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Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by AmenJoan(f): 11:12pm On Nov 11, 2010
Hello people, I recently had this experience with ma bro. He's meant to get married next month and I made the mistake of announcing it to friends. It caused some serious family trouble because according to him, it was too early to do that. He said I should not have announced it yet. So I wondered thereafter, Is one month to the time too early to announce a wedding? what should it be? I'd like to hear your opinions. Thanks
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by r231(m): 12:07am On Nov 12, 2010
it depends
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 12:36am On Nov 12, 2010
Its either your bro isn't really sure if he'll go through with the wedding(i.e if he stil wants 2 marry her by then) or he doesn't want too much crowd so the food will be enough(u re supposed to laugh at this its a joke)or he's not sure if he must have gotten everything ready by then.i think 3 or 2 months ahead is ok and then throwing a small party 2 weeks to the day is an ideal reminder.
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by Dsense(m): 1:06am On Nov 12, 2010
Just the way you want it
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by AmenJoan(f): 6:01am On Nov 12, 2010
r231:

it depends


on?
freecocoa:

Its either your bro isn't really sure if he'll go through with the wedding(i.e if he stil wants 2 marry her by then) or he doesn't want too much crowd so the food will be enough(u re supposed to laugh at this its a joke)or he's not sure if he must have gotten everything ready by then.i think 3 or 2 months ahead is ok and then throwing a small party 2 weeks to the day is an ideal reminder.

ok, thanks. The wedding is 11th dec., so I was shocked when he said it too early,
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by iice(f): 11:08am On Nov 12, 2010
Maybe he wanted to keep things on the down-low
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by babyme1(f): 11:11am On Nov 12, 2010
A month is ok.
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by MissyB3(f): 11:58am On Nov 12, 2010
Isn't a month late?
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by MrCork26: 11:58am On Nov 12, 2010
tommmorow! angry
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Nov 12, 2010
r231:

it depends



Hey you . . . . kiss kiss kiss
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by babyme1(f): 12:06pm On Nov 12, 2010
Missy ★ B:

Isn't a month late?

A month is ok to send out ur IV cards. But b4 then close friends and family must have known abt the preparations
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by MrCork26: 12:09pm On Nov 12, 2010
Ujujoan:

Hey you . . . .  kiss  kiss  kiss

hmm, why is this chick throwin me a kiss tongue
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by Spyker: 12:12pm On Nov 12, 2010
For me, a month is okay but you must have done about 90% of the things by then. I would say if you are a Christian, your wedding preparation should start the day the church announces your marriage bane.
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by Nobody: 12:16pm On Nov 12, 2010
Mr~Cork:

hmm, why is this chick throwin me a kiss tongue

Hey . . move over, I said NO! *roooooooolz eyez* tongue tongue
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by MissyB3(f): 12:19pm On Nov 12, 2010
baby.me:

A month is ok to send out your IV cards. But b4 then close friends and family must have known abt the preparations
I see!
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by r231(m): 12:31pm On Nov 12, 2010
Ujujoan:

Hey you . . . . kiss kiss kiss

hello darling

where have u been
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by Nobody: 12:37pm On Nov 12, 2010
r231:

hello darling

where have u been

You know me . . . . here and there, lol.

Hope u r okay? kiss
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by r231(m): 12:49pm On Nov 12, 2010
^^^^i am fine

here and there as well

the whole wedding thingy id draining me grin grin
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by juman(m): 12:59pm On Nov 12, 2010
At least 3 months. People need to look for money to buy group clothes (aso ebi), for transportation from one city to another and money to buy gift for the couple.
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by babyme1(f): 1:00pm On Nov 12, 2010
r231:

^^^^i am fine

here and there as well

the whole wedding thingy id draining me grin grin

You are getting married? shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by r231(m): 1:06pm On Nov 12, 2010
baby.me:

You are getting married? shocked shocked shocked shocked

unfortunately lol

www.titilolaandadesegun.com

you are invited
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by jaybee3(m): 1:07pm On Nov 12, 2010
@baby.me
Do i know u
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by Nobody: 1:20pm On Nov 12, 2010
r231:

^^^^i am fine

here and there as well

the whole wedding thingy id draining me grin grin

Awww, don't worry, it'll be over soon. Then you'll leave happily ever after! cool
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by MissyB3(f): 1:22pm On Nov 12, 2010
r231:

unfortunately lol

www.titilolaandadesegun.com

you are invited
That site is suspicious, says my Alarm zone, so I couldn't view the content.
Are you getting married? Why unfortunately?
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by Ranoscky(m): 1:23pm On Nov 12, 2010
Well, it all boils down on Individual, but for me, it's never early, it's even late sef.
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by r231(m): 1:36pm On Nov 12, 2010
Missy ★ B:

That site is suspicious, says my Alarm zone, so I couldn't view the content.
Are you getting married? Why unfortunately?

hmmmmmm. . . . . don knw about dat one o

dats my wedding site

the unfortunate part is just a joke or maybe i still want to be out there having fun lol grin grin


Ujujoan:

Awww, don't worry, it'll be over soon. Then you'll leave happily ever after! cool

only if you know

preparation is harder dan the marriage itself grin grin
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by MissyB3(f): 2:07pm On Nov 12, 2010
r231:

hmmmmmm. . . . . don knw about dat one o

dats my wedding site

the unfortunate part is just a joke or maybe i still want to be out there having fun lol grin grin
Eyah. Sad thing I can't view the content, I'm curious.  sad
Out there having fun kè? You nor happy there's a wonderful sister getting married to you even though you're 54?  tongue

All the luck and God's blessings to you two. smiley
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by Ayowumie(m): 2:17pm On Nov 12, 2010
Ranoscky:

Well, it all boils down on Individual, but for me, it's never early, it's even late sef.
I think so too. Announcing your wedding date late boils down to the issue of uncertainty as to whether the wedding will take place or not.
A friend of mine will be getting married in February and she told me as far back as September.
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by MissyB3(f): 2:17pm On Nov 12, 2010
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I viewed it and Jeez ! The tears! **inhales and exhales**

I just can't find the right words. It's great, lovely and touching. The lady is beautiful, the 'Our story' is nice. I didn't finish reading before I ran back on NL to post. Going back there, again.  grin

Goodluck!
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by mrofficial(m): 2:23pm On Nov 12, 2010
One month is even late.
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Nov 12, 2010
one month may be way too early. I know myself and my wife decided to distribute the cards about 2 weeks to the date. Depending on where u come from 1 month is enough time for so called enemies to plan 'evil' on the d day. Anyay sha we been married 2 mnths
Re: Right Time To Announce A Wedding? by Nobody: 2:41pm On Nov 12, 2010
Missy ★ B:

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I viewed it and Jeez ! The tears! **inhales and exhales**

I just can't find the right words. It's great, lovely and touching. The lady is beautiful, the 'Our story' is nice. I didn't finish reading before I ran back on NL to post. Going back there, again. grin

Goodluck!


Of course she's beautiful . . . and lovely and nice! cool cool

Why else will I leave him for her grin grin

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