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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by GindoX(m): 10:17am On Oct 28, 2019
Proffdada:
Attempted murder and intent grin












But I feel there are two sides to this story



Fwather gward, you get sense small jaree..
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by don4real18(m): 10:20am On Oct 28, 2019
Abeg, give us her full name so that we won't end up with someone like her grin
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Elvis778(m): 10:22am On Oct 28, 2019
@Setobaba
Don't ignore her, get her arrested and make her write an undertaking,
ladies like this can be dangerous,

if u doubt me, try watching the movie "ACRIMONY"......
am sure u'll understand why she needs to be arrested after.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by asmovic(m): 10:27am On Oct 28, 2019
setobaba:
Good evening nairalanders

Pls help me, how is the best way to address this or fight back this useless empty head called my Ex.

It's been months we broked up, and after then she went on fucking two of my course mates, thinking they were my friends as retaliation, because we took pictures together. Her excuse for the break up, was she came to my place and met a lady shoe at the door, so she turned back for leave notifying me of the breakup.

We met recently, about two months ago, then she confessed her terrible acts, and started pleading to make things work back, I told her Immediately, what I shared with her was just a thing, not that serious to call it love, that I hold noting against her, and we started getting in tough with each other.

So fast forward to yesterday, I uploaded a picture on whatsapp, showing myself and a lady, only for this my Ex to download the picture and post it on her Instagram page tagging it RIP.

A friend of mine saw it, and immediately call me if am alright, he was shocked and sent me the screenshot.
I don't have her as friend on my Instagram and Facebook because of the kind of nature of being she is on hearing this, I rushed to view her page, and I noticed she has taken it down because a friend have seen it.

I plan to respond to this, as this is not her first time of wishing me death, she once threatened 2 of my Ex via her social handle.

She used to be a very nice person during my tenure in school, so caring and always feeling insucure despite her beauty. but this her anger issue always get me in check till I lose my total interest on her.

Pls I need matured or better still legal advice to address this. I don't want to drag in the mud with a pig.
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.


i won't advise a legal action because even a charge and bail lawyer can prove in a law court the lady didn't mean any harm. More over, RIP can also mean Real, Important Person(RIP). Be careful though. if you know anyone close to her, preferably older than the two of you, you can report her action. cheers!
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by 0KNM: 10:29am On Oct 28, 2019
setobaba:

How would one know they are psychos until you date one?
That chinkogold looks like an evil witch. Plus she looks really young. Under19 maybe. So what do you expect?
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by BarrElChapo(m): 10:31am On Oct 28, 2019
owelle22:
Nairalander don reach the babe Instagram

Make una bring the lady pictures come for us na we dey beg.. cheesy
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by BarrElChapo(m): 10:31am On Oct 28, 2019
owelle22:
Nairalander don reach the babe Instagram
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by cooljoe(m): 10:33am On Oct 28, 2019
Posting her nude is now a cybercrime o. Get a lawyer Sha, he might know what to do under the cybercrime statue. Just a letter from counsel, so she knows it's now a serious issue might make her desist. U just can't be posting "rip" anyhow, what if someone sees it and calls ur mum or dad, if they are elderly, might induce b.p. don't just ignore, warn her but don't post nude o. Make u no go buy gbese
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by etibaba(m): 10:34am On Oct 28, 2019
owelle22:
Nairalander don reach the babe Instagram
What's her IG id.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by clemz85(m): 10:38am On Oct 28, 2019
subtlemee:
She's expecting you to react so ignore her let her be disappointed

simple, silence is a painful reaction,
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Nat404: 10:40am On Oct 28, 2019
setobaba:
Good evening nairalanders

Pls help me, how is the best way to address this or fight back this useless empty head called my Ex.

It's been months we broked up, and after then she went on fucking two of my course mates, thinking they were my friends as retaliation, because we took pictures together. Her excuse for the break up, was she came to my place and met a lady shoe at the door, so she turned back for leave notifying me of the breakup.

We met recently, about two months ago, then she confessed her terrible acts, and started pleading to make things work back, I told her Immediately, what I shared with her was just a thing, not that serious to call it love, that I hold noting against her, and we started getting in tough with each other.

So fast forward to yesterday, I uploaded a picture on whatsapp, showing myself and a lady, only for this my Ex to download the picture and post it on her Instagram page tagging it RIP.

A friend of mine saw it, and immediately call me if am alright, he was shocked and sent me the screenshot.
I don't have her as friend on my Instagram and Facebook because of the kind of nature of being she is on hearing this, I rushed to view her page, and I noticed she has taken it down because a friend have seen it.

I plan to respond to this, as this is not her first time of wishing me death, she once threatened 2 of my Ex via her social handle.

