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Describe Your Sexuality Here by mumumugu(m): 9:54pm On Sep 12, 2019
Sexuality is not just about “sex” and certain body parts that are associated with males and females. Sexuality includes sexual orientation, such as who a person is attracted to and whether the person identifies as heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual, as well as their sexual fantasies and attitudes and values related to sex. Sexual Orientation describes a person’s enduring physical, romantic, and/or emotional attraction to another person.
It must be noted that gender identity and sexual orientation are not the same. For instance, transgender people may be straight, lesbian, gay, bisexual, or queer. For example, a person who transitions from male to female and is attracted solely to men would typically identify as a straight woman.
Various terms used in describing sexual orientation across the world include:
Gay: The adjective used to describe people whose enduring physical, romantic, and/ or emotional attractions are to people of the same gender (e.g., gay man, gay people). Sometimes lesbian is the preferred term for women.
Lesbian: A woman whose enduring physical, romantic, and/or emotional attraction is to other women. Some lesbians may prefer to identify as gay or as gay women.
Heterosexual: An adjective used to describe people whose enduring physical, romantic, and/ or emotional attraction is to people of the opposite gender. Also called “straight”.
Homosexual: An outdated clinical term considered derogatory and offensive term used to describe people whose romantic and emotional attraction is to people of the same gender.
Bisexual (Bi): A person who has the capacity to form enduring physical, romantic, and/ or emotional attractions to those of the same gender or to those of another gender. People may experience this attraction in differing ways and degrees over their lifetime.
Bicurious: This is also known as “Questioning”. People might say they’re bicurious if they’re exploring whether or not they’re attracted to people of the same gender as well as people of another gender.
Asexual: An adjective used to describe people who do not experience sexual attraction (e.g., asexual person).
Aromantic: An adjective used to describe people who do not experience romantic attraction (e.g., aromantic person).
Demiromantic: People who do not experience romantic attraction until a strong emotional or sexual connection is formed with a partner.
Demisexual: People on the asexual spectrum who do experience some sexual attraction, but only in certain situations, like after they’ve formed a strong emotional or romantic connection with a partner.
Androsexual/Androphilic: Being primarily sexually, aesthetically, and/or romantically attracted to masculinity.
Gynesexual/gynephilic: Being primarily sexually, aesthetically or romantically attracted to femininity.
Queer: An adjective used by some people, particularly younger people, whose sexual orientation is not exclusively heterosexual (e.g. queer person, queer woman).
Dyke: Formerly and sometimes still considered a derogatory word to describe queer women. Some women have taken back the word, however, and use it for themselves. Do not call someone a dyke unless you know that they have reclaimed the word.
gay: Formerly and sometimes still considered a derogatory word to describe queer men. Some men have reclaimed the word, but it should never be used to describe someone unless you know they’ve taken it back for themself.
Polyamorous: Describes people who have consensual relationships that involve multiple partners. Polyamorous people talk openly with their partners about having or having the desire to have sexual or emotional relationships with multiple people and often set ground rules for their relationships. Polyamorous people can be in relationships with monogamous people.
Skoliosexual: Being primarily sexually, romantically or aesthetically attracted to genderqueer, transgender or non-binary people.
Coming out: A lifelong process of self-acceptance. People forge a LGBTQ identity first to themselves, and then they may reveal it to others. Publicly sharing one’s identity may or may not be part of coming out.
Out: A person who self-identifies as LGBTQ in their personal, public, and/or professional lives. Preferred to openly gay.
Closeted: Describes a person who is not open about their sexual orientation or gender identity. It’s better to simply refer to someone as “not out” about being LGBTQ. Some individuals may be out to some people in their life, but not out to others due to fear of rejection, harassment, violence, losing one’s job, or other concern


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Re: Describe Your Sexuality Here by Nooneonline(m): 10:50pm On Sep 12, 2019
Me no go school o but Na woman with big yansh I like, make the bress no too big. If I wan Bleep her I dey like eat that tin wella then enter her but I must do her for back door too. Abeg wetin b my sexuality??

Re: Describe Your Sexuality Here by Palehair: 11:18pm On Sep 12, 2019
Too many labels, Bleep that, you love who you love and you owe the world no apologies
Re: Describe Your Sexuality Here by Nobody: 11:27pm On Sep 12, 2019
Palehair:
Too many labels, Bleep that, you love who you love and you owe the world more apologies
Owe the world no apologies. I can love who i want. The society can accept me or blind itself, not my buiz. My life, my choice, my love.

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Re: Describe Your Sexuality Here by Magnoliaa(f): 2:26am On Sep 13, 2019
Palehair:
Too many labels, Bleep that, you love who you love and you owe the world no apologies


So, are the labels useless or not important?

If you're loving who you want to love and (the)that attraction(s) fall under a term that's been defined, that's what it is or who the person is.

It doesn't change anything.
Re: Describe Your Sexuality Here by Callertunez: 7:07am On Sep 13, 2019
Nooneonline:
Me no go school o but Na woman with big yansh I like, make the bress no too big. If I wan Bleep her I dey like eat that tin wella then enter her but I must do her for back door too. Abeg wetin b my sexuality??
cheesycheesycheesy are those your balls right in that photo? grin
Re: Describe Your Sexuality Here by Palehair: 8:24am On Sep 13, 2019
Magnoliaa:



So, are the labels useless or not important?

If you're loving who you want to love and (the)that attraction(s) fall under a term that's been defined, that's what it is or who the person is.

It doesn't change anything.
I'm just saying labels are less important because each one roles out like an annual pageant scratch,sexuality is already confusing enough for those still questioning their sexuality, I think a time will come when you won't even need to explain your sexuality to anyone rather you will just connect with someone and both of you fall in love, I think that future is now
Re: Describe Your Sexuality Here by Nooneonline(m): 9:17am On Sep 13, 2019
Callertunez:
cheesycheesycheesy are those your balls right in that photo? grin
lol when I was evolving according to Charles Darwin grin grin
Re: Describe Your Sexuality Here by Callertunez: 9:27am On Sep 13, 2019
Nooneonline:
lol when I was evolving according to Charles Darwin grin grin
lmao... Charles Darwin is bad gan...no wonder you like taking them from behind .... gringrin
Re: Describe Your Sexuality Here by Nooneonline(m): 9:39am On Sep 13, 2019
Callertunez:
lmao... Charles Darwin is bad gan...no wonder you like taking them from behind .... gringrin
shhh. I don't want police to scatter my birthday
Re: Describe Your Sexuality Here by 24kmagic: 12:54pm On Sep 13, 2019
Blackivy29:
Owe the world no apologies. I can love who i want. The society can accept me or blind itself, not my buiz. My life, my choice, my love.

No offense but how do you manage to stay on every thread in this romance section?

Like, I must see your comment on every thread I view.

Na WA oooo
Re: Describe Your Sexuality Here by Nobody: 1:48am On Sep 20, 2020
I love BDSM


Bondage sex and eating a lady pucci


Taking full control and using her as my personal bitch

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