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Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by Grupo(m): 10:41pm On Aug 02, 2019
abdulazeez1002:
Have science gotten the cure for epilepsy

Pastors and imams have gotten the cure.
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by Siki355(m): 10:41pm On Aug 02, 2019
husbandsnatcha:
I ve slept with one for 8yrs begining from when am 12 , cheesy i laugh you op lmao

hope u are free now
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by MetaPhysical: 10:44pm On Aug 02, 2019
grin grin
Everytime i check my mention i got a tick from this thread. I didnt want to come in at first because i was shy of the beautifu ladies in here. grin

OP, what led you to this thought, how did it come about?
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by Pacesetter123(m): 10:52pm On Aug 02, 2019
BecaciaBarbie:
Every spirit claiming to be my husband, die by fire!!! In Jesus name, Amen!!!

Spirit spouse exists op! I used to have rough sex with this strange man in my dream almost every night until I went for deliverance, Infact I didn’t know it wasn’t a normal dream until I read Pastor Olukoya’s article on it. After the deliverance, my dear the idiotic spirit man ran! No more sex dream for over many years now and even when someone tries to seduce me in the dream, something usually hinder any further sexual activity. Spirit husband exists, and they are very aggressive, but God of Elijah is the only way out.
My sister,dere is nothing like spirit husband.There was no spirit being sexing u.As a Christian u should know dat spirit doesn't marry.Dey don't engage in sex nor procreate.Sexual activities is fleshy n not spiritual.De scripture says a man shall leave his mum n dad n clinch to his wife n de two of dem shall become ONE FLESH(i.e, sexual intercourse).It wasn't meant for de spirit but for human.
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by blujoi(m): 10:53pm On Aug 02, 2019
Bro, the marks weren’t there previously. I am quite certain about that and I was very lucid that night, so I know exactly what happened and it was very scary. There are things that cannot be explained away. I don’t know if what it was but something tried to strangle her that night.


calculator123:

Assuming she indeed was choking, how sure are you that the marks weren't there prior to the choke attack?
I know I might be making lots of assumptions but one can't leave of so many eventualities.

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Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by anthonyuncle(m): 10:54pm On Aug 02, 2019
yeyeboi:
Please Don’t Shake Your Head cheesy
u wan gimme headache
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by husbandsnatcha(f): 11:04pm On Aug 02, 2019
Siki355:


hope u are free now

Am 41 now
Do the maths
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by Siki355(m): 11:06pm On Aug 02, 2019
husbandsnatcha:
Am 41 now Do the maths
pls how were u delivered
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by husbandsnatcha(f): 11:09pm On Aug 02, 2019
Siki355:


pls how were u delivered
He quarrelled with me and thats it!
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by SeedofDavid: 11:11pm On Aug 02, 2019
udomoh:
� SEXSOMNIA �

A misconception for “spirit husband”
__________________________________
. � SCENARIO X �
An X-Rated Visit By A “Spirit Husband”
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He was sleeping, and deep throaty moans infiltrated into his ears, thence finding its way into his brain, exciting his nucleus acumbens– the pleasure centre of the brain.
It must be a dream, he thought. However, two things made him think better of it. First; something kept hitting his buttocks, perhaps a leg , and the bed was quaking violently. Secondly, the hard-on threatening to tear his boxers was sure as real as day and night.
Then he opened his eyes and turned to see his wife in some frenzy of ethereal proportion with guttural sounds coming form her mouth.

She was gyrating and thrusting her hips forwards rhythmically, like someone was on top of her ministering to her nether regions. Her eyes were rolled back into her head, while the hands were clutching on the bed sheet.
Totally unaware of him staring at her mouth agape with his jaws on the floor, she raised her nightie and her hands disappeared beneath them, away from his field of vision. A few thrusts and she squirmed and went limp. She was snoring before she even hit the bed.

All the while it felt as if there was a presence there with them in the room. He could feel ominous chills in his bone.

In the morning when she woke up, she had no memory of any of it. Absolutely none! She was more confused than he was, and genuinely so; and he had every reason to believe her.
He was never a believer of all that “spiritual husband” BS. However, this– this he couldn’t explain.
________________________________________
� DISCUSSION
——————————————————————–
The religious, and the superstitious, would be quick to attribute the incident described in the above scenario to a spiritual influence.
However, fact is that the “unfortunate victim” is suffering from a sleep disorder called SEXSOMNIA.
Sexsomnia is a type of PARASOMNIA, just like sleepwalking, confusional arousal, night terrors, etc.
Parasomnias are undesirable physical events [such as abnormal movements and behaviors], or experiences [like emotions, perceptions and dreams], that occur in various stages of sleep.

The behaviours may appear well thought out, purposeful and carefully planned, following a coordinated pattern as may be seen in somnambulism [sleepwalking]; on the other hand it may manifest as a group of disjointed, purposeless movements and behaviours.

