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Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by Elfather12: 4:39pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
Na Dr omoregie type be that, I know his family very well and I da pity for them , the man wicked but one day me as his friend go expose him . Uk bugger |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by ahiboilandgas: 4:42pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
jclassiq:about? |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by pocohantas(f): 4:44pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
DJperdurabo: Guy, you sef get brain na and fingers too. Give your own on insight- hopefully there are people who look forward to it. |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by midnighter(f): 4:50pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
Sylver247: I agreed with you until you started about the wife, you also used your own imagination there! You didn't see where he said that they actively opposed the marriage partly due to the girls family circumstances? So it didn't just "start after he got married" organically. They actively instigated it and pushed their brother away thus. 5 Likes |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by chris81964(m): 4:51pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
johnmba: Why are they wondering? If it bothers them that much why don't they help you? They should be paying it forward instead of engaging in silly talk. They are showing themselves as ingrates and undeserving of help. And why is it your business who he helps? You should also ask yourself why you are working at a hospital if you are an engineering major. Being a manager does not mean one makes a hiring decision. You folks get it wrong with your expectations of a salaried individual. He is a salaried employee with real time expenses. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by davillian(m): 4:53pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
CanadianNaija:He changed when he started making money he wasn't like that before 2 Likes |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by shadeyinka(m): 4:58pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
johnmba:Three things: 1. Have you asked him for placement at Shell? (Don't assume he aught to know: others too ask before he takes action). 2. Are you highly qualified for what you are asking for? (Some cases are difficult to defend before your boss) 3. Does your brother's influence cover your area of expertise? (Your area of expertise is Engineering but your brother may have his sphere of influence in Administration) But the most important thing is to ASK him: prepare your CV like you are meeting a person not related to you. Finally: If you can all relate, let things be. I feel that Unconsciously you have all put the blame on the wife. Sorry, you cannot be his friend while rejecting his wife. It is not possible! Become a friend of the wife and you will become his friend.QED! 1 Like |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by midnighter(f): 5:00pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
DJperdurabo: Yes! They will have an issue with their family but leave the wife to stand up for them both so that he can look like a nice guy |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by chris81964(m): 5:00pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
johnmba:It sounds like you folks burnt the bridge and expects him to erect one for your convenience. He was never close to you. He was close to the oldest. What are you calling him to talk about when you never had a relationship when you were younger? When was the last time you took a gift to him on his birthday or when he gave birth to children? Did you buy diapers when they gave birth? Did any member of the family attend baby showers or baptisms? He is suddenly family because you work in a hospital, what effort did you make to invest in a relationship when you were younger? Did your family ever apologize to him or his wife for your treatment of her? You obviously are not as superior as you all believed abi? Your older brother that got a gift what did he ever give to his nieces or nephews as gifts from an uncle on their birthdays? When was the last time you took them out? What relationship have you attempted to establish with the kids? You are talking about you and what the others needs? Talk about what you have done for a change. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by chris81964(m): 5:02pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
Creamcustard: Well said 1 Like |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by midnighter(f): 5:02pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
CanadianNaija: What Do you know how painful it is to go and visit somebody and they can't even offer you a glass of water? Forget that they were fighting the wife for a second, on a normal day is that thing okay by you |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by Cuteamigo1(m): 5:09pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
madridguy:They like to form woke. At the end they just make me laugh. |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by midnighter(f): 5:09pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
DJperdurabo: Thank you! People just remember their own past but won't read the topic to see if it matches or not. All their anger with their own relatives will be coming out instead of what the OP needs They brought out some interesting perspectives but without relating it back to the post |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by Fhemmmy: 5:15pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
DJperdurabo: In this case, read the story well.... The family was against the woman from the start The man already got pissed off The man later came around but relationships never remain same By the way, a real honest relationship where a man loves his wife and vice versa, once people try to separate a loving couple, they will bear the trouble that comes with it, we need to learn to allow couples deal with their issue alone 1 Like |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by NovusHomo(m): 5:16pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
