NuissancePolice:
It is because they want you to service their kpekus.

NuissancePolice:
It is because they want you to service their kpekus.

RedCreme21:
My dear dont mind them. Most dont have responsible adults to guide them. Others cause of peer pressure.

Btw are you handsome?

Newguyhere:
if fit be trap oo my guy
No go fall victim.

Zita55:
Na only female clients you dey get?

BlackHummer:
Op, girls during that age are usually very curious about bad things. You seem to be a nice guy else some tutors might have taken advantage of them. Were u a private totur or you worked under an outsourcing firm?

ElasticStone:
Guys, about four years ago when I was engaged in home tutorials in Lagos, I observed that almost all the girls in their teens always asked if I had a girlfriend. When I was first asked by my first client's daughter in Lekki, I thought she just wanted to bond because it is easier for students to learn well when they're free with their tutors so I answered her but jokingly and even made up some stories just to redivert back to the main subject. The next day, she asked me to fast forward and teach her about sexual reproduction - which was in her biology syllabus btw but I was just too uncomfortable. Couldn't believe a 14 year old could make me speechless. Had to lie that I don't know much about that topic and I scored very low marks in that area during my secondary school days. Luckily for me, I was about rounding up with that client, so I zoomed off.

Same thing repeated with another client but hers was slightly different. She kept pressing to know my real age and if I have a girlfriend. This one was about going to SS3 and was 16yeara old.

I had totally forgotten about these incidents since I no longer take tutorials but yesterday when I got back home, I saw some students, who were my neighbour's children, struggling with their maths homework. Well, I helped them and they were awed at the ease with which I solved and explained the problem to them. I smiled and told them I had been a tutor once. Next thing is that they started making jokes about how my girlfriend would enjoy.

Question is, what could be making teens these days curious about s*x or could it be that I am just too free with them?

Cc: Lalasticlala, Mynd44, farano, Rocktation

ElasticStone:


#bolded, aswear I can't tell. But I definately would not be at the bottom of the pot in an average group of 15 to 20.

Apination:

RedCreme21:
well thats how we are. With all the hormones flooding our system... Just dont get tempted. Or put yourself in a spot you'll later regret. Avoid being alone with the younglings. If rejected, they might accuse you of rape.
And you know how our justice system is

ElasticStone:


Under an outsourcing firm. Prepclass to be precise.

ElasticStone:


Lol

Apination:

Be open with them and point out the dangers involved. You were in a vantage position to teach and you forgot that morals is part of the things you get to impact on those kids, if they were free to talk to you about it be glad and teach them, not by running away because the next person might not have the necessary self control not to take advantage of their naivety.

DanXplore:

I think within that age bracket, they're often curious and excited about anything relating to sexuality. For me, I try to be professional about topics like this whenever it arises. You may never know how far it would help them.

NuissancePolice:
Joystark my loving girlfriend. Have male students demanded s*x chat from you before?

Joystark:


Quote me again and risk castration.

NuissancePolice:
It is because they want you to service their kpekus.