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How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by victorisreal02: 8:27am On Oct 14, 2019
This post was removed due to some abusive comments, I'm highly disappointed in this forum.
Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Oloki: 8:33am On Oct 14, 2019
let's see.....are you a husband material?...... aside your money what else do you have to offer?

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Sunnymatey(m): 8:37am On Oct 14, 2019
Bros chill, all the girls have join gang.

You came late.

Rather look for a baby mama
Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by victorisreal02: 8:48am On Oct 14, 2019
Oloki:
let's see.....are you a husband material?...... aside your money what else do you have to offer?

You spot money in my thread, but that doesn't mean that's all I have to offer, and besides you are sliding off the topic
Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by MissOffpoint(f): 8:49am On Oct 14, 2019
Try pretending to be poor.

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Greatzeus(m): 8:57am On Oct 14, 2019
First,Pray to God for guidance
Second, open your eyes well and look for someone you love and compatible with.
Thirdly,your chances of finding a wife material in clubs or online is very slim though not impossible.
Fourthly,you will still have to risk it,you are not Omniscient,so you can't really know anyone completely, marriage is a black market but you can reduce your chances of disaster by using your head more than your heart.

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Oloki: 10:22am On Oct 14, 2019
[quote author=victorisreal02 post=83120070]

You spot money in my thread, but that doesn't mean that's all I have to offer, and besides you are sliding off the topic[/quot


you said you are comfortable and because of that they are coming in troops making it difficult for you to know the genuine one among them
Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Iogobenz(m): 10:31am On Oct 14, 2019
Look for women that have money too,but make sure you are the richer one.
But women weh get money no easy to contain oo hahaha.
Goodluck men.
Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:43am On Oct 14, 2019
Forget about women bro. Women are incapable of loving a man as he wants to be loved. If you doubt me pretend you are poor or feign a very powerful financial disasters to your admirers and see if they won't kaput. lipsrsealed

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by prizlezzlalasky(f): 10:44am On Oct 14, 2019
Biuld friendship with someone you barely know , study the person or persons as the case may be, don't flaunt ur statue to her or them, from the list pick the one whose weakness u can tolerate.

Cheers!

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by pocohantas(f): 11:09am On Oct 14, 2019
https://www.nairaland.com/3740845/im-love-girl-she-boyfriend

This was you in 2017, a 400l student, asking for advice on how to get someone's gf. You left all the ones that liked you and was pursuing another man's girl.

SucessfulBusinessman:
I'm a hardworking entrepreneur, on the schools's most successful students (financially). Many girl who knows me very well wanna be with me

Anyway, please create a thread in Business section. Lets know how a guy who was in 400l as at 2017, is now a VERY SUCCESSFUL businessman in Buhari's economy. smiley

victorisreàl02:

Any lady in here that wanna satisfy her S€xual fantasies for rea, should chat me up on whatsapp 08114624***

Is this how you became successful?

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Vyolet(f): 11:21am On Oct 14, 2019
pocohantas:
https://www.nairaland.com/3740845/im-love-girl-she-boyfriend

This was you in 2017, a 400l student, asking for advice on how to get someone's gf. You left all the ones that liked you and was pursuing another man's girl.



Anyway, please create a thread in Business section. Lets know how a guy who was in 400l as at 2017, is now a VERY SUCCESSFUL businessman in Buhari's economy. smiley



Is this how you became successful?
Coman enter heaven lemme see you

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Iogobenz(m): 11:22am On Oct 14, 2019
Ohh shit!!
Who would have thought undecided
Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Gerrard59(m): 11:36am On Oct 14, 2019
pocohantas:
https://www.nairaland.com/3740845/im-love-girl-she-boyfriend

This was you in 2017, a 400l student, asking for advice on how to get someone's gf. You left all the ones that liked you and was pursuing another man's girl.



Anyway, please create a thread in Business section. Lets know how a guy who was in 400l as at 2017, is now a VERY SUCCESSFUL businessman in Buhari's economy. smiley



Is this how you became successful?

But seriously, what do these people gain by lying on NL? I really don't get. You can have fantasies online but as long as the reality is different, it makes no sense coming to lie online. Reality over fantasies.

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Hisduchess(f): 11:39am On Oct 14, 2019
pocohantas:
https://www.nairaland.com/3740845/im-love-girl-she-boyfriend

This was you in 2017, a 400l student, asking for advice on how to get someone's gf. You left all the ones that liked you and was pursuing another man's girl.



Anyway, please create a thread in Business section. Lets know how a guy who was in 400l as at 2017, is now a VERY SUCCESSFUL businessman in Buhari's economy. smiley



Is this how you became successful?

Hell fire candidate.you will not make heaven seriously grin grin grin grin

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Finelinks: 11:46am On Oct 14, 2019
Oloki:
let's see.....are you a husband material?...... aside your money what else do you have to offer?

Useless question.

.All a man has to offer is 99% directly or indirectly linked to his wealth.

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Finelinks: 11:53am On Oct 14, 2019
prizlezzlalasky:
Biuld friendship with someone you barely know , study the person or persons as the case may be, don't flaunt ur statue to her or them, from the list pick the one whose weakness u can tolerate.

Cheers!

If you are rich and educated and pretend to be poor and uneducated.

How do you get the girl whose father is say, a commissioner or a vice chancellor?

The girl will be worried about what his professor or commissioner dad will think.

What the family relations etc will think.


Don't let Nollywood deceive you!


Nothing like love.

A woman is incapable of loving.

How many women love kids that's not theirs.

Women are very selfish.

They only love your power, fame, wealth etc.

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by LordKO(m): 12:27pm On Oct 14, 2019
@OP

The first step towards finding a wife material is by defining yourself/creating your personal philosophy - self-realization - man know thyself. Of course, make sure you embed humaneness in your personal philosophy, if you mean well for yourself and the potential wife, because sanely "he who comes into equity must come with clean hands."

At this point, let's assume that you have achieved self-realization based on the terms above and have known your ethical leanings. The type of person you're and the type of marriage/home you intend to build will determine the type of woman you deserve (your wife material):

1. Marriage on principle/spiritualism (not religion) foundation; A husband and wife (a loving man and submissive woman in marriage) - the attributes of selflessness and meekness are the core/major hallmark of a submissive woman, while attributes of thoughtfulness and tactfulness are the core/major hallmark of a loving man. Altruism (selflessness/thoughtfulness) in particular, and goodness in general, is the bond that will hold you two together. Here either of the parties can joyfully sustain the marriage financially at any point in time, without undervaluing the other party who doesn't have financial means. So, if you fancy this type, focus on looking for a woman who possesses the attributes of selflessness and meekness, while negating every other thing, provided that she's beautiful to your eyes - beauty is the eye of the beholder. You, as a man, don't forget to work hard and smart because importance of money can never be overestimated - a good woman deserves the best of care/treatment/provision, whether or not she's money.

2. Marriage on materialism/expediency foundation; A man and woman in marriage as partners (partners in literal/business form, albeit unpronounced) - you don't need goodness in its totality to put up this type of marriage, of course neither of the parties will expect the core benefits of total goodness like loyalty, faithfulness, respect or special attention - only a fool will expect such in this setting. Money is the bond that will hold you two together, so you will be more or less frenemies living together - however, visibility or otherwise of the frenemy (enmity) will depend on sly prowess of both parties individually and collectively. Sharing of bills and competition in everything will be the order of the day here - it'll always be about self and self-interest first, egoism and egotism are the core attributes of both parties.

3. A man as master/brute and his slave (stepford or subjugable or subservient) woman in marriage. The woman may or may not be parasitic and materialistic, but she will be treated as such here - marriage on oppression foundation, with the man as the oppressor.

4. A man as slave (stepford or subjugable or subservient man) and his subjugative/brutish woman in marriage. The man may or may not be parasitic and materialistic, but he will be treated as such here - marriage on oppression foundation, with the woman as the oppressor.

Actually, there are good women everywhere, even on this forum.

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by victorisreal02: 12:59pm On Oct 14, 2019
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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by prizlezzlalasky(f): 1:23pm On Oct 14, 2019
[quote author=Finelinks post=83125417]

If you are rich and educated and pretend to be poor and uneducated.

How do you get the girl whose father is say, a commissioner or a vice chancellor?

The girl will be worried about what his professor or commissioner dad will think.

What the family relations etc will think.


Don't let Nollywood deceive you!


Nothing like love.

A woman is incapable of loving.

How many women love kids that's not theirs.

Women are very selfish.

They only love your power, fame, wealth etc.











Well to answer the above ,common sense should tell you that you don't be to appear poor and illiterate at the same time. What happens to presenting yourself as an average struggling guy with potential. Would you have your sis bring home a liability home and present to you as a would be spouse?

The bottom line is set your priorities right. Some of we ladies don't necessarily look out for the flashy lifestyle. Trust me if dude comes plain and I see the potential in him and not some hit and run kind of guys... Why won't a responsible lady grab him.
My concern is don't attract someone with ur flashy life style cause you would end up attracting the slay ones.
Peace.
Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by dominique(f): 1:48pm On Oct 14, 2019
pocohantas:
https://www.nairaland.com/3740845/im-love-girl-she-boyfriend

This was you in 2017, a 400l student, asking for advice on how to get someone's gf. You left all the ones that liked you and was pursuing another man's girl.



