I’m writing this with heavy heart, my wife denies me sex. We don’t have kids yet. We have been married for almost a year and half. She gives me excuses. We only have sex at best once a week. I’m frustrated. I don’t know what to do. I don’t cheat and I’m sexually active. She’s so insensitive to my needs, sexually. I’ve tried talking to her but it seems she doesn’t know the gravity of what she’s doing. I still love her very much but she’s really driving me nuts.

Ladylite:


With all the money you have, you thought you could buy your marriage abi, see you married a good girl that is NOT COMPATIBLE with you at all.

Change her by setting up systems to educate her.

For most ladies once they are married, that is the end of working on themselves o...
This is why things are looking stiff, her mind is not wired to understand your drive and she is clearly not madly in love with you.

chigoziri2403:
Igbore her, don't bother her again, pretend you don't need it,
You will be amazed of her response,
Ns you go f""k tire
I was once treated like you,
My wife evwn complained to our doctor and everyone that i want to kill her with sex, thus is someone that we knack thrice a day before marriage
The complaint became too much
I didn't ask her sex for a month
My brother, her brain reset, na she dey even use her hand put am in, morning and night
NEVER BEG FOR WHAT YOU DESERVE

Vyolet:
One and half year with no child yet is too early for he to be withdrawing from sex.
You need to find out what the problem is, you may not be as good as you think or too rough.

FromZeroToHero:
For me once a week isn't bad. The main thing is to have targeted sex during her ovulation period I prefer quality sex than quantity.

teemy:
No one licks honey and spits it out.

Start from why she is not liking it.

You might need to let your gameplay shift towards satisfying her which in turn arouses you the more and the cycle yields more desires in you both. Try look for the book 'She Cums First' and also google search 'How to get a woman to Orlando'

Another part could be she gets tired after the day's job. Do you leave all chores for her to do while you lounge it on the sofa? Help out.

Do special things for her even if she gives in or not. Do it from the bottom of your lovely heart. Dinners and special outing events for just you two, massages on one another and so on.

Does it pain her? use lubrication. That Goya Olive oil or Cussons Baby oil does wonders I tell you bro.

You love this woman right? I need not say more.

Wishing you well - Teemy

chigoziri2403:
Ignore her, don't bother her again, pretend you don't need it,
You will be amazed of her response,
Ns you go f""k tire
I was once treated like you,
My wife even complained to our doctor and everyone that i want to kill her with sex, thus is someone that we knack thrice a day before marriage
The complaint became too much
I didn't ask her sex for a month
My brother, her brain reset, na she dey even use her hand put am in, morning and night
NEVER BEG FOR WHAT YOU DESERVE

chigoziri2403:
Ignore her, don't bother her again, pretend you don't need it,
You will be amazed of her response,
Ns you go f""k tire
I was once treated like you,
My wife even complained to our doctor and everyone that i want to kill her with sex, thus is someone that we knack thrice a day before marriage
The complaint became too much
I didn't ask her sex for a month
My brother, her brain reset, na she dey even use her hand put am in, morning and night
NEVER BEG FOR WHAT YOU DESERVE

elmagnifico411:
This moves doesn’t work for everybody. If u pretend not to bother, my wife wouldn’t even see u. May on the third or 4th month she would then reason it. OP is enjoying sef, after all he gets to shag his wife every weekend. I just graduated from once a month to 2wice a month. 31/2 yrs in marriage, with 2 kids, and this is what I’ve been with. I’ve learnt not to complain again sef cos I used to but it didn’t change much. She’s a just that type that sex doesn’t appeal to, save for some extreme situations. The other day I had to pay one hooker for a quickee in my car.. got home and went to bed straight. My plan now is to ignore totally. But for back, I think ama take up a woman just for my own satisfaction. Is she gives me a heir I won’t complain. Hats not to say I don’t love my wife, cos I really do. But the sexy drive for me is toooo low. How much time have I got left before I become one old gagool? This is one of the reasons our fathers took second wives for themselves in the past.

I’m writing this with heavy heart, my wife denies me sex. We don’t have kids yet. We have been married for almost a year and half. She gives me excuses. We only have sex at best once a week. I’m frustrated. I don’t know what to do. I don’t cheat and I’m sexually active. She’s so insensitive to my needs, sexually. I’ve tried talking to her but it seems she doesn’t know the gravity of what she’s doing. I still love her very much but she’s really driving me nuts.