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What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by adeiza4u(m): 9:03pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
Good evening Nlanders. Just as the title of this thread implies, I wish to know the essential roles of a best man in white wedding ceremony. I've tried to avoid this responsibility but my brother won't just let me be. I'm an introvert and don't really like engaging in public discourse, and appearance except when they become unavoidable just like this one. Also, I've never featured as a best man before. Now the event is just some days away, and I don't really have a grasp of what I'll be doing on those days. I'm feeling a bit worried already because I wouldn't want to make any blunder that will turn things awkward. Please I need experiential inputs. Thanks 16 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by minexpo(m): 9:07pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
Clean sweat of the groom with handkerchief ;gossip mate..then if he's a sharp guy, he can knack the bridemates akpako Finally first to comment after 5years. ..I don blow... Mummy karo na me be this oo I dedictate this to my family& friends jare.. las las we go dey alright E no easy ...seun how far, I hear you give something 39 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by adeiza4u(m): 9:14pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
minexpo:lol, ok thanks. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by rentAcock(m): 10:33pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
That's why most people have rehearsals before the wedding to go over the important things. As a bestman your job is to stand next to the maiden bride. You will be asked to present the wedding ring in the alter and time for the reception you will enter the hall right behind the couple. For an introverted person It may seem daunting at first but i assure you everyone's attention is mostly on the bride and groom. You are just there to give your brother confidence and help avert awkward moments. Being a best man also comes with its perks, you might be paired up with a hot bride's maid and you two might start dating afterwards. Your brother may give you a special gift. But most importantly, your brother will eternally remember what you did for him. Avoid direct eye contact with the guests; make sure you drink a warm cup of tea to calm your nerves beforehand. Good luck to you. 81 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by NwaAmaikpe: 10:33pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
Ideally, Before the wedding, The bestman is the one paddy whom the groom vibes most with, someone who assists the groom in sowing his wild oats, one who knows his escapades and secrets, the one who lies to the bride for the groom and the one who knows your progress from playboy to married man. But on the wedding day, The role of a bestman is to babysit the groom and to serve as a shield to the groom. His job thay day is basically to ensure that none of the grooms' exes makes it to the altar or the high table. However in Nigeria, The bestman is usually a family member who you won't feel bad about because you had to buy him a suit. Or Any of your male friends who has the same shade of wedding suit as yourself. 168 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by AngelHoly(m): 10:33pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
He must have a white teeth and be very good in cleaning sweat.... And he is also the next of kin to the groom in case he is no more...he can take ova Lastly he must surely find his wife dat day or he will remain single forever 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by starbuck(f): 10:34pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
I am planning on doing the role of a best woman for my friend.... I am going to be in charge of the money especially giving out souvenirs if you bring nonsense and lower denomination of money 3 Likes |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by KmniAutos(m): 10:34pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
NwaAmaikpe: You no dey sleep |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by yeyeboi(m): 10:34pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
Ok |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by kings59: 10:34pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
Servicing the bride a night to the wedding. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by davidtella(m): 10:34pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
Having bested four different friends, I can conclude that the best man doesnt have any meaningful role. It is just to add glamour to the ceremony. Wear same suit with the grooom and ready to pick single babes who are ready to pick the single, handsome man. Thats all. 34 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by SojiCash(m): 10:34pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
Keeping the groom look cute always all day |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by Kennyfancy(m): 10:35pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
Ok |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
He's there so to give confidence to the groom and not to do silly things when all eyes are on you Drabeey was Here |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by deepwater(f): 10:36pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
davidtella: Oga goan marry o 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by Imoh555(m): 10:36pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
For formality sake The groom can still have his ring in his pocket |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by ManIzHot: 10:36pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
I am following this thread bumper to bumper, cause I am besting a friend too this year, Though I had already googled the role of a good best man and I was able to grab some reasonable info...you can also do that 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
He is the Assistant Husband. #Simple 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by Lexusgs430: 10:38pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
Deputy of the day........ Your roles plenty...... When president is engaged, VP takes control.... 4 Likes |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by tigerclaws: 10:38pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
to press breast just dey hungry me 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by fergie001: 10:38pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
Many people for this thread no welll.........honestly Including me.... |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by Nobody: 10:39pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
NwaAmaikpe:[b] FACT! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by tigerclaws: 10:39pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
deepwater:i want to have sex with you |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by davidtella(m): 10:39pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
deepwater: I think its actually time but I am still searching |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
And OP had to use the photo of Paw Paw beating Aki. Meannnnnnnnnnnnnn! |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by Skmoda360(m): 10:41pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
AngelHoly:Trash.......code 99, I will call bro Seun for you ooo.....this is a trash opinion.... |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by seguno2: 10:41pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
davidtella: He is there to marry the bride if the groom is no longer available for any reason. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by seguno2: 10:42pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
AngelHoly: Exactly 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by Acedave1(m): 10:43pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
davidtella:And you never marry? |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by Goldenheart(m): 10:43pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
Re: What Are The Essential Roles Of A Best Man? by Lovelyn451(f): 10:44pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
Clean 2 Likes |
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