SteveOfu:
"He used me,. I suffered with him. After all I did for him"

My dear if you did not give him your kidney, sell your father's land or give him a loan, you did nothing. That you drank Garri with him, is because you yourself is broke if not, you would have prepared a better food. That you stayed in the gutters with him is not a sacrifice because if you had a palace , you wouldn't do that. About using you, my dear, if it's mutual, then you shouldn't say he used you. You both had fun and used yourselves...

The only reason why you feel hurt and left out is because you abandoned yourself in his shadow. You lost yourself in him. While he's staying up at night to think outside the box, while he's setting goals and achieving it,you were counting the days, waiting for him to blow/hammer. While he was investing in his future, you left yours stagnant without any meaningful long term plans.

A young guy is struggling to survive, struggling to make it but you will come in form of girlfriend to ask him money for hair, shoes, this that and even pad thereby spending what he's supposed to be saving and at the end, you wailed on how he used you, on how you suffered with him..

How??
Whenever I hear this statement;
"I suffered with him when he was broke" what comes to this my silly mind is

"I slept with him for free when he had no money. Now that he's supposed to be paying, he left me" . ( I know, my mind is crazy).

My point my dearest sisters is, if you did not contribute anything tangible either in cash, assistance or ideas, anything that is progressive or crucial towards his success, then please don't play victim.

Times are changing, men are no longer the only ones Winning bread. Women are now bread winners too. So while you are performing wife duties to a single man, please think of your own entity.

Sex is not enough
Love is not a enough.
Have a purpose.

SteveOfu:
"He used me,. I suffered with him. After all I did for him"



Whenever I hear this statement;
"I suffered with him when he was broke" what comes to this my silly mind is

"I slept with him for free when he had no money. Now that he's supposed to be paying, he left me" . ( I know, my mind is crazy).

Celestial777:




Gbefun !!!
You are so right....wow
When a woman get sense they get am complete
Well i doubt if you are a female sha

SteveOfu:
"He used me,. I suffered with him. After all I did for him"

My dear if you did not give him your kidney, sell your father's land or give him a loan, you did nothing. That you drank Garri with him, is because you yourself is broke if not, you would have prepared a better food. That you stayed in the gutters with him is not a sacrifice because if you had a palace , you wouldn't do that. About using you, my dear, if it's mutual, then you shouldn't say he used you. You both had fun and used yourselves...

SteveOfu:
"He used me,. I suffered with him. After all I did for him"

My dear if you did not give him your kidney, sell your father's land or give him a loan, you did nothing. That you drank Garri with him, is because you yourself is broke if not, you would have prepared a better food. That you stayed in the gutters with him is not a sacrifice because if you had a palace , you wouldn't do that. About using you, my dear, if it's mutual, then you shouldn't say he used you. You both had fun and used yourselves...

The only reason why you feel hurt and left out is because you abandoned yourself in his shadow. You lost yourself in him. While he's staying up at night to think outside the box, while he's setting goals and achieving it,you were counting the days, waiting for him to blow/hammer. While he was investing in his future, you left yours stagnant without any meaningful long term plans.

A young guy is struggling to survive, struggling to make it but you will come in form of girlfriend to ask him money for hair, shoes, this that and even pad thereby spending what he's supposed to be saving and at the end, you wailed on how he used you, on how you suffered with him..

How??
Whenever I hear this statement;
"I suffered with him when he was broke" what comes to this my silly mind is

"I slept with him for free when he had no money. Now that he's supposed to be paying, he left me" . ( I know, my mind is crazy).

My point my dearest sisters is, if you did not contribute anything tangible either in cash, assistance or ideas, anything that is progressive or crucial towards his success, then please don't play victim.

Times are changing, men are no longer the only ones Winning bread. Women are now bread winners too. So while you are performing wife duties to a single man, please think of your own entity.

Sex is not enough
Love is not a enough.
Have a purpose.

Psalm2423:


Why are you doubting if she’s female? Can a male have that beautiful endowment that OP has in her display picture? You better believe brotherly.

Celestial777:



I just checked her profile now now walahi
I am looking for ny vaseline
Is your own remaining

Psalm2423:


I’m running to the shop now to get a new one. Hope aboki never close?

SteveOfu:
"He used me,. I suffered with him. After all I did for him"

My dear if you did not give him your kidney, sell your father's land or give him a loan, you did nothing. That you drank Garri with him, is because you yourself is broke if not, you would have prepared a better food. That you stayed in the gutters with him is not a sacrifice because if you had a palace , you wouldn't do that. About using you, my dear, if it's mutual, then you shouldn't say he used you. You both had fun and used yourselves...