Whichever is the case, the sufferers usually are unaware of themselves, and their environment, during the process; are not easily roused [as they are actually in DEEP SLEEP]; and would not have any memory of the incident afterwards. They are more like AUTOMATIONS controlled by parts of the brain that function remote from consciousness.

In SEXSOMNIAS, parasomnia manifests as indulgence in sexual activities during sleep. It may be in the form of hip thrusting, moaning as if having an orgasm, masturbation, and in extreme cases it may manifest as sexual assault, and even rape proper.
Whichever is the case, it is important to note that the sufferer is not responsible for his/her actions. It isn’t premeditated, and how it manifests doesn’t necessarily depend on the person’s real life fantasies and mental preoccupation prior to sleep.
In an episode of the popular TV Series– Doctor House, a woman who claims not to be having sex, is manifesting symptoms of pregnancy. A pregnancy test confirms she’s pregnant, and a DNA test shows the baby belongs to her ex, who she’d broken up with some 6 month before, who however lives im the same building with her, 2 floors below hers. Investigation later shows that almost every night, she sleepwalks to the guy’s room, wakes him up, starts romancing him, and they end up having sex.

However, the next day she seems to have no memory of it, as she doesn’t even as much as respond to the guy’s greetings, let alone engage him in a conversation– leaving him bewildered as to why she keeps coming back if she still hates that much.
The above based-on-a-true-life story, which was re-enacted in Grey’s Anatomy, may help us understand not just sexsomnias, but also parasomnias as a whole. For instance, there’s a celebrated case of sleep-walking, in which the somnabulist, went to an airport, went through the motions of booking a flight, waiting in the departure lounge, boarding, and then flying to a destination–all while still sleeping!

Finally; it is NOT SPIRITUAL, people! If it were, it wouldn’t be treatable with drugs.
And oh, by “drugs” I didn’t mean “otumokpo” from Baba Ijebu; I meant pharmaceutical drugs like the Benzodiazepines [eg Clonazepam]. Evidence of this abound in literature.

Now you know.

https://nimedhealth.com.ng/2019/08/01/sexsomnia-a-misconception-for-spirit-husband/?amp

hmmmm, all your explanations cannot be verified. All assumptions and hearsay's.
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by Siki355(m): 11:12pm On Aug 02, 2019
husbandsnatcha:
He quarrelled with me and thats it!
mmmmmm
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by deebrain(m): 11:18pm On Aug 02, 2019
I don't like calling it "spiritual husband or spiritual wife" but it is a reality of demonic oppression.

All these grammar and senseless atheist based argument are silenced when you have a personal experience.
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by Nobody: 11:27pm On Aug 02, 2019
The kind words mentioned in de article dey disturb my brain, even to pronounce the drugs mention na wahala.
Secondly, the religious belivers will come to counter attack your reasoning just as I wish to but I m out of strength to do that
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by Dakosta1(m): 11:33pm On Aug 02, 2019
Kyrx:
I beg to disagree partly grin The legend of spirit husbands and wives are well documented in our histories all over the world from one culture to another, and now that reminds me of Incubus and Succubus, they are all real.

I'm not totally disputing your write up, as science seems to have answers to many of this phenomenon. But nevertheless, we can't totally discard the spiritual realm.

Edited:Please visualize me and put me in your prayers, I'm seriously ill and want to be heal, thank you all

By His stripes, you are made whole. You are heal in Jesus name. Amen!

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Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by Nobody: 11:47pm On Aug 02, 2019
don4real18:
A nice and enlightening post
Uncle, believe ds article at your own risk, I started having affair in the dream with a girl I was trying hard to bleep in my str to no avail until one night the dream come land and na for my bed I fvck her wild until I heard a knock on the door, I showed her the escape route while I dash to open the door for my mum, it was after opening the door that I realised that I was on my bed dreaming and guess what? My boxers was stained with my seed. Ever since that incident, I keep having such dreams ones in a while until it got to a point I started rubbing some religious oil b4 going to bed and such worked for me as I now get someone obstructing the sex in the dream or atimes I will feel like someone tapped my leg whenever such dream so appear only to wake and see nothing. Fear ds world we are right now, sh*ts are happening bro.

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Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by Nobody: 11:49pm On Aug 02, 2019
Pacesetter123:
My sister,dere is nothing like spirit husband.There was no spirit being sexing u.As a Christian u should know dat spirit doesn't marry.Dey don't engage in sex nor procreate.Sexual activities is fleshy n not spiritual.De scripture says a man shall leave his mum n dad n clinch to his wife n de two of dem shall become ONE FLESH(i.e, sexual intercourse).It wasn't meant for de spirit but for human.
At least u make sense in a churchous way.
Tell them.
We are slaves to our mentality.

