With the many rules of this modern generation, I wonder if i'd have ever been born if my dad had followed such rules.

Based on this thread by Vinshu - Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! https://www.nairaland.com/3000453/guy-doesnt-house-car-should

And this counter thread by Tosyne2much - My Advice: A Lady With Intangible Source Of Income Should Not Date Or Marry https://www.nairaland.com/3001132/advice-lady-intangible-source-income

I think it is important we squash this argument once and all. So dear romancelanders, when is the right/best time to date or marry?

The question applies to both guys and ladies alike.

when you are mentally ready...maturity at its peak....

missingrib:
when you are mentally ready...maturity at its peak....

Is anybody ever fully 'ready' for marriage?

So maturity over money, ok

my marriage criteria....I ll marry wen am 28 nd my wife shuld be at least 26

Dating shud b when u are ready no age range but. an b above 18 which is like an acceptable age by law u are expected to av known ur right from ur left. while Marriage shud b when u are convinced with each other and u are ready to tolerate each other differences..

Dave, my own is simple.
When a guy can feed himself to his full and can afford an extra mouth, then he is good to go otherwise... *lips sealed*

No suffer person pikin!

The right time for marriage is when you are able to maximize your scarce resources to satisfy yourself and an additional party.

English Version: When you have enough money!

Vinshu:
The right time for marriage is when you are able to maximize your scarce resources to satisfy yourself and an additional party.

English Version: When you have enough money!

Are u ok at all?
#no-offense

Did your Paleh marry yA Maleh when he had enough?
Infact, wat are your contribution(s) to your area (let me not say to the society) rather than spreading ya legs widely open for Abok-i, mechanics, bricklayers etc

#flopp

Vinshu:
The right time for marriage is when you are able to maximize your scarce resources to satisfy yourself and an additional party.

English Version: When you have enough money!

kaii..english version don suffer 4 ur hand

adepeter26:

Are u ok at all?
#no-offense

Did your Paleh marry yA Maleh when he had enough?
Infact, wat are your contribution(s) to your area (let me not say to the society) rather than spreading ya legs widely open for Abok-i, mechanics, bricklayers etc

#flopp

This what we are saying


https://www.nairaland.com/3001587/message-seun-concerned-nairaland-user

What concerns her father with her post? Why are you guys so rude? Can you stand near the father and talk? Do you even know the father? Smh

Cc Seun Mynd44

coolsix:

This what we are saying


https://www.nairaland.com/3001587/message-seun-concerned-nairaland-user

What concerns her father with her post? Why are you guys so rude? Can you stand near the father and talk? Do you even know the father? Smh

Cc Seu.n Myn.d.44

Lol,,
See dude, the earlier you change the perception & notion of some people, the better for us.
I can clearly tell u dat some threads are just to change the society the other way round.

I can't type much joor.

Don't listen to all these girls telling you shit..... money first bro.... I never see where maturity pay bride price or buy wedding gown.

it seems vinshu's thread hit someone below the belt.. Lol

adepeter26:

Are u ok at all?
#no-offense

Did your Paleh marry yA Maleh when he had enough?
Infact, wat are your contribution(s) to your area (let me not say to the society) rather than spreading ya legs widely open for Abok-i, mechanics, bricklayers etc

#flopp

When a man is capable of fending for himself and an 'extra mouth' plus him getting a girl who can fend for AT LEAST herself, then he's good to go

A man can venture into marriage to suffer for a woman

Lildoks:
it seems vinshu's thread hit someone below the belt.. Lol

Lol, no oo Bros. Am not in any way guilty of her thread but just dat she's passing a wrng info to d young generation & those currently in relationships

adepeter26:

Lol, no oo Bros. Am not in any way guilty of her thread but just dat she's passing a wrng info to d young generation & those currently in relationships

Brother, respect yourself. If you don't like my comment simply ignore it not referencing my parents.

Cc Seun

Dahveydson:

Is anybody ever fully 'ready' for marriage?
So maturity over money, ok

base on the topic ...money is constant

crismark:
my marriage criteria....I ll marry wen am 28 nd my wife shuld be at least 26

Talk about marriage goals. Seems rigid to me though.

amicable09:
Dave, my own is simple.
When a guy can feed himself to his full and can afford an extra mouth, then he is good to go otherwise... *lips sealed*
No suffer person pikin!

This your cunning way of saying money is important though.

What about a lady?

Vinshu:
The right time for marriage is when you are able to maximize your scarce resources to satisfy yourself and an additional party.

English Version: When you have enough money!

And this applies to ladies too?

When yhu see start seeing er in yhur dreams, yhu will noe yhu ar ready.


Jayo is in the building.......

Dahveydson:


And this applies to ladies too?

No it doesn't.

Vinshu:


No it doesn't.

So ladies should be chilling at home while the men hustles and bring money to marry them?

Dahveydson:


So ladies should be chilling at home while the men hustles and bring money to marry them?

A man is to hustle and provide for his woman and himself and also their child. Not the other way around so I agree with her

coolsix:


A man is to hustle and provide for his woman and himself and also their child. Not the other way around so I agree with her

And the woman will be static in the marriage, forever depending on the man?

Dahveydson:



This your cunning way of saying money is important though.

What about a lady?

Lol. It is na, money is key.
The lady, hmmm... Well, you know ladies grow faster than guys. For me, any lady with handiwork is good to go! If she can make zobo, pop corn, fry doughnuts, stitch clothes, weave hair then she can date and marry.

Any lady who can do 1 or most of all those things can fend for herself and put food on the table for a man.

Oya sinaj cum and ans this.

pbs4real:
Oya sinaj cum and ans this.

cum on top why no

It seems your cum is healthy and pure, it has been foretold that you will provide a meaningful answer to d questions asked however it only becomes meaningful to the boys that drink from the creamy cummy goo dripping from the fountain or pu.nani.

sinaj:
cum on top why no

Word of wisdom for the male homies; " Don't get married,it's a TRAP"

elrony:
Word of wisdom for the male homies; " Don't get married,it's a TRAP"