She used to be a very nice person during my tenure in school, so caring and always feeling insucure despite her beauty. but this her anger issue always get me in check till I lose my total interest on her.

Pls I need matured or better still legal advice to address this. I don't want to drag in the mud with a pig.
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.


Do not hurt her. Just remain mum.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by ridbell01(m): 10:46am On Oct 28, 2019
My brother seems the girl still have feelings for you just sit her down and talk to her to move on if throughly you dont want her again after that avoid her totally besides i dont see reason why you stil have her on social media
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by frozen70g: 10:47am On Oct 28, 2019
setobaba:
Good evening nairalanders

Pls help me, how is the best way to address this or fight back this useless empty head called my Ex.

It's been months we broked up, and after then she went on fucking two of my course mates, thinking they were my friends as retaliation, because we took pictures together. Her excuse for the break up, was she came to my place and met a lady shoe at the door, so she turned back for leave notifying me of the breakup.

We met recently, about two months ago, then she confessed her terrible acts, and started pleading to make things work back, I told her Immediately, what I shared with her was just a thing, not that serious to call it love, that I hold noting against her, and we started getting in tough with each other.

So fast forward to yesterday, I uploaded a picture on whatsapp, showing myself and a lady, only for this my Ex to download the picture and post it on her Instagram page tagging it RIP.

A friend of mine saw it, and immediately call me if am alright, he was shocked and sent me the screenshot.
I don't have her as friend on my Instagram and Facebook because of the kind of nature of being she is on hearing this, I rushed to view her page, and I noticed she has taken it down because a friend have seen it.

I plan to respond to this, as this is not her first time of wishing me death, she once threatened 2 of my Ex via her social handle.

She used to be a very nice person during my tenure in school, so caring and always feeling insucure despite her beauty. but this her anger issue always get me in check till I lose my total interest on her.

Pls I need matured or better still legal advice to address this. I don't want to drag in the mud with a pig.
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.



Call her on phone and record a warning message to her

Tell her that next time she type any negative things about you, you will send her nude pictures all over the social media

If she is pained, let her look for another guy, them full every where
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Mariangeles: 10:55am On Oct 28, 2019
subtlemee:
She's expecting you to react so ignore her let her be disappointed
Ignore wetin ?
Let's assume it's the other way round, would advice the girl to "just ignore" ?
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by soffy24: 10:55am On Oct 28, 2019
please you guys should repent, surrender your lives to Jesus Christ and prepare for the Kingdom of God Almighty. good morning. Find a place in your heart to forgive also
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by allawizzow(m): 10:56am On Oct 28, 2019
Mr man if you sue her, it is for your lawyer to prove that what she meant by the RIP is a death wish. in that case, you claim damages of what her upload has cost you being in term of finance, relationship, socially, psychologically of whatever.
if she has a good lawyer, he'll define it in her favour what she meant by RIP. meanwhile RIP can have so many interpretations as it literally can not be death threat or wish.
go to DSS office to report, She'll be invited and there, she'll write her statement on the meaning of her RIP. they'll even make write undertaking. l swear she will desist from such to you as a person or to any other awaiting victim.
you can then use her statement in DSS office to seek legal redress if she indicted herself in the statement. don't post her nude o because it will counter charger on you where a victim can be seen as Oppressor because posting someone's nude is an offense.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by rolams(m): 10:58am On Oct 28, 2019
subtlemee:
She's expecting you to react so ignore her let her be disappointed

Best advise. My thought too!
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by AntiWailer: 11:00am On Oct 28, 2019
ignore.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Nobody: 11:02am On Oct 28, 2019
futurerex:
Are you not resting in peace after the breakup?
Resting in Peace?
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by donMIG(m): 11:21am On Oct 28, 2019
Do u need an advice?
Nigga do wat u do best
Ignore that beeTch like a plague
Seems to b pssing her off well
Last last dei pray ooo
N no collect her by mistake b4 she go jazz that place give u nonses
No collect no sheet from her
Live ur life jeje
U may be RIP but only in her life
U need no advice
Jeje dei enjoy ur life snap more wit fine fine girls wei pass her
Go n set ur whatsapp to allow only her to view them
BeeTch will just die
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by madridsta007(m): 11:22am On Oct 28, 2019
setobaba:
Good evening nairalanders

Pls help me, how is the best way to address this or fight back this useless empty head called my Ex.

It's been months we broked up, and after then she went on fucking two of my course mates, thinking they were my friends as retaliation, because we took pictures together. Her excuse for the break up, was she came to my place and met a lady shoe at the door, so she turned back for leave notifying me of the breakup.

We met recently, about two months ago, then she confessed her terrible acts, and started pleading to make things work back, I told her Immediately, what I shared with her was just a thing, not that serious to call it love, that I hold noting against her, and we started getting in tough with each other.

