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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by godofuck231: 11:12am On Sep 27, 2019
She should stop seeking for attention and get married her kids will help her
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Chiefochiefo(m): 11:13am On Sep 27, 2019
Why don't you mind ur own bizness.

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by sinceraconcept(m): 11:13am On Sep 27, 2019
ikaboy:
The way you dress is how you are address... Make she de de wear provocative dresses and opening teeth upandan.


Nothing de sweet me like a lady that knows her worth
you're intelligent bro. She dresses like a hoe and expects not to be treated like one
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Sleevia: 11:16am On Sep 27, 2019
Jokerman:
She's just a liar... She enjoys every bit of it
pervert alert
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by TreasureJunky: 11:17am On Sep 27, 2019
If she has attained marriage age, she should just get married and end all those nonsenses.. Or if she is not ready to marry yet, she should find a way to always cover that her endowment that attracts men.. #MyOpinion
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by midnighter(f): 11:17am On Sep 27, 2019
Can you people stop talking nonsense

You want her to be wearing rags to work, or Islamic veil? (Which still doesn't stop women being harassed)

You want her to quit her job, later you'll start quoting Proverbs woman, that she shouldn't be lazy and be relying on a man for everything

Can't you people give decent advice on how to stop this kind of thing

I also experience it a lot and it gets very awkward. Once you stand up for yourself the man can start causing a lot of problems for you
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by srclark: 11:19am On Sep 27, 2019
Tell your friend to stop flirting around with her customers .It is this simple someone that does not have your number will not call you or chat you up on whatsapp talkless of toasting or asking you to make personal deliveries.Tell her to be very professional with her clients and learn to say no in a polite way she can laugh at one or two jokes but still keep it very professional .It will help her alot

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by PUSSYHOE(m): 11:24am On Sep 27, 2019
alphaNomega:


You too? I'm disappointed. Seriously, why do people assume the woman's dress is a problem when it comes to sexual harassment? Grow up!
You want to stop a prob cut it from the root, Do you think with vagina
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Jalabase(m): 11:26am On Sep 27, 2019
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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Johnisgood: 11:26am On Sep 27, 2019
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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Nobody: 11:26am On Sep 27, 2019
She should just go to Market and buy a ring and put it in her 4th finger that will scared men around her.... And if anyone asked her out she should say that she is married

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by OnPointMan(m): 11:27am On Sep 27, 2019
Your friend or your girlfriend Always be truthful wink

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by alphaNomega: 11:29am On Sep 27, 2019
PUSSYHOE:
You want to stop a prob cut it from the root, Do you think with vagina

No, I do not think with a vagina, and I hope you don't too. If you are someone that spent the slightest effort to critically analyze this story, the woman's dressing would not be a problem.

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Ginaz(f): 11:30am On Sep 27, 2019
tintingz:


What's customer relations?

Customer relationship doesn’t entails you not having a limit of your own.
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by penguinpikin: 11:31am On Sep 27, 2019
serious... let her go and bum bum reduction if thats what they are running after.
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by olabrinks(f): 11:37am On Sep 27, 2019
If you’re a woman in a workplace surrounded by men, you must behave like a man that’s the only way to gain respect unfortunately. If you behave too dainty and soft or feminine , they’ll try to take advantage. Somebody will try to sleep with you. So that’s the only advice I can give.

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Originakalokalo(m): 11:38am On Sep 27, 2019
It is a pity.

The problem here is what we sow into our minds.

If you sow immoralities, you reap the rewards.

Nude pictures, videos, porn are sown into men's mind....then the reward is sexual molestation, rape, incest, adultery and fornication.


Beware
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Collins4u1(m): 11:42am On Sep 27, 2019
She smiles a lot with those people that's why. When I say smile I didn't mean to smile or laugh.
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by tintingz(m): 11:42am On Sep 27, 2019
Ginaz:


Customer relationship doesn’t entails you not having a limit of your own.
Ofcos you create your limits like the sexual harassment part.

But chatting, making friendship, laugh/smiling, freeness, dress well etc are part of customer relations. That's the ethics.

There's target you need to meet up, and the only way to get your target is to relate well with your customers.

If they make sexual advancement on you, there are professional way to handle it, rookie ladies in this field needs to get advice from professionals in this field.
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by tintingz(m): 11:45am On Sep 27, 2019
Collins4u1:
She smiles a lot with those people that's why. When I say smile I didn't mean to smile or laugh.

She should squeeze her face?
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by tintingz(m): 11:46am On Sep 27, 2019
Originakalokalo:


It is a pity.

The problem here is what we sow into our minds.

If you sow immoralities, you reap the rewards.

Nude pictures, videos, porn are sown into men's mind....then the reward is sexual molestation, rape, incest, adultery and fornication.


