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UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by ubunja(m): 5:28am On Jul 26
The Sweetest Thing In The Universe.


PROLOGUE.
All women know that all the social advantages and special treatments they enjoy are because of what they have between their legs. They know that if they didn't have that Golden Vagina, men would not even bother talking to them. Most men don't even like women, they just want to get laid.

NON SEXUAL ATTENTION.
And so, in a world where their God-given pussy is relentlessly pursued by men, both for pleasure and for procreation; women come to value tremendously those interactions with men that have as little sexual motives as possible.

Those platonic talks women have with men that are guaranteed to lead NOWHERE sexually are as refreshing as the summer rain on the Serengeti. A man who deals with a woman in the least sexual manner becomes important. His conversation is honey because finally, a woman is treated like a normal human being not a sex thing.

With such a man women can lower their guard, relax their defenses and for once enjoy the company of a member of the opposite sex without having to "watch their pussy". His compliments, his praises and his appreciations are genuine. They're not given to flatter and trick anyone into opening their legs.

A woman will have long conversations on WhatsApp and whatnot with such a man. Even staying up all night. Just chatting.

But this is where it all goes wrong for the man.

As he gives a woman all his time and energy, he disqualifies himself from getting the one Thing he really wants from her: the Golden Vagina. Because the more time a man gives a woman outside of sex, the less chances a woman will give him sex. You see, Pussy is the sweetest thing men know, but Dick is not the sweetest thing women know. That honor goes to something called ATTENTION. Of the non sexual variety.

Non Sexual Attention. Attention from a man but that doesn't lead to sex. Attention outside of sex. This type of attention here: compliments (they raise her self-esteem) "Can I carry your bag" (it makes her life easier), "Can I take you halfway through the dark street?" (it makes her life safer), "Here, take my seat, I will stand" (it makes her life more comfortable). All these gestures and their ilk are more important to women than sex. Because women feel validated as normal human beings not just sex objects. Women dress provocatively for this, not for sex. They use Sexual Attention to get Non Sexual Attention. Women use cleavage, short skirts etc to get men to do them favours that have NOTHING to do with sex.

Non Sexual Attention is the sweetest thing in the Universe for women. While Sexual Attention is sweetest for men.

It is when a guy does Non Sexual favours for women (like opening doors, buying birthday cards) that women remark, "He's such a sweet guy!". Because really that's sweet of him to do those things for women, cause all the other guys just want to fvck women. Women prefer to have such a sweet guy as a FRIEND not a lover. Not because they judge him unworthy of the Pussy but because to women A PLATONIC FRIENDSHIP WITH A MAN IS INFINITELY MORE REWARDING THAN A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM. Men chase sex, women chase commitment but a man who gets himself friendzoned has offered COMMITMENT without demanding SEX in return. Such a guy is pure gold to women.

This is not to say women don't enjoy sex. They do. More than men even. But between accepting your Dick and accepting your attention, women will choose your attention ANY DAY. And as a man you must start charging accordingly

STOP GIVING YOUR ATTENTION FOR FREE.
Your attention is your most valuable asset.

How do TV channels make their billions? How do magazines and newspapers make their profits? How do YouTube videos generate revenue? Through advertisements. Which rely on ------------> Your Attention.

You just looking. Nothing more.

Everything from news to propaganda to movies all need your attention. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram all need your attention.

Facebook is free. And it always will be. But free as it is, last year 2018, the Social Network made a staggering 56 billion US dollars. How? By selling to other businesses what YOU give it for free. And what is that? Your attention. Your time.

Your attention, something that seems so useless and frivolous to you that you're throwing everywhere willy-nilly is pure gold to businesses.

Best believe it's pure gold to women as well

YOUR ATTENTION IS EQUAL TO HER PUSSY.
Men only give attention to pretty women but will have sex with any woman. Women only have sex with top men but want attention from any man. A man's attention has the same worth as a woman's pussy - it's only reserved for the best.

Just as men only admire the best woman but will fvck any woman who offers; so women take attention from any man who offers, but will only fvck the best man. Women's "look but don't touch" policy crystalizes this: Everyone is free to look but only a select few get to touch.

THE WAR FOR YOUR ATTENTION.
Women's movements like Body Positivity, itself rooted in the Fat Acceptance movement, seek to police men's attention by reprogramming men to give attention not only to pretty women but also to those unpretty.

