Hey people. Just wanted to ask if anyone knows how to block an email address if its possible. I am still getting email abuse from my ex and i cant take it anymore. So cruel, so mean and i want to stop him from being able to email me. Ive blocked him on msn and phone but need to stop him completely. Geez i hope its not a trait for Nigerian guys who goes crazy mean when a girl walks for good reasons. Ive never experienced this before. Any advice on how to stop it would be greatly appreciated.

Its a pity sister,thats what we get from allowing a black brother steal our hearts even for 10seconds.

Tink_sh:

Hey people. Just wanted to ask if anyone knows how to block an email address if its possible. I am still getting email abuse from my ex and i cant take it anymore. So cruel, so mean and i want to stop him from being able to email me. Ive blocked him on msn and phone but need to stop him completely. Geez i hope its not a trait for Nigerian guys who goes crazy mean when a girl walks for good reasons. Ive never experienced this before. Any advice on how to stop it would be greatly appreciated.

Tink_sh sorry to hear this.

Maybe if you add his emails to your blocked list that will be enough to give you some relief, OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND.

The kind of harassment your experiencing is not a Nigerian thing or even a gender thing, sadly some people are just VENGEFUL and cannot let go.
Hopefully, he will get bored and stop.

report a couple of his e-mails as spam

Madlady has said it all.
Change your email address if nothing works and you don't want him shake down/threatened  by the cops

Thanks Odunna, Inked nerd and madlady for your support. Madlady, where do i find the blocked list? Ill go into email and see if i can find such a thing. Or is it on the computer itself.

Im not very good with the technical side of computers. Good idea sugar pp i will see if i can do that.

Thanks jaybee, ive had this email for over ten years and everyone has it, but i guess if it gives me some peace i may have to resort to that.

Ok, it just sucks bad that i have to but i need peace. My heart stops everytime my phone goes off or an email comes up and am so relieved when its not him but the tension is making me ill. Thanks a bunch, you guys rock!!!

^^^ A Nigeria, so sorry to hear that, well dont change your email, anything you kept for ten years is suppose to be special, just do the bloack things as other have suggested.

blocking is only temporary as he might as well change his ID and resume another stalking bender.
Best way for closure no matter how hard is for you to change the email addy.
Good luck

Tink_sh:

Thanks Odunna, Inked nerd and madlady for your support. Madlady,

where do i find the blocked list?

Ill go into email and see if i can find such a thing. Or is it on the computer itself.

Im not very good with the technical side of computers. Good idea sugar pp i will see if i can do that.

Thanks jaybee, ive had this email for over ten years and everyone has it, but i guess if it gives me some peace i may have to resort to that.

Find one of the emails he sent you, click the button at the top of the page called "spam" then click the button saying "add to blocked list".

You will still get them but you wont need to see or read them.

You can also adjust your email settings so that all spam on your blocked list will be immediately removed .

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'hiding from my eyes' is perfect!! Thank you so much.  I dont want to see them at all so thats great.

OP

Is your ex the same person that travelled to the US for studies? have you lot gone separate ways already?

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Is this the first time you lot have been away from eachother? like farther away?

No, he was visiting here when we met, i was on holidays interstate. He was living and studying in Malaysia then. Was supposed to come here to finish study but chose to go to America. Maylasia was only nine hours away whereas America is 30 so no chance for us to visit. He turned on me when he wanted me to move to America to be with him but i said i couldnt. I have a child and there is no way i would take him that far from his father or our family who is really close and i would NEVER leave my boy behind, not for anyone.

Why don't you both see if you can settle this without insults and withdrawal. if you ask me I will say it's lack of proper communication , patience and understanding that's brought on all these

jennykadry:

Why don't you both see if you can settle this without insults and withdrawal. if you ask me I will say it's lack of proper communication , patience and understanding that's brought on all these

Yes i agree it has been a communication problem but i cant talk to him. I dont insult, i wont go to his level.

^^No one is telling you to give him another chance, all I am saying is you guys needs to communicate proper to end all of these. You and your family need not run away from anybody. That is your country, your home, you have the right to peace in your home/country. You shouldn't feel less

Ok, sorry, I thought you meant to communicate to work it out.

Thanks, you are right. Im just trying to disappear of his radar but he has all my contact info. I dont know how to get through to him. He has convinced himself of these terrible things. I am hoping that by not responding to him he will calm down but it seems to be getting worse. Maybe he will run out of venom. Thanks again for your advice. I appreciate it. I was going nuts in my own head, lol!!

jennykadry:

^^No one is telling you to give him another chance, all I am saying is you guys needs to communicate proper to end all of these. You and your family need not run away from anybody. That is your country, your home, you have the right to peace in your home/country. You shouldn't feel less

You home breaker, you noting but a Black witch we call a Black lady.

MOBO444:

You home breaker, you noting but a Black witch we call a Black lady.

What is your problem you ths insecure black man?

^^^ You have no right to call me insecure, what are you saying, i saw your advice earlier on in this section to the Aussie one and i am disappointed in you.

Hehehe!! The 'aussie one' Thats funny~

MOBO444:

You home breaker, you noting but a Black witch we call a Black lady.

what is a home breaker

how does one became a home breaker

^^^ When an SA woman leaves her husband and children and runs after a Nigeria man for an affair or sexual encounter, then the Nigeria man is the home breaker.

I would like to know too ZIM DRILL. I know what a home wrecker is but dont know how that applies to anything jennykadry said here.

the term you meant is HOMEWRECKER you are welcome

MOBO444:

^^^ When an SA woman leaves her husband and children and runs after a Nigeria man for an affair or sexual encounter, then the Nigeria man is the home breaker.

you are crazy

am homewrecker is someone who wrecks his/her marriage or home

s/he must be committed to his home/marriage if s/he strays then s/he is a homewrecker becoz s/he is wrecking his/her home



people just blame the other part through out as if it is his/her marriage  one who strays from his/her is a homewrecker

ZIM DRILL:

you are crazy

am homewrecker is someone who wrecks his/her marriage or home

s/he must be committed to his home/marriage if s/he strays then s/he is a homewrecker becoz s/he is wrecking his/her home



people just blame the other part through out as if it is his/her marriage one who strays from his/her is a homewrecker

Huh?? I know. I said i know what a home wrecker is but not what it had to do with jennys comment. I was agreeing with you.