 10:26am On Jul 20, 2019
Your breathing sucks. Try good breathing techniques.
Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by MrHandsome2013: 10:39am On Jul 20, 2019
Penisinpenisout:
Your breathing sucks. Try good breathing techniques.
..
How bro?
Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by Nobody: 10:54am On Jul 20, 2019
Melison:

grin grin I have two sides bro,that loving funny side and the one i just explained, although I don't get angry easily unlike before,I discovered that I now tend to look at situations twice shaa,when someone annoys me sometimes I feel like hitting them or slapping the living daylight outta them but something holds me back, although sometimes I do react shaa but am working on myself and God has helped me
abeg if u too carry things to heart for naija it will weigh u down cheesy.use more of ur funny side cheesy.
Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by Charleys: 1:23pm On Jul 20, 2019
It happens to teenagers, but if you're not a teenager then you are in need of a job. so go and get a job to keep your mind busy.
Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by MrHandsome2013: 1:29pm On Jul 20, 2019
Charleys:
It happens to teenagers, but if you're not a teenager then you are in need of a job. so go and get a job to keep your mind busy.
.
I am 32
Re: Help I Am Dying In Silence by Charleys: 1:38pm On Jul 20, 2019
MrHandsome2013:
.
I am 32

Could be midlife crises. Note. These are just guesses.
Just keep yourself busy man.

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