Beware

Even pastors molest, so what's your point?
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by mechanics(m): 11:48am On Sep 27, 2019
She should quite the job and find alternative or change department.
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by pointstores(m): 11:51am On Sep 27, 2019
Nawa
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Ginaz(f): 11:52am On Sep 27, 2019
tintingz:
Ofcos you create your limits like the sexual harassment part.

But chatting, making friendship, laugh/smiling, freeness, dress well etc are part of customer relations. That's the ethics.

There's target you need to meet up, and the only way to get your target is to relate well with your customers.

If they make sexual advancement on you, there are professional way to handle it, rookie ladies in this field needs to get advice from professionals in this field.

Yes she really needs professional help. For that man to have the guts to want to kiss her meant she might have been giving the wrong body signals or impressions about her customer relations.

As a girl, I know when to laugh for fun of it and when to laugh strictly for business.

She’s at fault here. There’s no where in the business world women won’t get a man’s attention.

Her tactics, body language, professional outline limits nonsense on their unprofessional conducts.
She is too free.

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Nobody: 11:54am On Sep 27, 2019
Your best Friend did not go to social media


You did
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by jaxxy(m): 11:55am On Sep 27, 2019
apexJ:
i need help on how to tackle this issue


My friend have being experiencing sexual advances especially from married men. She is pretty,easy going and heavily endownwed i think thats why men try to run a pass on her.
Due to the nature of her work she deals with alot of men especially married people.

The height of it all was when she called me weeping on the phone that a customer whom she was suppose to deliver something to tried kissing her.

note she doesn't deliver work packages, but because of the good friendship she has with this said person she accepted, only for him to make such a bold move.

His not the only one to have made such sexual advances, but she has managed to keep them at bay.But recently, the advances have increased,many of them are even promising her financial help.But the pressure is getting to her now she can no longer do her job properly and she is in a relationship


how do i help her??
pardon my grammatical error

This is common with almost all very pretty or endowed gals and even sm regular bt attractive gals. Randy and indiscipline men will always want to push their luck. She has to know how to reject such men and avoid certain environments with them. Theses men can be shameless even though they are married. She should just be resolute and not desperate. It’s quite simple she shud learn to avoid such men as much as possible and when she can’t she maintains her stand clearly they will back off. If u give them any sign of hope they will continue in their shameless pursuit.

My ex was in ur frnds category pretty, endowed, intelligent, nice convo hence too many male advances luckily she’s not so much the outgoing type beside sm modeling stuffs bt u there not mess with her she will put u in ur place real quick. Lol
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Papishi(m): 12:05pm On Sep 27, 2019
Jokerman:
She's just a liar... She enjoys every bit of it

Why must you expose your ignorance like this naa. Anyways your f00lishness is like Zee world "extraordinary everyday".
Ode oshi.
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by DanielJones: 12:09pm On Sep 27, 2019
Orlando's song comes to mind...Oh Kangaroo
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Mhizjay09: 12:11pm On Sep 27, 2019
When I see some people's comments on this forum, I pity the people around them. There's no connection between the brain and fingers in a lot of cases. If u do not have any reasonable worthwhile contribution to make concerning a topic, why not leave it to sensible people?

OP, kindly tell your friend to either report to her employer, brazen up and challenge those men or simply quit the job. And like someone said above, she should be able to tell these men off if she isn't the weak type. She has to stand up for herself. If she can't, she should quit. However, she doesn't know what she's gonna meet in her next job, so it's better to caution the men and stay put in her present job if possible.
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by Mryacks: 12:13pm On Sep 27, 2019
J111333:
Believe me, customer related sexual advance(I don't wanna use abuse) only affect weak ladies. If your friend is a no nonsense lady, no man will dare make sure silly pass on her except a situation where her job is on the line like bankers and their high profile deposit customers.

Tell your friend to be decisive and professional in her job.

You are spot on.....knew a lady some years back that was in a situation like this, I advised her not to be overly friendly and kind to all those people. Be professional and put that uninterested approach when dealing...it worked. Women who are beautiful and well endowed should know that some men will always try their luck with them but your carriage should send a "No nonsense" aura...
Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by PrincewithGod(m): 12:21pm On Sep 27, 2019
Let give her life to Christ, start living a Holy and Righteous life and all the unnecessary attention satan is directing her way will stop.

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Re: My Friend Is Being Sexually Harassed By Married Men At Her Work Place by luminouz(m): 12:32pm On Sep 27, 2019
brodalikeme:
She should get married or quit the job. At the meantime she should stop being emotionally available for the customers or colleagues.

I like Kate Henshaw very very well, but I couldnt jump and start kissing her when she walk pass me at the airport even when we waved and smiled at each other.
Mumuuuuuu!!!!

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