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What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by iyatrustee(f): 4:33pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
A colleague at work told me about a friend whose husband travelled and coincidentally, armed robbers came to their neighbourhood(initially not to their house)she tried to help by alerting the vigilante/security personel . They delayed in coming and the thieves gained ascess into their house, becos there was nothing tangible to take, they decided to rape her!.She decided to inform her spouse. That was the begining of her problems as the husband has not touched her ever since. If u were 1. The husband, what would do? 2. If u were the wife, wld you tell your spouse about it or keep it a secret? Be honest pls. |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
A lesson that if u ever got married to a virgin, dis-virgin her your self before your neighbour decides to help u. if it were to be me, i would send her away |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Dyt(f): 4:50pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
Dats hell gonna b sad d husband ll hardly wanna v anyth wit er d wife wld neva find peace wat a dilemma *sobbin* |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by 190: 4:52pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
How sure are we that it was done by robbers!! |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Coolabbie: 5:18pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
Wats done is done,no use dwelling on d past. D husband shud support his wife after all dey swore 2 b 2geda 4 beta or worse. |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by afribeauty(f): 5:42pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
@coolabbie u re definitely rite,4 beta or 4worse |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by bayor48(m): 6:44pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
Wetin man go do.These armed robber of a thing again.Only God go help us.Thesame thing happen to me for my tori way i knack for nairalanders I TOLD HER I'M NOT READY FOR SEX |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Yorisb: 6:54pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
Unimaginable |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by sleekch1c(f): 7:04pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
toba:obviously,u ve an IQ below zero @op,the man should support her afterall,if the tables were turned she wldnt leave him.its a sad predicament |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
sleekch1c:and yours is -1000. For one to express an opinion is now a crime? Well, may be u ve experienced same, who knows? |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Nobody: 8:02pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
190:Who else do u think could have done it? |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by bashr4: 9:03pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
that is the point you need to show her the most love. do only thing you can do is to make sure both of u keep it a secret from outsiders apart from that i dont see why u should have anything against her unless like someone mentioned your IQ is below zero. after all if it were your mum or sister you wont abandon her so why abandon your wife |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by adagz01(m): 9:22pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
I will accept her with both arms, but women should not make themselves vulnarable to rape. |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Dsense(m): 10:03pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
toba:Secret Lover. Op, I would send her away. |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
D-sense:very possible Gbam. This is what i said that an overzealous goon wants to chop me alive |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Specialist900(m): 10:19pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
D-sense:better still blow off her head with a shotgun rifle. Smh. |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Dsense(m): 10:21pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
Specialist900:Wouldn't wanna get jailed cause of her type toba:Ignore them. |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Omolola1(f): 10:23pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
Now, you guys are not blaming the lady for getting r.aped, are you? |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Dsense(m): 10:26pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
Omolola1:What we re saying here is that there is a big possibilty that it wasn't from Robbers but secret Lovers,U know what d weather is saying Back home.And if that happens then we just have to execute the above option. |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Omolola1(f): 10:32pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
And how would you know? |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Dsense(m): 10:36pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
Omolola1:I WOULD INVESTIGATE through the neighbor.Besides i'm planning to install d secret cameras in ma apartment Before getting married.Serious |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Omolola1(f): 10:40pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
lol, still you cant know, coz they would come as robbers not as a lover |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Specialist900(m): 10:42pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
Omolola1:hands up, i nor follow. D-sense:guy try personalize this thing. I'd prefer you use I inplace of WE. |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Omolola1(f): 10:44pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
lol, which means u have a different view? |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Dsense(m): 10:47pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
Omolola1:u think is different . Specialist900:whatever |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
Specialist900:I'm with him. Cos most of these women cant be trusted(just like guys). I doubt if armed robbers would be patient enough to dis-virgin, judging by how uneasy the thing could be atimes. I ve never been involved in one,but friends said it could be difficult atimes. Women is it true? |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Specialist900(m): 10:56pm On Nov 07, 2010 |
Omolola1: |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by Blazay(m): 7:54am On Nov 08, 2010 |
As a man, I would nurse her back to health. It is going to be difficult to get past the unfortunate incident for the whole family. But with a lot of family therapy, I think it can be done. I only hope she allows me to help her and I can only pray for her understanding of my frustrations through it all. Knowing her and knowing me, things might just never be the same. That was the begining of her problems as the husband has not touched her ever since. If u were 1. The husband, what would do? 2. If u were the wife, wld you tell your spouse about it or keep it a secret? Be honest pls. I can understand that. If I were the woman, I would get a divorce since the husband does not seem to want to get the necessary help, while punishing the wife for something she had no control over. If I were a woman, I would not keep such a thing a secret. So much for marriage vows. |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by biola44: 7:58am On Nov 08, 2010 |
is it no longer for better for worse? |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by iyatrustee(f): 8:58am On Nov 08, 2010 |
it really amazes me that some guys are talking about the possibilities of the acts been carried out by a secret lover . while risking attacks from a lot of you, i dare to say a wife been raped by an armed robber is no different from a husband who patronises prostitutes. |
Re: What Would U Do If Your Wife Was Raped? by dave2(m): 7:23pm On Nov 23, 2012 |
Nothing to say |
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