Hello,am new here n will really appreci8 ur kind advice.
This isn't  my 1st luv but w him i feel so secure n save n i don't want 2 loose him.
U might wonder what i mean but hear is my story.
I had a r/ship 4 6yrs n lost it 2 distance, i consider we parted ways.I parted ways w my ex for God knows y cos till now i still wonder what went wrong btw us.
Now i found mysef inlove w another guy whom also stays in another state. In d 1st,i found it hard 2 love again but now am in love n didn't want 2 loose him.I found it difficult seein him whenever i wish though we talk regularly on phone but due 2 my work,i don't av much chance travellin 2 see him.This is d 10th month we v met but av seen only 3 times(twice 4rm me n ones 4rm him)
Pls help

this love sef is so over-rated . Live free is my motto

iice:

Sorry can't make out the crux of the matter, is it that you are afraid that long distance will make you loose this relationship as it made you loose the previous one?

Yes

NymphoQin:

this love sef is so over-rated . Live free is my motto

Dear its easier said than done but once u r been arrested by love,there is nothin like living free again. Pray i av ur gut.

dear4dear:

YesDear its easier said than done but once you're been arrested by love,there is nothin like living free again. Pray i av your gut.

WHAT SO LOVE NA POLICE WEY DEY ARREST, WELL IF THAT IS THE CASE GIVE LOVE EGUNJE AND YOU WILL BE FREE TO GO.

dollyp1cute:

WHAT SO LOVE NA POLICE WEY DEY ARREST, WELL IF THAT IS THE CASE GIVE LOVE EGUNJE AND YOU WILL BE FREE TO GO.

if i av my way,i 4 give am more than EGUNJE even if it demand EGUNMU i no go worry but dear think LOVE is no Naija Police.
Pls,this is a serious matter in my life.Just don't want 2 loose d happiness am feelin again.

@poster
Never be afraid of d unseen. Put ur past behind u n move on w d present.Think u had an experience w ur ex,use dat as a guideline 4 ur new found love n alwaz remembwer that "Happiness is a thing of d mind,U can b happy w whoever u choose 2 b happy w".
Show him u love him n will alwaz want him 2 b part of ur life.Let him know what u want of d relationship n device a method of seein each other atleast ones in 2month.
I am sure d guy can't b blind 2 see u truely love him.Move on w life.Wish u luck.

@poster, distance has its issues oh, but i suppose u gotta deccide whether or not u r READY to love again
and whether u are ready for the whole Distance relationship thing and its troubles, if u no get mind, i go tell u to leave am, bco dat one is for the strong hearted.