The Unpretty among women (Fat and Ugly women), do get plenty of sex because men will fvck anything (even the ugliest women somehow end up pregnant). But what these women don't get is attention OUTSIDE of sex: Non Sexual Attention. Non sexual attention will be the compliments, the praises, the favours and the helping hand women get publicly from men eg free drinks and free lifts. Ugly and fat women get none of these but guys will still fvck them. That's the bone of contention.

Without Non Sex Attention a woman only gets Sexual Attention which makes her a Sex Object. Which is the unfortunate situation Fat and Ugly women find themselves in. That's why the most vocal women in the battle against sexual objectification are Ugly and Fat women. Because sex is literally the only thing they're getting from men.

Fat and ugly women have the cooperation of men in the bedroom, but out in the World they're on their own. No man buys an ugly woman a drink. No man gives a fat woman a lift. That fat and ugly girl you only meet and fvck at night, it stings her that during the day you act like you don't know her. That's the bone of contention.

GIVING ATTENTION = NO SEX FOR YOU.
The more you give a woman your Non Sexual Attention, the less chances she'll give you sex. Why? Because she knows she's supposed to EARN this type of attention. With her pussy. There's nothing for free. Just as you're supposed to earn a woman's pussy she's supposed to earn your favour.

That girl you're spending hours chatting with on WhatsApp is a girl who's seeing no reason to give you sex. You're giving her for free the Attention and Validation she usually gets by having sex with a guy, so why must she bother having sex with you? You're already giving her free of charge what she usually opens her legs to get.

Ever had sex with a girl then after she told you she just wants to be friends? As crazy as it may sound, that sex was her BUYING your friendship. All male-female friendships must start that way or it's a Friendzone. The Friendzone is in effect a woman's Harem. Those men on her phone eveready everyday to talk about anything and everything are the male equivalent of sex slaves.

STOP GIVING YOUR FRIENDSHIP FOR FREE.
By nature, women use sex to get attention because pussy is the only thing of value they have that men want, while attention is the only thing of value men can give that women want.

Ever wonder why if you starve your GF of attention she'll have sex with another guy? Why does she not simply get the guy's attention since attention is what you're starving her of? But instead she goes for the guy's Dick? It's because your neglected GF is PAYING for the guy's attention with her pussy.

Not that your girl is consciously aware of the pay principle at play.

But this concept of women buying men's friendship with sex is something we all know at the most basic level. That's why people don't believe a Man and a Woman can be friends without having sex. Sex must happen for the friendship to happen.

One day I was talking to this girl and she was telling me about a certain guy friend of hers she was doing business with. When l asked if she had slept with the guy she replied quite casually, "Yes we had sex, to GET IT OUT OF THE WAY".
It fascinated me. She had paid for the friendship with sex!! And that's how it should be.

Because a woman values your friendship as much as you value her pussy; she must pay to be your friend just as you must pay to have sex with her. Nothing is for free. Never accept friendship with a girl that doesn't start with sex, because a girl will never accept sex that doesn't start with a friendship. Nothing is for free.

If a girl introduces herself to you asking to be your friend, make every effort to have sex with her. If she rejects your advances reject her friendship. You just dodged a friendzone bullet. Remember, in ALL male-female relationships, platonic or romantic, it's always the female who benefits more.

GET SEXUAL ATTENTION FOR YOUR NON SEXUAL ATTENTION.
Next time a woman asks for help with something like her bag, jokingly ask what will you get in return. If she asks what is it that you want, or whatever answer she gives, in a playful manner tell her a kiss will do. Then see where it goes. If she has those pillow breasts tell her a hug is all the payment you need. Such things. That's how you make women pay sexually for the favours you do for them. Forget about the phone numbers. She'll ignore you on WhatsApp anyways. Get paid NOW. And move on with your life.

IN THE FINAL ANALYSIS.
With women, Everything begins with attention.

Women love money but the man who gives them money first gives them attention. They love power but to get the power they must first get the attention of the man with the power. Attention is the foundation on which women build everything. Without getting a man's attention they can get nothing from him.

Men love to look at women. Women love to be looked at by men. The joy of men is in looking, which drives them to porn sites. The joy of women is to be looked at, which drives them to Social Media. Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat etc are the women's Xvideos, PornHub and XHmaster.

