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Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by edulifehack: 2:02pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
this would be something I'll be trying for the first time due to my current situation, for certain reasons I had to leave my apartment to squat with someone temporarily till the end of the year but the person in question happens to be a female, I posted a message requesting accommodation on my department's WhatsApp group and she agreed to bunk with me cause she stays alone but am a bit concerned cause I've never done this before, could she have an ulterior motive cause I know girls don't just invite guys to their house let alone to stay this long. I just need advice in general from ladies here as to what could be her motive, why would a lady do this? PS. we are not very close, not even in class |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by CanadaOrBust: 2:03pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
Does she need money? She may be planning to use u for money ritual 24 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by emirateprince: 2:08pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
Hope you can suck pvssy very well? 12 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by nappy760(m): 2:09pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
You obviously know her in perso; you are in the best position to know if she has alterior motive or not. Does she have a boyfriend? Do you have a girlfriend? These are some of the questions that you need to answer. She could just innocently want to help with nothing attached 2 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by nappy760(m): 2:09pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by frankman365(m): 2:13pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
Ask her these same questions. From her answers you will know what she wants. Also, you guys can enter some kind of verbal agreement on the terms of cohabitation edulifehack: 1 Like |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by edulifehack: 2:13pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
CanadaOrBust: lol please, anyway speaking of money I had intentions to pay for the accommodation but she said she doesn't need any money |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by tee59(f): 2:14pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
It would have been better to stay with a guy than her, but since that's the only option for now, just be careful and uses the limited time there to sort out for better place. Her boyfriend may not like this. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by edulifehack: 2:14pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
nappy760: don't have a gf and I don't really know her very well, we just course mates |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by Nobody: 2:16pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
Have you seen NEW GIRL? Such shouldn't be a problem. |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by Abfinest007(m): 2:16pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
is very hard to leave with a lady who is not ur family member if u can tolerate her I bet you u will enjoy her 11 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by edulifehack: 2:24pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: not really but since you've said I'll go check it out |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by CanadaOrBust: 2:25pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
edulifehack: So her motive is not money. Maybe she needs someone to be helping around the house like sweeping, cleaning and such 6 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by edulifehack: 2:48pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
CanadaOrBust: hahahaha funny |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by Akuchaser: 2:59pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
maybe she just wants gbola that will be available all the time no allow dumebi carry Belle o! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by cooooooks(m): 3:01pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
It is "ulterior". Don't be a leech, take the help but plan to move out soon. Also, help out in the house and contribute to its upkeep & her food, e.g: buy rice or garri. edulifehack: 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by cooooooks(m): 3:03pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
It is "ulterior" And OP needs to answer these questions nappy760: |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by edulifehack: 3:16pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
cooooooks: thanks 1 Like |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by rosy1992(f): 3:16pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
Staying with her isn't a crime, just that human are unpredictable. You need to make some mutual agreement with her, so she would know her limits. My candid advice don't ignite a fire, you can't control. 8 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by edulifehack: 3:18pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
tee59: as a female why do you think she's doing this? and if it were you, would you do the same, and why? |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by Adonko(m): 3:21pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
tee59:I agree with u babe, well as 4 me if my girlfriend does this I will break up with her the next day. I don't tolerate such nonsense from women. Except say she nu get real bf. |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by MarianaTrench: 3:27pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
There is nothing wrong in squatting with a person of the opposite sex but boundries must be set 1 Like |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by Nobody: 3:27pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
edulifehack:So she didnt take money for accomodation. Theres a motive. maybe she needs the security you as a roommate would provide. Or shes up to something darker 2 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by Nobody: 3:34pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
edulifehack:Don't you have a friend to squat you in hostel? She may really want to help, but it's not advisable. |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by XhosaNostra(f): 3:35pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
What ulterior motive? Are you George Clooney? Someone is offering you a place to stay, but you're here overanalyzing it like you're a catch in your destitution 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by Nobody: 3:35pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
MarianaTrench:How many of them could actually keep boundaries? |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by highpriestess: 3:38pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
Lookatthiswan. You have no male friend to help you with accomodation? 1 Like |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by catwalq(f): 3:44pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
You needed help,help was offered,now you're wondering if she has ulterior motive. What is wrong with humans Anyways, contribute your quota to things you both will likely share i.e food/ provision, know your boundaries and stay within em,you should be OK. 10 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by Nobody: 3:52pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
She has exterior motives... don't worry 2 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by LilMissFavvy(f): 4:07pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
You said she's a course mate, she definitely has observed you a bit to accept you squat with her. We have just few months before the year runs out, so it's not forever? She must be kind hearted to accept such, or maybe she's a lonely kind of girl. Not everyone has a bf on campus, so the lady may not have a school bf. You will live with wisdom to avoid issues, ensure she still has her privacy, read often in the school environment. Personally I can't eat from strangers, Its not a good idea to eat her meals, except the food is cooked when you are around, then you can accept it. When you move in, ensure you take care of the electricity bills all by yourself. If she rejects your financial contributions, you can drop it on her table and let her know you wish to help out. 10 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by CanadaOrBust: 4:18pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
edulifehack: |
Re: Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy by CanadaOrBust: 4:21pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
edulifehack: I’m serious. Or maybe some cultists have been pestering her and she wants to fool them she already has a boyfriend 1 Like |
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