The only reason why you feel hurt and left out is because you abandoned yourself in his shadow. You lost yourself in him. While he's staying up at night to think outside the box, while he's setting goals and achieving it,you were counting the days, waiting for him to blow/hammer. While he was investing in his future, you left yours stagnant without any meaningful long term plans.

A young guy is struggling to survive, struggling to make it but you will come in form of girlfriend to ask him money for hair, shoes, this that and even pad thereby spending what he's supposed to be saving and at the end, you wailed on how he used you, on how you suffered with him..

How??
Whenever I hear this statement;
"I suffered with him when he was broke" what comes to this my silly mind is

"I slept with him for free when he had no money. Now that he's supposed to be paying, he left me" . ( I know, my mind is crazy).

My point my dearest sisters is, if you did not contribute anything tangible either in cash, assistance or ideas, anything that is progressive or crucial towards his success, then please don't play victim.

Times are changing, men are no longer the only ones Winning bread. Women are now bread winners too. So while you are performing wife duties to a single man, please think of your own entity.

Sex is not enough
Love is not a enough.
Have a purpose.

virgoquin:
lillyval AKA pascopele AKA immanbong and now steveofu wonderful! Seems like you want to continue where you stopped

I pity the mumu guys that will fall for this catfish

eni4real:
Ungrateful post!!!

lilwetdick:
SteveOfu, how many names do you have, you know where i am talking about

Amanda
Hannah
Jane

SteveOfu:
DISCLAIMER!
The general public is hereby informed that the name mentioned below making the rounds on social media did not emanate from me and therefore, is untrue that I am the same person with the username below.
Please beware!

futurerex:
Feminist and gold diggers wouldn't like this

sinceraconcept:
Virginity loss among women is the beginning of their problem and complication,asides vulnerability to HIV/STD and unwanted pregnancy, If you're non virgin and meet a guy, the guy must surely sleep with you since you've slept with others too and if he does, it's uncertain he would marry you because once a man sleeps with a woman outside marriage,he begins to see her as unworthy and not special except if he's pretending,I'm a man and we love sex so much but if we encounter a virgin girl,I swear we won't want to sleep with her till wedding night,the fantasizing alone is worth more than sex and we would be willing to endure,we are the ones that would be willing to marry her and not the other way round.
If I date a woman I didn't meet as a virgin,i must sleep with her before marriage and won't really honour her even if I eventually marry her except if i'm pretending. God knows what he's doing when he said women should preserve their virginity, he's wiser than us and knows all these would happen.
Non virgin women always feeling like they're doing men some certain favour by fornicating with him, where as they're enjoying it. You can't be a non virgin and still expect me to treat you like an angel. Do I know the number of lecturers, acquaintances, artisans, professionals, teachers, etc you've slept with? Since it doesn't read metre. That virginity loss alone is the biggest loss in honor a woman could ever encounter,if I have sex with you before marriage, even though I'm really enjoying it, but I can't appreciate it unless I'm pretending,give me all the money in the world, I can't trust you and see you as a used product and like I'm just settling for less,I see you as loose and anybody else can bang you,so why complain about me if I'm not willing to marry such a woman?

Akinbahm:

Date them Hoe and marry them Virgin...

sinceraconcept:
Virginity loss among women is the beginning of their problem and complication,asides vulnerability to HIV/STD and unwanted pregnancy, If you're non virgin and meet a guy, the guy must surely sleep with you since you've slept with others too and if he does, it's uncertain he would marry you because once a man sleeps with a woman outside marriage,he begins to see her as unworthy and not special except if he's pretending,I'm a man and we love sex so much but if we encounter a virgin girl,I swear we won't want to sleep with her till wedding night,the fantasizing alone is worth more than sex and we would be willing to endure,we are the ones that would be willing to marry her and not the other way round.
If I date a woman I didn't meet as a virgin,i must sleep with her before marriage and won't really honour her even if I eventually marry her except if i'm pretending. God knows what he's doing when he said women should preserve their virginity, he's wiser than us and knows all these would happen.
Non virgin women always feeling like they're doing men some certain favour by fornicating with him, where as they're enjoying it. You can't be a non virgin and still expect me to treat you like an angel. Do I know the number of lecturers, acquaintances, artisans, professionals, teachers, etc you've slept with? Since it doesn't read metre. That virginity loss alone is the biggest loss in honor a woman could ever encounter,if I have sex with you before marriage, even though I'm really enjoying it, but I can't appreciate it unless I'm pretending,give me all the money in the world, I can't trust you and see you as a used product and like I'm just settling for less,I see you as loose and anybody else can bang you,so why complain about me if I'm not willing to marry such a woman?