So fast forward to yesterday, I uploaded a picture on whatsapp, showing myself and a lady, only for this my Ex to download the picture and post it on her Instagram page tagging it RIP.

A friend of mine saw it, and immediately call me if am alright, he was shocked and sent me the screenshot.
I don't have her as friend on my Instagram and Facebook because of the kind of nature of being she is on hearing this, I rushed to view her page, and I noticed she has taken it down because a friend have seen it.

I plan to respond to this, as this is not her first time of wishing me death, she once threatened 2 of my Ex via her social handle.

She used to be a very nice person during my tenure in school, so caring and always feeling insucure despite her beauty. but this her anger issue always get me in check till I lose my total interest on her.

Pls I need matured or better still legal advice to address this. I don't want to drag in the mud with a pig.
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.



1. You need spiritual advice. There is no legal grounds for you to sue her.
2. Block the "heck" out of her. Wonder why you did not block her after the break up which appears to be acrimonous?
3. Do NOT post her nudes. You will be playing a game she is probably expert at, on her own terms.
4. I reiterate. Block her everywhere; stay low and stay off social media. Basically, ignore her.

You will be fine.

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by ibechris(m): 11:29am On Oct 28, 2019
The only advice I have for u is to delete her nude picture in your phone.
How secured are u when u move about with a woman nude picture in ur phone?this shows that u are irresponsible. These days,u have to lie low to avoid the devil but u ran wild to post the picture of a new woman and u want her to remain quiet.

Think it,if she was ur sister how would u react?
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by godofuck231: 11:34am On Oct 28, 2019
setobaba:
Good evening nairalanders

Pls help me, how is the best way to address this or fight back this useless empty head called my Ex.

It's been months we broked up, and after then she went on fucking two of my course mates, thinking they were my friends as retaliation, because we took pictures together. Her excuse for the break up, was she came to my place and met a lady shoe at the door, so she turned back for leave notifying me of the breakup.

We met recently, about two months ago, then she confessed her terrible acts, and started pleading to make things work back, I told her Immediately, what I shared with her was just a thing, not that serious to call it love, that I hold noting against her, and we started getting in tough with each other.

So fast forward to yesterday, I uploaded a picture on whatsapp, showing myself and a lady, only for this my Ex to download the picture and post it on her Instagram page tagging it RIP.

A friend of mine saw it, and immediately call me if am alright, he was shocked and sent me the screenshot.
I don't have her as friend on my Instagram and Facebook because of the kind of nature of being she is on hearing this, I rushed to view her page, and I noticed she has taken it down because a friend have seen it.

I plan to respond to this, as this is not her first time of wishing me death, she once threatened 2 of my Ex via her social handle.

She used to be a very nice person during my tenure in school, so caring and always feeling insucure despite her beauty. but this her anger issue always get me in check till I lose my total interest on her.

Pls I need matured or better still legal advice to address this. I don't want to drag in the mud with a pig.
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.


wow empty head and she's this martains to Bleep you Up? Learn to ignore women who want war, it's a waste of time, thinking time and money making time, going after her makes you less a man
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by galadima77(m): 11:35am On Oct 28, 2019
futurerex:
Are you not resting in peace after the breakup?

I tire! Must one be dead to rest in peace again? Abi you wan rest for wahala ni?

You're a man for a reason, ignore her abeg.

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by atarapa(m): 11:36am On Oct 28, 2019
Otisker:
She is in severe pains, ignore her!
and anything should happen to her hold the federal government responsible
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by johnaruson(m): 11:37am On Oct 28, 2019
That is assassination warning to you, just report her to police authorities for a threat to life, never leak her nude pictures online otherwise things may get worse.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Avast(m): 11:38am On Oct 28, 2019
subtlemee:
She's expecting you to react so ignore her let her be disappointed
I love your sweet statement

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Algorithimz: 11:45am On Oct 28, 2019
calabardick:

How do I get there?


Pls sir I sent u a mail, I would like to discuss something with u thanks.
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Saintmary(f): 11:50am On Oct 28, 2019
How did she get to know your 2 exes, and what are you doing with three exes, any relationship that lasted less than one year is nonsense, call it a tryst especially if sex was involved, all these boys calling nonsense relationships so they can get in the girls' panties.
As for your original question, just block the girl, make it public that you are no longer an item. If you are both in the same school, report her to your student affairs unit and go for counseling so that you won't be involving yourself in toxic relationships.
Bye
Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Brightgem(f): 11:57am On Oct 28, 2019
It was "just a thing and not enough to call it love" when you mess with people's emotions, you get this, when you also mess with people with the wrong values who run to go sleep with your friends you get this. So sorry eh!

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