Hi everyone!
i have been working with this man more than a year now ,not as an employee nor apprentice ,though he took me in when I had issues with my former boss where i was acquiring some skills in building,he gave me an apartment in his compound and also allows me to be working in his building material store while i also practice what i have learned which is related to his line of trade.
By the the grace of God am no longer where i was (financially) before i left my boss ,hence the hunger to leave and establish myself, though i play a very important role at the store now , sometimes he would say something like opening a place for me to manage and give returns to him ,which i didn't accept within me,he didn't know what i had in mind ,he has asked me severally what's my plan, what do i intend to do, i couldn't answer cuz i want to do my thing myself not to answer to anyone but i lack the courage to tell him that.
Now am ready to leave ,already putting things together,but the main issue is I don't know how to tell him ,i don't want to offend him in any way or break off from him on a bad way ,though he's not ready to let me go ,not now, am really confuse on how to handle the issue , do i park from the house first or leave the store first , mind you most of my business deals comes through his influence, thanks

You don't have a client base yet going by what you wrote up there. Think about that.

mature first then u can move

If you do anything less than telling him what you really want to do, giving him enough time to rearrange his own plans which he is already basing on you, then you'll be ungrateful to him.

It's hard to tell him because of what he has done for you but you better tell him. With enough time before you leave.

Are you referring to a church?

You actually have to tell him something if not everything.

You owe him that for giving you a roof in your trying times.

Maybe you guys should sit with him over drinks and then you tell him a watered down version of your plans.

LewsTherin:
If you do anything less than telling him what you really want to do, giving him enough time to rearrange his own plans which he is already basing on you, then you'll be ungrateful to him.

It's hard to tell him because of what he has done for you but you better tell him. With enough time before you leave.

wow ,that's an eye opener thanks

LewsTherin:
If you do anything less than telling him what you really want to do, giving him enough time to rearrange his own plans which he is already basing on you, then you'll be ungrateful to him.

It's hard to tell him because of what he has done for you but you better tell him. With enough time before you leave.

wow ,that's an eye opener thanks

LewsTherin:
If you do anything less than telling him what you really want to do, giving him enough time to rearrange his own plans which he is already basing on you, then you'll be ungrateful to him.

It's hard to tell him because of what he has done for you but you better tell him. With enough time before you leave.

wow ,that's an eye opener thanks

NGRsenate:
You actually have to tell him something if not everything.

You owe him that for giving you a roof in your trying times.

Maybe you guys should sit with him over drinks and then you tell him a watered down version of your plans.

lol over drink?

Austine567:
lol over drink?

I want to believe they’re both men that can drink, no?

Come out plain and discuss with him when he is in a good mood.


You get referrals/clients from him moreover he has been good to you. Give him some months so he can readjust without you been in the picture.



One paramount thing is never pay evil for good deed done.
Echidinme

Austine567:
lol over drink?

Is your post referring to a church setting?

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JOHNSONSOLAFUNMI:
Igbo ladies grow facial hairs and they have yamleg

What is it?

Austine567:
wow ,that's an eye opener thanks wow ,that's an eye opener thanks wow ,that's an eye opener thanks

You sound like a terrible ingrate.

If you leave his business abruptly after all the kindness he has shown you, karma will be waiting for you in future.

Do everything properly. You owe him a conversation where you have to open up your plans to him. Meaning you have to involve him in your plan to carry on with your life.

Sit him down and tell him.