TRUE MONOGAMY.
Women value attention and want more of it from different men; Men value sex and want more of it from different women. A woman can choose the attention of 1 man just as a man can choose sex with 1 woman. When a man and a woman can do this, that's true monogamy.
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by ubunja(m): 5:30am On Jul 26
The message that inspired this thread

AussiePlayboy:
Let me contribute some other points to this thread.

For women, they believe the epitome of their value is right between their legs. When a woman has sex with you, she is basically submitting to you. It is why you will notice that when you fight with your girl, especially where you acted all weak, nd she turns you around. Even if you guys "reconcile" She will just not want to have sex with you. It's her way of saying. You are not yet masculine enough in her eyes for her to submit. Buying gifts, flowers etc, being a puszy boy does nothing. It only gives her more of your nonsexual attention, thereby loosing your sexual value in her eyes.
She will then avoid being in romantic situations with you, but will be very interested in situations that please her. At that point, you are her walking goofball.

Mistake most guys make is that they look at this thing logically. They try to have "conversations" and "discussions" to understand the fight- Hell No. They try to rationalize and deduce and expect her to think the same and still feel romantically attracted. In fact, most times, she will flake on you, gaslight you, resent you the more leaving you confused.

You always need to show True Masculine Calm Strength
.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by Imoh555(m): 6:31am On Jul 26
ubunja:
The Sweetest Thing In The Universe.


PROLOGUE.
All women know that all the social advantages and special treatments they enjoy are because of what they have between their legs. They know that if they didn't have that Golden Vagina, men would not even bother talking to them. Most men don't even like women, they just want to get laid.

NON SEXUAL ATTENTION.
And so, in a world where their God-given pussy is relentlessly pursued by men, both for pleasure and for procreation; women come to value tremendously those interactions with men that have as little sexual motives as possible.

Those platonic talks women have with men that are guaranteed to lead NOWHERE sexually are as refreshing as the summer rain on the Serengeti. A man who deals with a woman in the least sexual manner becomes important. His conversation is honey because finally, a woman is treated like a normal human being not a sex thing.

With such a man women can lower their guard, relax their defenses and for once enjoy the company of a member of the opposite sex without having to "watch their pussy". His compliments, his praises and his appreciations are genuine. They're not given to flatter and trick anyone into opening their legs.

A woman will have long conversations on WhatsApp and whatnot with such a man. Even staying up all night. Just chatting.

But this is where it all goes wrong for the man.

As he gives a woman all his time and energy, he disqualifies himself from getting the one Thing he really wants from her: the Golden Vagina. Because the more time a man gives a woman outside of sex, the less chances a woman will give him sex. You see, Pussy is the sweetest thing men know, but Dick is not the sweetest thing women know. That honor goes to something called ATTENTION. Of the non sexual variety.

Non Sexual Attention. Attention from a man but that doesn't lead to sex. Attention outside of sex. This type of attention here: compliments (they raise her self-esteem) "Can I carry your bag" (it makes her life easier), "Can I take you halfway through the dark street?" (it makes her life safer), "Here, take my seat, I will stand" (it makes her life more comfortable). All these gestures and their ilk are more important to women than sex. Because women feel validated as normal human beings not just sex objects. Women dress provocatively for this, not for sex. They use Sexual Attention to get Non Sexual Attention. Women use cleavage, short skirts etc to get men to do them favours that have NOTHING to do with sex.

Non Sexual Attention is the sweetest thing in the Universe for women. While Sexual Attention is sweetest for men.

It is when a guy does Non Sexual favours for women (like opening doors, buying birthday cards) that women remark, "He's such a sweet guy!". Because really that's sweet of him to do those things for women, cause all the other guys just want to fvck women. Women prefer to have such a sweet guy as a FRIEND not a lover. Not because they judge him unworthy of the Pussy but because to women A PLATONIC FRIENDSHIP WITH A MAN IS INFINITELY MORE REWARDING THAN A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM. Men chase sex, women chase commitment but a man who gets himself friendzoned has offered COMMITMENT without demanding SEX in return. Such a guy is pure gold to women.

This is not to say women don't enjoy sex. They do. More than men even. But we're saying: Between accepting your Dick and accepting your attention, women will choose your attention ANY DAY. And as a man you must start charging accordingly

STOP GIVING YOUR ATTENTION FOR FREE.
Your attention is your most valuable asset.

How do TV channels make their billions? How do magazines and newspapers make their profits? How do YouTube videos generate revenue? Through advertisements. Which rely on ------------> Your Attention.

