Hi guys.
I have decided to move on after my previous relationship crash.....so there is D's lady I knew way back in school we had a thing but it didn't really last cos it was towards tail end of my final year and service year damage things so dat ow will let go of things.

we been in touch once in awhile but never saw for more than 4yrs.......
she has an average good job with one of D's real estate company in lagos and we decided to rekindle things.
So I actually have a condition that due to past experience d burdens of the relationship will be carried by both of us(sometimes she have to also pay part of the bills)
..not me doing everything.
she accepted on Sunday Wen we met and also gave her terms as well which I also accepted.

Ds morning I got messages from her stating although she wants things to work out but she doesn't feel up to the relationship that she can't cope with the condition and if I want things with her I have to lift that condition off.

I haven't replied her yet..... have just wondering here why the sudden U turn......D's was a lady on Sunday telling me she ready to take and do things so everything can work out while eating pizza.

So I will like to no people perspective on D's before relying ....
is it healthy to give in or just lock up and move on.

Lock up and move on....she is having a double mind....she wants you to accept her condition and she doesn't want to accept yours.....

Will i even spend on a lady af nor yet fvck

If a lady have to pay she will feel cheated, The normalcy to ladies is to get paid in exchange.

Putting conditions in relationship is nt health at all. Both of you are nt just ready in d first place

ojun50:
Putting conditions in relationship is nt health at all. Both of you are nt just ready in d first place

but bro hope you know were there no law there no sin.....

You were even nice for telling he your expectation.. ordinarily, you will have observed her ones in a while and when you see she's the "always make me happy" kinda lady that doesn't think a man deserve happiness or be spoilt too a times. , you go just bounce.. gone are the days when men alone were breadwinners of the family, now are days, women are making it big time and are holding the family support down..

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