So the question , as apparent from the title of the thread , is can you date ( with intentions to marry ) a girl who once dated a very close friend of yours ?. They ended their relationship on an amicable note ( genotype issues ) and they still remain good friends till date. The girl in question has a very good personality and has qualities of a home maker/partner , she also has a good job and she is quite smart but shows signs she's still enamoured with her ex , your pal. Now would it be a wise decision to take that leap and just hope for the best ?

Sorry I dont my friends left overs .

otipoju:
Sorry I dont my friends left overs .

So you would let a good woman go because of ego

Semaj77:



So you would let a good woman go because of ego

And you can’t find such good women else where but your friends ex?

Did you even consider how your friend would feel about the whole thing?

are trying to tell us that dating is your calling or you what?......

It's a no go area, considering the fact that he's /she is your pal, close friend and also they still have feelings for each other.
Nope can't do. That relationship is a disaster waiting to happen

Semaj77:



So you would let a good woman go because of ego

Did you read the part where its said she is still enamoured by him. They are not marrying because of health reaaons...it does not mean they cant be sleeping together. Why bring fire into your own house.

There is no good person anywhere, we are all flawed. Marriage is different from boyfriend and girlfriend. By then all the masks will be taken off and you will see your woman or man for what they really are.

Also as bountiful and big as the world is why should i display lack by marrying my friends former girlfriend.

My stupid cousin married someone my sibling once dated very briefly....till today no body asks him how about the spouse ...stupid fellow

Abomination! capital NO