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Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by PhenomenalMorgan(m): 1:16pm On Sep 04, 2019
scnmerole:
The best solution to this problem is Jesus. It may sound funny to some but I know what I am talking about. U can't fight ADDICTION with physical strength or wisdom. Sin (ADDICTION) is not a character or attitude, it's a SPIRIT (that may equally sound funny). When it's in u, u must yield to its demands whether you like it or not because it's stronger than ur human body.
The best step to take in fighting addiction or sin is constant hearing of the word of God, fervent prayers, studying of the word of God and Evangelism. If you give yourself to these, that which u call urge will gradually leave and till a day will come, u will look for it, u will not see it.

No need searching Google for solutions. Search the scripture and give ur life totally to Jesus, He will give you the power to overcome (John 1:12).

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Stop attributing every sin to "Spirits" its not BIBLICAL!!
The Bible says a mans Evil thought transforms to evil desires and then actions, the Evil "Spirit" only takes advantage of the Evil thoughts and desires in a person...
What you call the "Spirit of lust" is simply the "desire to lust"!!
Be guided

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Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by PhenomenalMorgan(m): 1:17pm On Sep 04, 2019
wickyyolo:


The best way to stop mastutbation is to stop watching porn. Do it for one week. The spirit will leave
Which Spirit.
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by Akuchaser: 1:59pm On Sep 04, 2019
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Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by pornmaniac22(m): 2:10pm On Sep 04, 2019
U cant quit masturbation by ur power bro,its only God that can hlp u thru prayer cos a demon controls it.meet ur pastor or pray alone.let ur hrt,mind nd body be united in purpose wen u pray and see wat God will do.it works more than any advise u wull get here
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by moseskly: 2:16pm On Sep 04, 2019
anyone to offer me job,am a graduate looking for job.I lost my job of a recent
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by gideonvalor98(m): 2:44pm On Sep 04, 2019
faithfull18:

Why do you want to send a pm
Lol...maybe there is something about you to know
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by temi4fash(m): 4:30pm On Sep 04, 2019
ubcandid:
Being in your shoes before and the best advise which every one might run from telling you is GET YOURSELF bleeped!!!!! you obviously don't have a girlfriend to give you sex and with time it could lead to you being shy to approach a lady for intimacy, sometimes being broke in school can deflate your ego, but, I would advise you lower ur chase class, take your mind of someone you like but know would cost to move with and think of someone that would be lighter for you to bury your shaft in. Sex can do wonders to your brain bro and masturbation can become a psychological nightmare that would hunt you for years . You are within the right age bracket for high sex drive. Don't visit a prostitute, get a girl, seriously work on it. That's the bitter truth. All those giving you transparent glass advises, ask them if it ever worked for them?

Boss you don't want to follow dis advise..
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by ubcandid(m): 4:34pm On Sep 04, 2019
temi4fash:


Boss you don't want to follow dis advise..

Why? He should keep believing in self deceit thet he would over come masturbation by meditation and praying while his hormonal levels are raging crazy? If he was in what a university should be as obtained in the western world, he would actively be engaged in a sport or physical activity competitively, but that is far from here.

What do you suggest for him?
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by Fortune109: 4:39pm On Sep 04, 2019
Just try and not live alone, make sure you are about two or tree in the apartment. And don't have your own room to yourself, stay with other guys...that may help greatly in reducing masturbation
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by Hardrive(m): 9:01pm On Sep 04, 2019
Get yourself a babe that likes sex the way you do. It is simple. Those people advising you to fast and pray, dont mind them. Ask yourself if God wanted you to wait till your wedding before sex, why did he give you such powerful urge for sex.

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Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by themaestro08(m): 9:43pm On Sep 04, 2019
My advice; Being studious to graduate with good grades is really a good thing. That should be your primary aim. Don't be distracted. You will be pleased and proud of your self for your accomplishment.

As to your sexual urges. Its absolutely normal. There is nothing abnormal in it. Its a stage all adults pass through. Masturbating ain't a bad thing, you can also get a girlfriend whom you trust.enjoy some fun but play safe. But this depends on your religiosity.