The brain is super powerful.
What u feed it is what it will continuously give u back.

U don't believe in this, it will never come near ur subconcious.

U miss your darling, u will always have dreams connected to the opposite sex.
What is hard for people to understand here?

Third world countries still believing in what they don't have answers to. They cling onto it even if explanation is giving them as it makes them secured in their ignorance.
Just like when u catch a thief, he will tell you it's the devil.
Apportioning blames everywhere.

Its very normal for people that have sex hormones to be stimulated more than usual at some certain point especially when the cells are in relaxed form.
Nobody is doing u anything.
The image u conjure is what u see.

When u stop feeding yourselves with all these baseless thoughts, they will leave u alone.

I never believed in any of them and never experienced so.

A pastor will look at a fine young girl and say she is possessed of spirit husband.
One told me my spirit husband is in one sea. I told him to tell me the name of the sea so I will go there and break his neck cheesy
The guy see say I no be market and let me be.
Spirit husband ke cheesy

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Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by tintingz(m): 11:57pm On Aug 02, 2019
blujoi:
At 3am, alone with her and suddenly a being starts to choke her. How do you explain that?


It's sleep paralysis.
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by Omoslim26: 12:02am On Aug 03, 2019
I dont like it wen peeps start to give excuses to shove off spirituality ok how do u explain y i always have this wonderful feeling like electricity flowing thru my vains anytime i am worshiping praying nd spending my quiet tym wit God science is science God is God nd God gave man d knowledge to discover Science so Las Las God is above Science

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Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by blujoi(m): 12:06am On Aug 03, 2019
Does it look like I don’t know what’s sleep paralysis? What’s responsible for the marks on her neck and chest region? For the fact that you’ve not had an encounter doesn’t negate the fact that super natural things don’t exist. Learn to keep an open mind, no man has a repository of all knowledge on this earth




tintingz:
It's sleep paralysis.
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by darkelf: 12:18am On Aug 03, 2019
realmindz:
Religion is darkness , it's a product of ignorance...
Science is the way to answer questions, it' provides logical and practical approach to problems....

With increase in knowledge, many superstitious beliefs are buried..
Once upon a time, epilepsy was demonic possession...but science has brought light to such dark and ignorant belief system.

There are no mysteries but ignorance

Totally true

Remember the black death of the medieval period. How they thought "GOD" was angry with them. Little did they know it was poor hygiene caused by vector fleas.

Funny thing was, religious elements during that time beat themselves with whips because they thought that was the way out of the pestilence-"to atone for their sins". grin grin grin grin grin

Science has really helped humanity more than given credit for

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Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by darkelf: 12:20am On Aug 03, 2019
Starz825:

U dey mind the guy... science are used to proving the spiritual things wrong....
This is Africa...and spirituality exist as in 100%....
Woman wey dey chop food for inside dream come still wake up meet food for her mouth....I know say scientist go find name give that one too

And African Spirituality has stifled innovation. you are still backward in this continent because you refuse to denounce spirituality and attack anybody that thinks scientifically

Continue
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by darkelf: 12:24am On Aug 03, 2019
Ghostmode2two:
If spirit wants to make love to human, I'm sure the spirit will put human form. I don't believe in Spirit-human making love

Abi ooo

Why not just take the form of an irresistable, handsome man and enjoy the act in the flesh to the maximum.

But African don't think. But they can Steal....in fact that's what many are good at. Stealing and then going to church to continue the hypocrisy
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by darkelf: 12:26am On Aug 03, 2019
husbandsnatcha:
I ve slept with one for 8yrs begining from when am 12 , cheesy i laugh you op lmao

Okay, if you're being truthful.

Has your continuous dalliances with said "spirit man" killed you or hindered you of any progress.

He didn't kill you obviously....you're here.
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by darkelf: 12:28am On Aug 03, 2019
specter:
That's was how some years back, I was always eating in my dreams leaving me helpless when I wake, cos some pastors had preached that eating in the dream was bad and one of the side effects was bewitchment.

I was totally broken each time I found my self eating in the dream and it became more frequent.

I was told to always ensure I eat more than enough before bedtime. So I practically stuffed myself before bed but I still ate in my dreams anyway.

Until a certain pastor in Winners Chapel said something that caught my attention one of those days I decided to step into church cos ain't churchy.

And he said" if you find yourself eating in the dream, request for more and enjoy the damn meal. You can ask for extra if you wish and ask for the big 5alive to wash it down."

In my head, I was like I don't drink thos stuffs but a bottle of beer or more won't be bad.

So each time I found myself eating in the dream, I always ate more than my fill, and drank some legend stout.

Guess what?

The frequency with which I ate in the dream reduced cos I practically went to bed hungry. Wetin concern me with cooking when I go chop major chew with enough crude oil to step down?

