MARRIAGE IN OUR GENERATION IS ONLY FOR THE CONTINUATION OF SPECIE.

I wonder ! what other special thing can a lady offer in a relationship other than being a virgin? Most prostitute are beautiful , intelligent, can give birth, prepare a good meal , take good care of her kids and home , take good care of her husband once he is rich, support her husband or what have you.In fact, they have Good character.

Marriage in our time is for the continuation of specie. what i mean here is marriage is for procreation/bearing children.

If it were then,marriage is for the virgins. once a lady looses her virginity no marriage for her again, that was why a woman could live with 7 different men without being married.

That said ,you have no justification that you lost what could be preserved exclusively for your husband to a tout.

To most men, you are no more valued in their eyes once you are not a virgin.

This is one of the many reasons after Emeka promised you heaven on earth and he finds out you are not a virgin, he will pretend and be looking for some one more worthy than you are, but he will not stop enjoying your being, when he finds someone else, he will leave and you cry your eyes out. After a while, you will give a chance to Emma who will continue from where Emeka stopped, after he is done probably he has seen a lady more beautiful and younger than you are, he will move on like Emeka did and you cry your eyes out again, after a while you give Micheal another chance and the circle will go on.....If you are lucky you will meet a man who want to have children when you are not worn out and he will marry you not for love but because the society recognizes only children born from marriages as legitimate children.Most men will not love you when he is aware that you were a player before he met you. If you are not lucky you will remain unmarried and bitter all your life and continue to tell every one who wants to hear you that men are wicked.

Not being a virgin will most certainly decrease your worth in some men assessment of you, reason some men cheat on you even when they tell you 'you are their one and only'...;you are their sugar in their tea.....

Again,Some men can easily leave you heart broken once he sees someone better than you once you are not a virgin when they met you.

Your cry that you did your best for Emeka or Emma or Micheal means nothing to any one. Stop drawing pity. Ladies should be wiser, if the relationship is not directed towards marriage as no one gets to the bus stop without having in mind where he/she is going to.

Gbam! over 90% of marriage these days are.

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Gbam! over 90% of marriage these days are.