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| Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by amyswet: 3:42pm On Oct 15, 2010 |
as a girl do u tink it is wort dating your fathers friend for love,money or anything |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by grpCaptain(m): 10:03pm On Oct 30, 2010 |
It's Fine I believe. I think everyone is free to date whomever they like as long as the relationship is consensual. For muslims, we have several examples from the time of the Prophet where most of the Sahabas (disciples) marry the daughters of their friends. The Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) gave his daughter Fatimah in marriage to Ali and Abdullah gave his daughter, Aisha to the Prophet as well. If you are doing it for love, that's excellent. If it's for money, it's okay if you have some love for him, but for other things I don't know except you want to elaborate further on that. |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by Freiburger(m): 10:19pm On Oct 30, 2010 |
Tt is wrong . |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by grpCaptain(m): 4:16pm On Oct 31, 2010 |
What is wrong about it? I am getting sick of people taking their gospel from the media and politically correct organizations that condemns anything that they don't like for one gain or another. Since Mary mother of Jesus was pregnant at 13 years old, they may one day start claiming that God is a pedophile. If a girl comes of age and want to date a man and not another woman, should we not rejoice that she's taking that route instead of the lesbian path. @ Poster If you love the man go ahead and date him. Don't suppress your love because of what somebody said or not. After-all love is sweet and you will never be fulfilled until you love someone and hopefully the person love you back. |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by Orikinla(m): 4:27pm On Oct 31, 2010 |
It is unethical. My friend's daughter who is at UNILAG likes me a lot and is always coming to visit me in the office. She is getting too close for comfort. But I have to remain a good uncle to her. |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by grpCaptain(m): 8:31pm On Oct 31, 2010 |
Orikinla, On the basis of which ethic? |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by james1(m): 9:00pm On Oct 31, 2010 |
if it won't hurt your father's pride and your concience is not killing you about it. There really are some dads who don't think it is a big deal. I can give a thought if it is marriage not my friend"bashing"my daugther and leaving her. |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by omega25red(m): 9:08pm On Oct 31, 2010 |
you can date whom ever you want as long as it's consensual. But personally i will have a problem with a good friend of mine dating my daughter. i mean how long have you been checking her out ? and how can we be friends when you a grown man is bedding my daughter. i dont know if there is a religious reason to my feelings but i know thats how i feel about the situation. i wouldn't care if my daughter dated a man my age as long as he isn't a friend of mine who probably knew or was there when my kid was born i would be so grossed out |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by ZIMDRILL(m): 9:18pm On Oct 31, 2010 |
grpCaptain: can you quote me trhe verse which says mary was 13 |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by Odunnu: 9:21pm On Oct 31, 2010 |
As a pretty young woman,my elder sounded it very well into my ears that there are 3 sets of men I must never date. . . 1. His friends 2. Married men 3. My boyfriend's friends/relatives. Dating my dad's friend?i'l never think it. |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by Odunnu: 9:22pm On Oct 31, 2010 |
As a pretty young woman,my elder sounded it very well into my ears that there are 3 sets of men I must never date. . . 1. His friends 2. Married men 3. My boyfriend's friends/relatives. Dating my dad's friend?i'l never think it. |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by grpCaptain(m): 1:11am On Nov 01, 2010 |
ZIM_DRILL, Mary's age was not mentioned in the bible, but most historical account pegged her age at between 12-14 years old. Mary was between 7-9 years old when she was committed to Joseph . You can google it and I am sure it is authentic enough by all accounts. Odunnu, You said; As a pretty young woman,my elder sounded it very well into my ears that there are 3 sets of men I must never date. . . 1. His friends 2. Married men 3. My boyfriend's friends/relatives. I can understand number 3, since having a boyfriend already eliminate other people from the picture, but what is the problem with dating your Father's friend? If your Father's friend is upright, good looking, responsible and loving, why would you turn him down? Why do you have to impose on yourself what God or the law of the land has not imposed on you? omega25red, You Said: i wouldn't care if my daughter dated a man my age as long as he isn't a friend of mine who probably knew or was there when my kid was born i would be so grossed out You seems to be putting things upside down. If you are responsible, I believe your friends too are. Since bird of the same feather flocks together. Perhaps, you have some control if your friend is the person in the picture. On the other hand, you have absolutely no control if your daughter is dating an asshole. Either way somebody will be checking out your daughter. It all depend on whether you like your daughter to date someone whom the family has some leverage upon or a random jackass. |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by SALady(f): 8:20am On Nov 01, 2010 |
@Topic, YES! if you really HATE your father that much. |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by Nobody: 8:34am On Nov 01, 2010 |
Sure you can and wait until your 17-18 year old daughter fall in-love with your husband's 50-60 year old friend or your son to your same aged friend. |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by DonXavi(m): 10:19am On Nov 01, 2010 |
Once my friend starts going out with my daughter that would mean he prefer the end of our friendship to his relationship with my daughter. you cannot be going out with my daughter and at the same time expect me to be close to you as usual,  |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by juman(m): 12:42pm On Nov 01, 2010 |
SA Lady: |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by amyswet: 7:48pm On Nov 01, 2010 |
realy i sense danger dating your fathers friend, my friend had this idea an am stuck advising her, so tanks pees for your advice |
| Re: Is It Wort Dating Ur Fathers Friend by yeye4live(m): 1:05pm On Nov 02, 2010 |
grpCaptain: so many things are wrong about it |
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