You just looking. Nothing more.

Everything from news to propaganda to movies all need your attention. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram all need your attention.

Facebook is free. And it always will be. But free as it is, last year 2018, the Social Network made a staggering 56 billion US dollars. How? By selling to other businesses what YOU give it for free. And what is that? Your attention. Your time.

Your attention, something that seems so useless and frivolous to you that you're throwing everywhere willy-nilly is pure gold to businesses.

Best believe it's pure gold to women as well

YOUR ATTENTION IS EQUAL TO HER PUSSY.
Men only give attention to pretty women but will have sex with any woman. Women only have sex with top men but want attention from any man. A man's attention has the same worth as a woman's pussy - it's only reserved for the best.

Just as men only admire the best woman but will fvck any woman who offers; so women take attention from any man who offers, but will only fvck the best man. Women's "look but don't touch" policy crystalizes this: Everyone is free to look but only a select few get to touch.

THE WAR FOR YOUR ATTENTION.
Women's movements like Body Positivity, itself rooted in the Fat Acceptance movement, seek to police men's attention by reprogramming men to give attention not only to pretty women but also to those unpretty.

The Unpretty among women (Fat and Ugly women), do get plenty sex because men will fvck anything (even the ugliest women somehow end up pregnant). But what these women don't get is attention OUTSIDE of sex: Non Sexual Attention. Non sexual attention will be the compliments, the praises, the favours and the helping hand women get publicly from men eg free drinks and free lifts. Ugly and fat women get none of these but guys will still fvck them. That's the bone of contention.

Without Non Sex Attention a woman only gets Sexual Attention which makes her a Sex Object. Which is the unfortunate situation Fat and Ugly women find themselves in. That's why the most vocal women in the battle against sexual objectification are Ugly and Fat women. Because sex is literally the only thing they're getting from men.

Fat and ugly women have the cooperation of men in the bedroom, but out in the World they're on their own. No man buys an ugly woman a drink. No man gives a fat woman a lift. That fat and ugly girl you only meet and fvck at night, it stings her that during the day you act like you don't know her. That's the bone of contention.

GIVING ATTENTION = NO SEX FOR YOU.
The more you give a woman your Non Sexual Attention, the less chances she'll give you sex. Why? Because she knows she's supposed to EARN this type of attention. With her pussy. There's nothing for free. Just as you're supposed to earn a woman's pussy she's supposed to earn your favour.

That girl you're spending hours chatting with on WhatsApp is a girl who's seeing no reason to give you sex. You're giving her for free the Attention and Validation she usually gets by having sex with a guy, so why must she bother having sex with you? You're already giving her free of charge what she usually opens her legs to get.

Ever had sex with a girl then after she told you she just wants to be friends? As crazy as it may sound, that sex was her BUYING your friendship. All male-female friendships must start that way or it's a Friendzone. The Friendzone is in effect a woman's Harem. Those men on her phone eveready everyday to talk about anything and everything are the male equivalent of sex slaves.

STOP GIVING YOUR FRIENDSHIP FOR FREE.
By nature, women use sex to get attention because pussy is the only thing of value they have that men want, while attention is the only thing of value men can give that women want.

Ever wonder why if you starve your GF of attention she'll have sex with another guy? Why does she not simply get the guy's attention since attention is what you're starving her of? But instead she goes for the guy's Dick? It's because your neglected GF is PAYING for the guy's attention with her pussy.

Not that your girl is consciously aware of the pay principle at play.

But this concept of women buying men's friendship with sex is something we all know at the most basic level. That's why people don't believe a Man and a Woman can be friends without having sex. Sex must happen for the friendship to happen.

One day I was talking to this girl and she was telling me about a certain guy friend of hers she was doing business with. When l asked if she had slept with the guy she replied quite casually, "Yes we had sex, to GET IT OUT OF THE WAY".
It fascinated me. She had paid for the friendship with sex!! And that's how it should be.

Because a woman values your friendship as much as you value her pussy; she must pay to be your friend just as you must pay to have sex with her. Nothing is for free. Never accept friendship with a girl that doesn't start with sex, because a girl will never accept sex that doesn't start with a friendship. Nothing is for free.

If a girl introduces herself to you asking to be your friend, make every effort to have sex with her. If she rejects your advances reject her friendship. You just dodged a friendzone bullet. Remember, in ALL male-female relationships, platonic or romantic, it's always the female who benefits more.