All the best mate.
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by themaestro08(m): 9:53pm On Sep 04, 2019
ubcandid:
Being in your shoes before and the best advise which every one might run from telling you is GET YOURSELF bleeped!!!!! you obviously don't have a girlfriend to give you sex and with time it could lead to you being shy to approach a lady for intimacy, sometimes being broke in school can deflate your ego, but, I would advise you lower ur chase class, take your mind of someone you like but know would cost to move with and think of someone that would be lighter for you to bury your shaft in. Sex can do wonders to your brain bro and masturbation can become a psychological nightmare that would hunt you for years . You are within the right age bracket for high sex drive. Don't visit a prostitute, get a girl, seriously work on it. That's the bitter truth. All those giving you transparent glass advises, ask them if it ever worked for them?
Exactly bro! I clearly get this young man. He is somewhat romantically and sexuality frustrated. Sex with the right girl will work wonders.

He might decide to tow the abstinence path but am afraid he might weaken his resolve in the heat of the moment.
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by ubcandid(m): 10:00pm On Sep 04, 2019
themaestro08:
Exactly bro! I clearly get this young man. He is somewhat romantically and sexuality frustrated. Sex with the right girl will work wonders.

He might decide to tow the abstinence path but am afraid he might weaken his resolve in the heat of the moment.

Spot on
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by showafrica(m): 2:55am On Sep 05, 2019
scnmerole:
The best solution to this problem is Jesus. It may sound funny to some but I know what I am talking about. U can't fight ADDICTION with physical strength or wisdom. Sin (ADDICTION) is not a character or attitude, it's a SPIRIT (that may equally sound funny). When it's in u, u must yield to its demands whether you like it or not because it's stronger than ur human body.
The best step to take in fighting addiction or sin is constant hearing of the word of God, fervent prayers, studying of the word of God and Evangelism. If you give yourself to these, that which u call urge will gradually leave and till a day will come, u will look for it, u will not see it.

No need searching Google for solutions. Search the scripture and give ur life totally to Jesus, He will give you the power to overcome (John 1:12).

07062532028

Yea, it happens miraculously, I know people who quit some unquitable habits just by following Jesus.

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Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by showafrica(m): 2:56am On Sep 05, 2019
Encoreunltd:


My guy, na high testosterone dey worry you. When sexual arousal come try do strenuous exercise, you go calm down. Nothing is wrong with masturbation if it is done in moderation because your mind go clear, you go think straight, if you see woman wey no be your own her toto no go hungry you rape am. Try lift weight, do exercise, your stature and stamina go improve. You go like the new you

After gyming na that time the main fukkk go hungry am na. He should just get a babe or wife.
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by Nobody: 3:21am On Sep 05, 2019
all u need is a girl with big yansh dat will help u stop this ur masturbation habit.
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by temi4fash(m): 8:07am On Sep 05, 2019
ubcandid:


Why? He should keep believing in self deceit thet he would over come masturbation by meditation and praying while his hormonal levels are raging crazy? If he was in what a university should be as obtained in the western world, he would actively be engaged in a sport or physical activity competitively, but that is far from here.

What do you suggest for him?

Everybody passes thru the stage where your hormones range. Getting a gf would drain him emotionally and ot would affect his books.

All he need to do his focus and keep his mind busy.

It would create a bigger problem if he has a GF and bad one would make it worse.
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by ubcandid(m): 8:13am On Sep 05, 2019
temi4fash:


Everybody passes thru the stage where your hormones range. Getting a gf would drain him emotionally and ot would affect his books.

All he need to do his focus and keep his mind busy.

It would create a bigger problem if he has a GF and bad one would make it worse.
Struggling with this hormonal rage and resorting to masturbation would drain him x10. He needs quality sex, the type a girlfriend can supply. Let's leave all these doctrinal leanings that even the pope's are struggling to yield to.

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Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by temi4fash(m): 9:10am On Sep 05, 2019
ubcandid:

Struggling with this hormonal rage and resorting to masturbation would drain him x10. He needs quality sex, the type a girlfriend can supply. Let's leave all these doctrinal leanings that even the pope's are struggling to yield to.

All is well
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by Encoreunltd(m): 10:42am On Sep 05, 2019
showafrica:


After gyming na that time the main fukkk go hungry am na. He should just get a babe or wife.

I never see where boxer dey train for fight, where dem dey allow am go kpansh
Moreover the guy still young allow am grow small na
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by faithfull18(f): 6:11pm On Sep 07, 2019
PUSSYHOE:
So you don't know how to reject politely? when you get older and guys start playing with your time you will say all men are scum.
undecided
Re: Help Me Control Immense Sexual Urge. by DemigodZeus147(m): 10:16pm On Sep 07, 2019
Just sey you Don the masturbate already. I for suggest you watch porn once in awhile and get relieved.



NB: I am not supporting your masturbation oh.

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