LadySarah:


Yesoo,i Dont want to type epistle If not You will close this matter but for inlaws sake,let her come.Do your best as If She is Yours (Its difficult but possible )and let your Dh be the one to compain.When he starts Dont put mouthoo until he says i Dont want again.

My former who was fourteen swept House Once in a week,would give My kids food with unwashed plates from the sink so he wont wash plenty.Put them in a potty that poo was in ,just yo stay with them from 3pm-5pm.after School hrs till when i Come back.If i list items broken/destroyed You will cry for me.Its Their age and Very normal for it to happen.

It was Dh that said he was tired.He went to School from day one to the week he left and Unless i told you,looked not differnt from My kids cos he is blood.The day he left he cried but My mind was up and i didnt want to flog anybody's child.

Now My kids are 3;4,2 and 6 wk old, we have nobody and we are happy. .For 6 mths now,My House has had calm sweet calm

Why is so difficult for women to love other kids that's not theirs? I have noticed this Times without number! I adore all children irrespective of any parameters.
I have said that when i am far gone in age and my kids have left home, i will go and adopt some kids and give them a future.
Women sef! Being petty over everything.


Cc. Accidiosis

Well i have come to update this thread. The lady came registered her in lesson which she took for granted. go today, tomorrow she will tell you she is not going. Started making bad friends for just the short period she stayed. She came with tattered clothes and rags as pants. Got new sets for her. A big tin of milk i get she will finish it within two days. note this is something she cannot even eat at home. I talk and talk, shout, advice but she wouldnt listen. She will say im sorry ma i will say no problem this is food you can eat as much as you want but please food must not waste people are hungry outside...The people around even noticed her misbehaving and adviced me. well me i pity people a lot. After one Month she stayed, hubby told her she is going back home she was crying didnt want to go again. Begging to stay back as for me, my mind was made up. Baby is doing well in creche and since she left, her mum only called me once to say thank you that her daughter is refreshed...the girl in question is not smart to even carry phone to call me and say thank you ma. Anyways all i did was for God i didnt do anything in order to get help in return. It is God that rewards.....

I asked her why she want to stay back she said her mum always tell her no money and that to eat is a problem. well i had pity on her but my pity should not put me in trouble. she is better off with her parents, she is young and will decide on her own when she grows up. In all, i say thank you Jesus...

Guess we can all finally bow our heads and say the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ and go home!

Florence725:
Well i have come to update this thread. The lady came registered her in lesson which she took for granted. go today, tomorrow she will tell you she is not going. Started making bad friends for just the short period she stayed. She came with tattered clothes and rags as pants. Got new sets for her. A big tin of milk i get she will finish it within two days. note this is something she cannot even eat at home. I talk and talk, shout, advice but she wouldnt listen. She will say im sorry ma i will say no problem this is food you can eat as much as you want but please food must not waste people are hungry outside...The people around even noticed her misbehaving and adviced me. well me i pity people a lot. After one Month she stayed, hubby told her she is going back home she was crying didnt want to go again. Begging to stay back as for me, my mind was made up. Baby is doing well in creche and since she left, her mum only called me once to say thank you that her daughter is refreshed...the girl in question is not smart to even carry phone to call me and say thank you ma. Anyways all i did was for God i didnt do anything in order to get help in return. It is God that rewards.....

I asked her why she want to stay back she said her mum always tell her no money and that to eat is a problem. well i had pity on her but my pity should not put me in trouble. she is better off with her parents, she is young and will decide on her own when she grows up. In all, i say thank you Jesus...

I did say it earlier.
but help out occassionally especially in the area of education.

If they say She is in school,get the schools acc no and pay directly to them.

God will help us all.

nams77:

Why is so difficult for women to love other kids that's not theirs? I have noticed this Times without number! I adore all children irrespective of any parameters.
I have said that when i am far gone in age and my kids have left home, i will go and adopt some kids and give them a future.
Women sef! Being petty over everything.


Cc. Accidiosis

Just seeing this.
Its not being petty .for me the child is underaged.If You insist on an older person,family will talk.
Anytype of discipline might be grossly misundertood and Lastly some are already streetsmart and would be a huge influence on ur kids when u r not home


You cant hqve someone better than me.Yes
i'm Very humane and ppl Always take advantage of it.My former aide will boldly bear me witness.