johnmba: Leave him alone. Carve your own path. Y'all want brotherly love? Well, that sounds like money to me. You are all graduates except your rich brother. God knows how you used to look down on him. God also knows that he helped you all somewhere along the way. When your demands got too overwhelming, he changed. And now you want him back. He does not need your exploiting asses. PERIOD! 1 Like |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by madridguy(m): 5:30pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
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Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by midnighter(f): 5:32pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
khalids: I agree with everything you said except this sentence If you go to somebody's house and they don't give you something to eat then it's a humongous issue oh That's if you people are not fighting. I can't go to my sisters house and there's no food and two of us would be sitting there looking at each other, no way on earth 1 Like |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by madridguy(m): 5:32pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
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Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by jclassiq(m): 5:36pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
ahiboilandgas: Well, business for instance |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by madridguy(m): 5:37pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
" On several occasions people have told the third son why his brother refused to help his family. They said he helps people alot in the multinational company and he is a very nice guy." Cut from the OP's statement. franchasng: |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by Id6019: 5:44pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
My brother keep praying. In addition to that, your mother needs to move closer to the wife and your brother in case there are issues to trash out. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by ahiboilandgas: 5:48pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
jclassiq:list it here..... 1 Like |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by madridguy(m): 5:49pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by madridguy(m): 5:51pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
Good quote. idesylvester: 1 Like |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by sixtus3606(m): 5:52pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
Shibaraba: Mine is even worse than that of OP. But this your advice and analysis entered my marrow. HUUUUSSSSTLLLLE! |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by madridguy(m): 5:52pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
Na baba Buhari dey give me inspiration walahi FarahAideed: 1 Like |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by Nobody: 5:55pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
[quote author=subcbouy post=83504074] Reading this made me thank God again for my brother, who single handedly sponsored my masters program outside shore. Jesus thank you ooo. To Op, It is well.[God bless him aboundantly . And purnish all those wicked brothers who are in a position to help but won't. 2 Likes |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by madridguy(m): 5:56pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
I hope she realize her mistake before its too late. Deltatoto: |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by Tellemall: 6:01pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
CanadianNaija:Perhaps he's keeping everybody at arms length because he's full of the assumption that people are contacting him for money. Why do Nigerians always think it's about money? He said it has to do with the guys marriage to a girl the family didn't like. How did you manage to make it about imaginary money? Is it really about money or you people don't have love even for your own families anymore? Yes, people think you earn the billions you probably don't, but is that a reason to cast away your family? The only Nigerian who understands family is Linda Ikeji. First and foremost is unity. His brother can reject their money advances without making it outright enmity. If he was as lonely as you claim he could tell them what he felt, but because he thought it was about money, according to you and the host of loveless money obsessed people, he decided to treat his family coldly. 1 Like |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by Nobody: 6:04pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
West2019:pure street yarns |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by Nobody: 6:07pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
Fhemmmy:Lots of family members don't normally accept the woman thwir brother or son presented to them initially. Some shows open hostility, animosity etc but thatdoes not stop the man from relating with his family members. The guy has his reason but it's not because they rejected his wife in the beginning. The wife is friendly with them now. He even abandoned his mum. He should be happy they are more than 2. Others should relate well with the wife and children. A time wiĺl come when his kids will ask him pressing questions about his family. He is cold hearted. U can still be a brother without giving. One day, may be when it's too late, he will look back and see how much he missed. |
Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by sarutobi: 6:11pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
@jonhmba Please listen sir, Leave him alone. don't call anymore. He is your brother does not mean he has to pick your calls or even give you face. There is no law in the world that mandates that. This is what you should do. WORK ON YOURSELF. Yes, leave him and concentrate on the rest of your family (nuclear and otherwise). I will not blame anyone since we have not heard your brother's story. Just stop disturbing him. Forget that "want your brother back" idea. Where do you want him back from?? Something went wrong somewhere. Also from your writeup it looks like the guy is running from financial burden. What he failed to do is to tell you guys that he can only provide what he has. Cutting family off is immature. Well, please heed my advice. I know i am saying something completely different from what others have said but that is the only solution. Work on yourself and dont worry about anyone else. 2 Likes |
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