Everybody likes good things, but sometimes the definition of good is tricky and often masked with attractive appearance. If the surface is fine, the inside has to be right? But that isn’t always the case. Every man wants a beautiful, presentable, tall, sexy woman to marry. Someone they can take to events, who will boost his ego qwhen he is with his friends and when he walks with her on the street. Some say they can never marry a woman who is not sexy enough I.e with the right proportions of breast and bum, so they can have something to handle when they go intimate. For most young men, it is appearance first before anything else, after all the eyes will need to feed first before the mouth.

Not as if appearance is not important or beauty should not be desired, it should, because it is appearance and beauty that brings about attraction in the first place. When you look at someone, what you first notice is their appearance and beauty and that is why God created them beautiful in the first place, to get you to notice them. But if all you are concentrating on is the physical looks and structure, then my brother you are making a big mistake. Besides, anyone can be beautiful, even the ugliest of them, all it requires is a little rest, a little good feeding and a little makeup or plenty of it, lol. After all, Nobody ugly.

There is more to women than just beauty. This can never be over emphasised. If you are making a lifetime decision, then there is actually more you should want see than beauty. The thing is, some men do not actually know what they want and I do not blame them because beauty is blinding sometimes. Character and mindset should be your priority. You will eventually get used to the beauty when you marry her, how about her character, morals, attitude towards life, mindset, values, ability to understand situations, comprehension skills, patience and endurance level because whether you like it or not, life may get rough sometimes.

Never marry a woman solely based on her beauty and appearance. Beauty will eventually diminish with time or at least you will eventually get used to it but her inner value stays forever. The quality of life you will have while on earth is also very dependent on the kind of woman you marry. You do not want to end up with an entitled lady who sees your pocket as her constitutional right and wants to spend it anyway she wishes, she will run you down. You don’t want to to marry a lazy woman who can’t help out financially or domestically instead resorts to constant nagging and using swear words on you, you will fall into serious frustration. You don’t need a woman who is loose, not intelligent, beauty driven and can not qsee beyond her nose, you will die before your time.

As much as you are attracted by the outer beauty also check to see if the inner beauty is attractive, if not, run and don’t look back. It is a survival race. He who finds a wife finds a good thing but only when he finds a wife, not a live wire, you will only find a good burn. Your woman is your key to happiness, success and everything, choose wisely.

Source: http://flipmemes.com/2019/09/18/your-woman-is-your-key-to-quality-life-choose-wisely/

OP couldn't have written this better God bless u

True talk. Talking from experience. Beauty attracts, but xter sustains and maintains.