GET SEXUAL ATTENTION FOR YOUR NON SEXUAL ATTENTION.
Next time a woman asks for help with something like her bag, jokingly ask what will you get in return. If she asks what is it that you want, or whatever answer she gives, in a playful manner tell her a kiss will do. Then see where it goes. If she has those pillow breasts tell her a hug is all the payment you need. Such things. That's how you make women pay sexually for the favours you do for them. Forget about the phone numbers. She'll ignore you on WhatsApp anyways. Get paid NOW. And move on with your life.

IN THE FINAL ANALYSIS.
With women, Everything begins with attention.

Women love money but the man who gives them money first gives them attention. They love power but to get the power they must first get the attention of the man with the power. Attention is the foundation on which women build everything. Without getting a man's attention they can get nothing from him.

Men love to look at women. Women love to be looked at by men. The joy of men is in looking, which drives them to porn sites. The joy of women is to be looked at, which drives them to Social Media. Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat etc are the women's Xvideos, PornHub and XHmaster.

TRUE MONOGAMY.
Women value attention and want more of it from different men; Men value sex and want more of it from different women. A woman can choose the attention of 1 man just as a man can choose sex with 1 woman. When a man and a woman can do this, that's true monogamy.
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Plenty oil dey your head Ubunja darling

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by H2Ossss(m): 6:58am On Jul 26
Word...

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by fcdgrand(m): 7:15am On Jul 26
promise made, promise keep, thank you ubunja

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by ubunja(m): 7:44am On Jul 26
fcdgrand:
promise made, promise keep, thank you ubunja
yep.

It was Attention & Validation. But had time to deal only with Attention. I will do the Validation part soon

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by 1234IKECHhukwu: 7:53am On Jul 26
Ubunja, sometimes I think u re a ghost & not a human,from the way u analyze the philosophy of this our so called women.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by ubunja(m): 8:03am On Jul 26
1234IKECHhukwu:
Ubunja, sometimes I think u re a ghost & not a human,from the way u analyze philosophy of this our so called women.
lmfao. I hear you bro

Hope you having a good day so far
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by Chrisjay1998: 8:33am On Jul 26
Seriously this guy Ubunja is really making waves with his topics and bursting my head this morning, More Power to you bro .I wil keep following your posts

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by FEGEITOK: 8:53am On Jul 26
So if you have given her all this attention for nothing in return or next to nothing in return, what's the way out OP?

Others feel free to comment

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by 1234IKECHhukwu: 8:58am On Jul 26
ubunja:
lmfao. I hear you bro

Hope you having a good day so far
Of course.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by ubunja(m): 9:01am On Jul 26
Chrisjay1998:
Seriously this guy Ubunja is really making waves with his topics and bursting my head this morning, More Power to you bro .I wil keep following your posts
Chris good to know bro.stay blessed
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by skywalker240(m): 9:42am On Jul 26
Chrisjay1998:
Seriously this guy Ubunja is really making waves with his topics and bursting my head this morning, More Power to you bro .I wil keep following your posts
Ubunja and Harddon are one of the few writers in this forum that have my respect.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by LeBlanc36(m): 9:55am On Jul 26
UBUNJA!!! You again? Wisdom will not kill you.
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by PUSSYHOE(m): 10:27am On Jul 26
This guy is a god!!!!!

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by ubunja(m): 1:01pm On Jul 26
FEGEITOK:
So if you have given her all this attention for nothing in return or next to nothing in return, what's the way out OP?

Others feel free to comment
that will be the Friendzone. Escape possibility: 0.000000000001%
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by ubunja(m): 1:02pm On Jul 26
LeBlanc36:
UBUNJA!!! You again? Wisdom will not kill you.
let's free as many men will desire to be freed.
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by ubunja(m): 1:04pm On Jul 26
PUSSYHOE:
This guy is a god!!!!!
very funny


Let's just keep these people starved of attention.

Instagram just made things harder for hoes. It removed the Likes and hid them and hoes are having meltdowns.

I meant to include that but somehow I forgot.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by KiingShay(m): 1:11pm On Jul 26
Mind blowing piece!! UBUNJA, you must be a descendant of Solomon lol

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by ubunja(m): 1:46pm On Jul 26
KiingShay:
Mind blowing piece!! UBUNJA, you must be a descendant of Solomon lol
as Long as you refering to the Harem part. You know the 800 concubines thing. Thats Harem Goals right there
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by juniho71(m): 1:50pm On Jul 26
Your attention, something that seems so useless and frivolous to you that you're throwing everywhere willy-nilly is pure gold to businesses.


