Emeraldgist1:
Forgive any grammatical error please. My relationships don't last and am yet to pinpoint the problem out..

I grew up among boys as the only girl child, I tried to study out what every guy wants from my brothers and cousin brothers too.
Since I think I understood guys better, I have ventured into 2 different relationships that never worked out.
Am not the demanding girlfriend, I can so strongly say it anywhere that I have never demanded anything from d guys in my previous relationships.
Am so heartbroken right now that I don't even want to have any emotional attachment with any guy.....

N.B- mumu comments are allow�

victorian:






My dear , there is nothing wrong with you.

You are simply undergoing the harsh realities of life most people go through in relationships.

So dont beat yourself up abeg.

Relax , ponder on wbere u went wrong , make amends and move on jare .

No man is worth killing your self mentally for.

And also to remain Sane in this part of the world , i beg you stay away from any intimate relationship with a guy for like 6months up. Im begging you dont jump into another just yet! No.matter how convincing he sounds.

If i may ask? How old are you?

GrabHisBalls:
The two relationships you've had, how long did they last and what were the reasons for ending them?

Emeraldgist1:
Forgive any grammatical error please. My relationships don't last and am yet to pinpoint the problem out..

I grew up among boys as the only girl child, I tried to study out what every guy wants from my brothers and cousin brothers too.
Since I think I understood guys better, I have ventured into 2 different relationships that never worked out.
Am not the demanding girlfriend, I can so strongly say it anywhere that I have never demanded anything from d guys in my previous relationships.
Am so heartbroken right now that I don't even want to have any emotional attachment with any guy.....

N.B- mumu comments are allowed�

Emeraldgist1:







not always up to 2years...

the first guy was like am kinda difficult to be understood
actually d 2nd was a player which I realized later

Emeraldgist1:







not always up to 2years...

the first guy was like am kinda difficult to be understood
actually d 2nd was a player which I realized later

Emeraldgist1:






am between 20-24

Emeraldgist1:
Forgive any grammatical error please. My relationships don't last and am yet to pinpoint the problem out..

I grew up among boys as the only girl child, I tried to study out what every guy wants from my brothers and cousin brothers too.
Since I think I understood guys better, I have ventured into 2 different relationships that never worked out.
Am not the demanding girlfriend, I can so strongly say it anywhere that I have never demanded anything from d guys in my previous relationships.
Am so heartbroken right now that I don't even want to have any emotional attachment with any guy.....

N.B- mumu comments are allowed�

youngfocus:

were did you reside u need some1 like me for the fact u don't demand forget it,our relationship is going to last unless u said u are tired, Moreover hope my love will nt b to much for u,cos I will come with abundant love,if u are interested call or watsap 07065645919

Emeraldgist1:
Forgive any grammatical error please. My relationships don't last and are yet to pinpoint the problem out.

I grew up among boys as the only girl child, I tried to study out what every guy wants from my brothers and cousin brothers too.
Since I think I understood guys better, I have ventured into 2 different relationships that never worked out.
Am not the demanding girlfriend, I can so strongly say it anywhere that I have never demanded anything from d guys in my previous relationships.
Am so heartbroken right now that I don't even want to have any emotional attachment with any guy.....

N.B- Mumu comments are allowed�

generationz:


Maybe that's where the problem lies. Your actions make them see you as a fellow man.

A woman shouldn't be demanding but when a lady acts directly or indirectly like she doesn't need the help of guys or her guy it's a total turnoff.

Also, make sure you are entering into a relationship with a guy who has made it clear that he wants to be with you. Some ladies just assume the guy likes them because he shows care and understanding. Whereas he doesn't consider them relationship material.

Don't limit yourself. Dress up, wear makeup, look good and work on your ambitions.

The most important is this.

Being among and growing up among boys is the least likely way to know how to act in front of a man. They are your brothers, not your boyfriends.

Playing with boys will only make you treat your boyfriend like a fellow man. Depending on how free and Jovial you were with your brothers.

The best set of people to learn from are your mom, Senior sisters and your female friends in school or at work with enough experiences and by reading online.

Don't let the failed relationships deter you.

Keep reading

Beyonce has only been with two men. She married one and he still cheated on her with all her beauty and Success.

Beautiful and successful Jennifer Lopez has dated many too shots in the entertainment industry being married twice. Now she has met a man who treats her like a diamond.

Emeraldgist1: