Crazyemberr:
Boys believe in babby daddies. And that marriage is overrated

ericsmith:



Babe u're so obssesed with male u had to fake gender, wish u had a dick ! eva heard of transgender plasty

Crazyemberr:
I do this alot. You know me right? Previous me
Imagine guys think im gay.

AstroG1:
Marriage is highly overrated for me,it doesn't deserve so much noise cus the reason most venture into it is because of procreation.



So to me,MARRIAGE IS AN OLD THING

carter009:
MOST MARRIAGES THIS DAYS NA SCAM......

Hamachi:
Meaning you are never getting married

viccipedia:
Marriage is a choice with consequences.
Times have changed. Knowledge and attention are very cheap. No one is really interested in the pressure of monogamy anymore, but that also comes at a price.

Hamachi:
Men should marry not boys,

In Nigeria in those good old days, we see a trend of Igbo boys serving there oga, for years, after freedom they hustle, make money , some build houses, some acquire wealth, to make them stable for life and you see that boy becoming a man at 40, then vets married, mostly in those marriages, these men marry and make their wives very comfortable, many o these ladies immediately start having babies, and focus on personal growth because oga is upto , he's a real odogwu, he can take care of all the expenses.

Frankly speaking a woman that marry to such comfort will not forget to ever respect her husband, that's where you see them protecting their husband like their life depends on it. The wifes money doesn't concern the man at all, and these women will remain in the marriage no matter what, except for a few .

Now let's analyse these days marriages, a guy man just finished his nysc, gets a job the next month, the next thing is to organize his babe , and babe too start looking for pregnancy, no plan, no idea how to organise the home , or any investment whatsoever, then you hear the boy telling the giver l, 'am the man of the house, you must submit your salary' , my guy you don't have to remind anyone who the man is if you are doing your JOB well.

In marriage our lord said when a man finds a wife, , not a boy find a girl, therefore obi should wait and become a man first before looking for a partner. When God created Adam he gave him the job to tend all the animals in the garden, later he said, let me create a help meet, we can also looking at the book of Genesis , when they ate the apple their punishment was according to their jobs, their roles they should perform in marriage.

Now let's go further ,when we talk about submission in marriage, the Bible clearly admonished the husband to live his wife even ad Christ loved his church and died for him, naturally any woman that's loved will have no issue with submission, except on certain issues

Magnoliaa:


What is the pressure monogamy brings?

Allsingles:


Thanks you for mentioning the old days, we are now in another century, another generation I must say.
90% of women don't submit to their man this days because they have automatically become the liability of man, 90% of youths are lazy, they want it very fast and easy so they can be famous and that's why Marriage this days easily break like egg, so many get married just to answer Mrs.
Don't blame anyone, because we are in 21st century.

viccipedia:
this is not an emotional discussion. Pay attention to the statistics and figures... then perhaps we can talk.

Magnoliaa:



??

Emotions where? Where are you bringing that up from?

Mtchewww.

My fault for quoting you.

Hamachi:
People bring out their best when the find someone they Like.
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If your partner is giving you a hard time, then the Love is not there. Love is not a feeling. A feeling is just a crush. And the crush normally goes away after a while. Love is a Decision of Long Term Unconditional Commitment.
Please take your time to study this new definition of Love. Because people don't practice true love before marriage.
Most relationships are based on crush and selfish interests..
This is why Marriage is too hard for many people these days.

viccipedia:
My point exactly... marital pressures have existed since time immemorial. Technology and advancement in civilization has made it worse.
This is easy to see... so i agree with you that your question was unnecessary.
Cheers

Magnoliaa:


I don't/didn't get your point.

Now you're elaborating on what you meant??

You mentioned monogamy (not marital pressures) - as if being with one partner itself is problematic and that alone is bad. And you say I'm being emotional?? ??

Marital pressures or pressures on getting married? These are two different things, and I think you're talking about the latter. Problems come with every union. And civilization have lessened it: the pressure on people to get married.

The desire to get married (willingly) have been existing, too.

Nothing is 'easy to see,' and that's why I asked my first question. It wasn't unnecessary and I didn't imply so.
Quoting you was, because of God-knows-what you're trying to insinuate, calling me emotional and illogical and being dismissive?

viccipedia:
haha Abeg no vex o... you’re not emotional, and sorry for dismissing you... I’m very sure we’re looking at it from two different angles. Yours is well... a good idea, while mine seems to be more realistic to me. That’s why I said look at the charts and statistics. The marriage institution will need a world crusade organized by tb Joshua, pastor Chris and all the fire spitting pastors to revive it... and I’m sure it’ll be a hoax. I’m sorry but your belief in the institution won’t revive it either. Look before leaping.