Thanks Ubunja.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by BLUEJAYY: 3:12pm On Jul 26
All your posts today are on point. Way to go. smiley

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by joeeee240(m): 3:30pm On Jul 26
Amazing write up ubunja. I love this. Please I have a few questions.

1) Seems there's a thin line between attention and validation. What's the difference really and if there is Please can you do a thread on attention.

2) you said if a woman asks for a favour you should jokingly ask for a kiss.

@) if she refuses, what do you do or say next? Do you still help her carry the stuff or you smile and walk away or what?
b) In your experience, do how do they react when you jokingly ask for a kiss?

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by jackals(f): 3:46pm On Jul 26
skywalker240:

Ubunja and Harddon are one of the few writers in this forum that have my respect.

Harddon has it. Even tho the guy is full of himself, but he's very smart.
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by ubunja(m): 3:48pm On Jul 26
joeeee240:
Amazing write up ubunja. I love this. Please I have a few questions.

1) Seems there's a thin line between attention and validation. What's the difference really and if there is Please can you do a thread on attention.

2) you said if a woman asks for a favour you should jokingly ask for a kiss.

@) if she refuses, what do you do or say next? Do you still help her carry the stuff or you smile and walk away or what?
b) In your experience, do how do they react when you jokingly ask for a kiss?
there will be a writeup on Validation. I was supposed to make it into one post.

Validation is different but yes it goes hand in hand with Attention

2) it's not about the kiss but about making her know you're not a Volunteering Slave. If she acts shocked on the kiss then ask her what she has in mind. That's very important.

If she has nothing to give but a Thank You then walk away unless you get validation from helping women. Which is simping.

I can't tell you my record with kisses. Just ask and see. No harm in asking is there?

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by joeeee240(m): 3:56pm On Jul 26
ubunja:
there will be a writeup on Validation. I was supposed to make it into one post.

Validation is different but yes it goes hand in hand with validation.

2) it's not about the kiss but about making her know you're not a Volunteering Slave. If she acts shocked on the kiss then ask her what she has in mind. That's very important.

If she has nothing to give but a Thank You then walk away unless you get validation from helping women. Which is simping.

I can't tell you my record with kisses. Just ask and see. No harm in asking is there?

Ok.. thank you very much. So let's say you ask her what she has in mind and she says "a hug" or she says something that she can't do right there at the moment.

If it's a hug or something she can do immediately. Do you hug her then help her carry her stuff? Or......

If she says something that she can't do right there or immediately, what do you do next?
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by ubunja(m): 4:05pm On Jul 26
joeeee240:


Ok.. thank you very much. So let's say you ask her what she has in mind and she says "a hug" or she says something that she can't do right there at the moment.

If it's a hug or something she can do immediately. Do you hug her then help her carry her stuff? Or......

If she says something that she can't do right there or immediately, what do you do next?
that's the thing about Game. It's not about memorizing scripts and actions. I can't tell you what to do down to each and every step.

Just do what feels RIGHT at that moment. Right for YOU. what do you prefer? You are the driver in every situation.

Just be quick to think on your feet. Also have wit.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by bobokeshington: 4:13pm On Jul 26
masterpiece

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by joeeee240(m): 5:26pm On Jul 26
ubunja:
that's the thing about Game. It's not about memorizing scripts and actions. I can't tell you what to do down to each and every step.

Just do what feels RIGHT at that moment. Right for YOU. what do you prefer? You are the driver in every situation.

Just be quick to think on your feet. Also have wit.

Alright.. thank you.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by ubunja(m): 5:36pm On Jul 26
BLUEJAYY:
All your posts today are on point. Way to go. smiley
bluejayy thanx bro

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by Momoney77: 5:44pm On Jul 26
joeeee240:


Alright.. thank you.


Visit HARDDON thread on dating drills, Ubunja will give you the blueprint, you can get the step by step method there.
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Sweetest Thing In The Universe by joeeee240(m): 9:30pm On Jul 26
Momoney77:


Visit HARDDON thread on dating drills, Ubunja will give you the blueprint, you can get the step by step method there.

I follow the thread. It doesn't address this situation.

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