Gradually the food stopped coming and till date I nor dey see nothing to chop again.

I didn't understand this until I came across the book of Job and Mark 11:24 Vis a Viz some ancient books.

It's all about fear. If you find yourself having sex in your sleep, if you a guy, Bleep the sh.it outta her that comes in your dreams and break her to waist.

If a lady, seduce him and break his waist or dick. He won't come back again.

I finally understood that you whatever it is that troubles you, first feed on your fear and from there it gains access to you.

Shalom.

You're the real Gee bro

I never see the spirit woman wey go try me for dream.


When I shift her womb ehn, na me go dey torment am for the next dreams

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Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by darkelf: 12:30am On Aug 03, 2019
sassysure:

At least u make sense in a churchous way.
Tell them.
We are slaves to our mentality.

The brain is super powerful.
What u feed it is what it will continuously give u back.

U don't believe in this, it will never come near ur subconcious.

U miss your darling, u will always have dreams connected to the opposite sex.
What is hard for people to understand here?

Third world countries still believing in what they don't have answers to. They cling onto it even if explanation is giving them as it makes them secured in their ignorance.
Just like when u catch a thief, he will tell you it's the devil.
Apportioning blames everywhere.

Its very normal for people that have sex hormones to be stimulated more than usual at some certain point especially when the cells are in relaxed form.
Nobody is doing u anything.
The image u conjure is what u see.

When u stop feeding yourselves with all these baseless thoughts, they will leave u alone.

I never believed in any of them and never experienced so.

A pastor will look at a fine young girl and say she is possessed of spirit husband.
One told me my spirit husband is in one sea. I told him to tell me the name of the sea so I will go there and break his neck cheesy
The guy see say I no be market and let me be.
Spirit husband ke cheesy

Sister, thou art smart and enlightened.
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by raindrop99: 12:32am On Aug 03, 2019
dirtydiva:
Uncle, believe ds article at your own risk, I started having affair in the dream with a girl I was trying hard to bleep in my str to no avail until one night the dream come land and na for my bed I fvck her wild until I heard a knock on the door, I showed her the escape route while I dash to open the door for my mum, it was after opening the door that I realised that I was on my bed dreaming and guess what? My boxers was stained with my seed. Ever since that incident, I keep having such dreams ones in a while until it got to a point I started rubbing some religious oil b4 going to bed and such worked for me as I now get someone obstructing the sex in the dream or atimes I will feel like someone tapped my leg whenever such dream so appear only to wake and see nothing. Fear ds world we are right now, sh*ts are happening bro.
It happened 2 u cos u where thinking of sex with the said girl in the physical..most dreams (sex or no sex) are reflection of the days activities and our thought, thats why u can had a bad dream when u watched an horror movie b4 going 2 bed..

If u had stop thinking of sexual activities with the said girl, i tell u, the dreams will stop..Its normal, nothing spiritual abt it.

When i think too much sex or lust over the opposite sex excessively, it happen 2 me too but will eventually stop when i let go of my emotions.

SS kids of the olden days where tagged spiritual manipulation cos of the frequent sickness but civilization has taught us that its gender mismatch.

Even twin kids where said 2 be of spiritual influence and tagged 'abormination'

Many still believe that sleep paralysis is spiritual manipulation..

The world have evolved but it seems 2 me that our idea abt spirituality has not evolved.

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Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by banhammy: 1:05am On Aug 03, 2019
Always pray very well before you sleep
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by Temple1288(m): 1:07am On Aug 03, 2019
ednut1:
have u ever witnessed one

When I was in Lagos, I witnessed first hand my brother and my colleague lose their dîcks AKA Prick AKA Penis.. They drank urine and the stuff burst out!!


I swear!



I believe God exists, but not all things are spiritual Tho spirituality exists..

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Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by steve6: 1:21am On Aug 03, 2019
evanso6226:
Hmmmm , take this to the western world, because for naija everything na by spiritual way grin angry
Nice!
Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by tecnolad(m): 1:35am On Aug 03, 2019
mansakhalifa:


I repeat, you are not "science inclined" otherwise, you wouldn't find yourself believing such poo. sad Roger?

My roommate in school screamed from his sleep that he got slapped by an unknown being in his sleep. The whole time, we were trying to cook, we did not see anyone, yet he pointed to where the person came from.

Long story short, according to him, he got slapped and in less than 3 minutes, his face was swollen, with a palm mark on it.

Sounds like it's made up? Wait until you experience it.

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Re: Sexsomnia: A Misconception For “Spirit Husband” by enemyofprogress: 2:47am On Aug 03, 2019
TheFacelessMan:
angry

I once had a ghastly affair with a Mammy water....,
jammy water too sweet for bed. I once dated one for about 8 years before she was killed by fulani herdsmen in their kiingdom

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