Anyway, please create a thread in Business section. Lets know how a guy who was in 400l as at 2017, is now a VERY SUCCESSFUL businessman in Buhari's economy. smiley


Is this how you became successful?

You wicked o. You just dey dash the guy uppercut back to back grin

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Nobody: 1:59pm On Oct 14, 2019
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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Finelinks: 2:15pm On Oct 14, 2019
[quote author=prizlezzlalasky post=83127671][/quote]


I repeat that a woman cannot love. They only love your wealth. The potentials you are referring to is part of the man's wealth.

Or you deem wealth to be only physical cash?

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by sauceEEP(m): 3:54pm On Oct 14, 2019
Fake life...... grin grin
Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Oloki: 4:00pm On Oct 14, 2019
Finelinks:


Useless question.

.All a man has to offer is 99% directly or indirectly linked to his wealth.



unless answer....why don't you marry your money then
Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by generationz(f): 5:41pm On Oct 14, 2019
Iogobenz:


Look for women that have money too,but make sure you are the richer one.
But women weh get money no easy to contain oo hahaha.
Goodluck men.

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Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by generationz(f): 5:45pm On Oct 14, 2019
pocohantas:
https://www.nairaland.com/3740845/im-love-girl-she-boyfriend

This was you in 2017, a 400l student, asking for advice on how to get someone's gf. You left all the ones that liked you and was pursuing another man's girl.



Anyway, please create a thread in Business section. Lets know how a guy who was in 400l as at 2017, is now a VERY SUCCESSFUL businessman in Buhari's economy. smiley



Is this how you became successful?

You wee not make Alfa meil heaven. cry

Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by MedicH: 8:12pm On Oct 14, 2019
No wife materials. Just hoes that rich niggars want but their niggars can do nothing for them. They're not loyal one bit lol. Pls pls pls no wife materials. No such thing. Damn it no wife material.
Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:33pm On Oct 14, 2019
LordKO:
@OP

The first step towards finding a wife material is by defining yourself/creating your personal philosophy - self-realization - man know thyself. Of course, make sure you embed humaneness in your personal philosophy, if you mean well for yourself and the potential wife, because sanely "he who comes into equity must come with clean hands."

At this point, let's assume that you have achieved self-realization based on the terms above and have known your ethical leanings. The type of person you're and the type of marriage/home you intend to build will determine the type of woman you deserve (your wife material):

1. Marriage on principle/spiritualism (not religion) foundation; A husband and wife (a loving man and submissive woman in marriage) - the attributes of selflessness and meekness are the core/major hallmark of a submissive woman, while attributes of thoughtfulness and tactfulness are the core/major hallmark of a loving man. Altruism (selflessness/thoughtfulness) in particular, and goodness in general, is the bond that will hold you two together. Here either of the parties can joyfully sustain the marriage financially at any point in time, without undervaluing the other party who doesn't have financial means. So, if you fancy this type, focus on looking for a woman who possesses the attributes of selflessness and meekness, while negating every other thing, provided that she's beautiful to your eyes - beauty is the eye of the beholder. You, as a man, don't forget to work hard and smart because importance of money can never be overestimated - a good woman deserves the best of care/treatment/provision, whether or not she's money.

2. Marriage on materialism/expediency foundation; A man and woman in marriage as partners (partners in literal/business form, albeit unpronounced) - you don't need goodness in its totality to put up this type of marriage, of course neither of the parties will expect the core benefits of total goodness like loyalty, faithfulness, respect or special attention - only a fool will expect such in this settings. Money is the bond that will hold you two together, so you will be more or less frenemies living together - however, visibility or otherwise of the frenemy (enmity) will depend on sly prowess of both parties individually and collectively. Sharing of bills and competition in everything will be the order of the day here - it'll always be about self and self-interest first, egoism and egotism are the core attributes of both parties.

3. A man as master/brute and his slave (stepford or subjugable or subservient) woman in marriage. The woman may or may not be parasitic and materialistic, but she will be treated as such here - marriage on oppression foundation, with the man as the oppressor.

4. A man as slave (stepford or subjugable or subservient man) and his subjugative/brutish woman in marriage. The man may or may not be parasitic and materialistic, but he will be treated as such here - marriage on oppression foundation, with the woman as the oppressor.

Actually, there are good women everywhere, even on this forum.


kiss
Re: How Do I Get A Wife Material, Dear Nairalanders by Nobody: 8:39pm On Oct 14, 2019
There are some groups of wife materials at Ayilara street , ojuelegba. ... Prayerfully choose one of them and come and thank me later

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