IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN:
1. Rejecting food when there's an issue:
Sir, you gave your wife money for
food and after it was prepared you refused to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity!
2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:
May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Be a Man , however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.
3. Issuing threats:
beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce or
bragging about marrying another wife does not make you a man. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."
4. Reporting your wife to friends and family:
When your wife offends you, correct
and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back.
5. Keeping malice:
is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Sir, you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.
6. Not helping with house chores:
I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home.
However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and make her old.
A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of depression.
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Good read

8. There are no fairy-tale marriages, the amount of peace and harmony you enjoy in your marriage is equivalent to the effort you put in!

Don't be building unrealistic expectations of your woman when you're not willing to go that extra mile for her too.

This list applies to both genders sha