GreatResearcher:
the agreement was reviewed and amendment done.. and according to the new argreement, i am not to tell anyone what is happening in my marriage. finally, her relatives and my relatives are not aware that it's a contract marriage. only my close pals know. and according to my wife, if i play by her rules, then on our first wedding aniversary she will change her name to my name. she is still been addressed as Miss .. but by next year she will be known as Mrs ... this new agreement says that she should reside in. yes a correct lawyer came and we did the correct thing. the agreement now has T&C.

Olorunnim:
For sanity's sake can you hear yourself right now? if you play by her rules jeez mehn you're a gonner this is beyond redemption Next year before she's addressed as Mrs!!! you're a lost cause no offence.

midnighter:


I am not a religious bigot but in this case its a shame that he is an atheist because the guy really needs a good pastor to reason something with him. Jeez!

At least what is the atheist equivalent of a pastor? He really needs it!

Olorunnim:
For sanity's sake can you hear yourself right now? if you play by her rules jeez mehn you're a gonner this is beyond redemption Next year before she's addressed as Mrs!!! you're a lost cause no offence.

midnighter:


I am not a religious bigot but in this case its a shame that he is an atheist because the guy really needs a good pastor to reason something with him. Jeez!

At least what is the atheist equivalent of a pastor? He really needs it!

Breaststroke:
, as a believer the reference to a pastor in your post rankles. A pastor is not more knowledgeable, wiser or better than the rest of us believers, because he holds a title and pastors a church. At the end of the day, we are all children of God, led by His spirit on the inside of us, empowered by that same Spirit to make godly choices without the need to involve a pastor in every darn thing.

Some pastors will tell you to pray for a debt cancellation, whereas God's word/spirit says a righteous man pays his debts. Whose report is superior and whose report makes more sense?

Breaststroke:


I like that last phrase brace for impact, it made me smile.

I have a feeling we haven't seen the last of OP yet. Chances are, he will return with a new moniker to create new threads about this marriage which will begin with "A friend of mine is having issues in his marriage....." Shame go catch am, to talk say na im own story im dey narrate so.

It's either that or one of his friend's who is privy to this contract will create a thread on his behalf, sooner or later. I wager it will be sooner rather than later.

@ OP, there should be a term/clause in that contract which says in the event that wifey is unable to conceive and birth a child within 2 or 3 years, the contract becomes null and void, and she will be mandated to return part or all of the valuable things you've given her. The only thing I could see in your revised contract (as you wrote) was a lot of manipulation

@ Midnighter, as a believer the reference to a pastor in your post rankles. A pastor is not more knowledgeable, wiser or better than the rest of us believers, because he holds a title and pastors a church. At the end of the day, we are all God's children, led by His spirit on the inside of us, empowered by that same Spirit to make godly choices without the need to involve a pastor in every darn thing.

Some pastors will tell you to pray for a debt cancellation, whereas God's word/spirit says a righteous man pays his debts. Whose report is superior and whose report makes more sense? My point is simple - prioritize the God in you plus the truth you know (via the Bible) over and above every pastor.

Breaststroke:


Lol, no he's not nuts. Naive about the real world but not nuts. I kinda like how he's been open about his own affairs.

I know he's an atheist and I respect that we are different in that way.

My response on the pastor issue had more to do with us believers (you and I) than it did with OP.

Breaststroke:


@ OP, there should be a term/clause in that contract which says in the event that wifey is unable to conceive and birth a child within 2 or 3 years, the contract becomes null and void, and she will be mandated to return part or all of the valuable things you've given her. The only thing I could see in your revised contract (as you wrote) was a lot of manipulation;

Breaststroke:


The thing about advice is that people don't have to take it and usually it is advice givers like us that get worked up, about the fact someone is not taking our advice. The truth is they are not obligated to take it or follow it.

GreatResearcher:
a mod should delete this thread thank you...


we are ok.. everything is fine...

dont push me pals

Teegelop:
I hope this OP account haven't been hacked by the so called wife?

ahnie:

You ve been pussyfied!

SensualMan1:
Oga... Shall we continue here?

Cc: UyaiIncomparabl, GreatResearcher, Tabithababy

GreatResearcher:
Lalasticlala pls delete all my thread and ban tabithababy an sensual. These two nairalanders are scammers

GreatResearcher:
Lalasticlala pls delete all my thread and ban tabithababy an sensual. These two nairalanders are scammers

GreatResearcher:
this is probably my last thread on my marriage. today i signed an oath never to bring my marrriage to the public especially NL. i actually opened this threa to thank peple like Ishilove for their advice so far. All I can say that I dont regret marrying my wife. she is a good woman, a business mogul, a foresight lady. she leads, i follow. Thank u all.

using this oppotunity to encourage young guys who are ready for marriage to go and marry. nothing to fear. thank u all.

Acidosis:


The power of s e x

midnighter:


And you even signed another oath again...

Is this guy for real Please I am begging you, can you get a proper lawyer and stop signing what nobody can understand?!

You keep signing and signing, what exactly did the woman sign? What of her parents and elders, cant they sign something for once And dont tell us that you signed it without witnesses, again!

Please you have to understand how contracts work. What is the meaning of the word "public"? It can mean so many things. What happens if you violate the contract. What if that girl is finishing you and you dont talk because you dont want to break your so-called "oath"?

What is the meaning of "bring [your] marriage"? What if you come here and make a harmless statement and she uses it against you?

As in whats really this mans problem How can such a person exist in this world? Marrying to get inheritance and signing away the same inheritance to strangers. Cant you use part of that so-called inheritance to get yourself a legal team?

If everybody married like youre doing do you think any of us would exist right now??

GreatResearcher:
Lalasticlala pls delete all my thread and ban tabithababy an sensual. These two nairalanders are scammers

cococandy:
:

All I can do is laugh

midnighter:


And you even signed another oath again...

Is this guy for real Please I am begging you, can you get a proper lawyer and stop signing what nobody can understand?!

You keep signing and signing, what exactly did the woman sign? What of her parents and elders, cant they sign something for once And dont tell us that you signed it without witnesses, again!

Please you have to understand how contracts work. What is the meaning of the word "public"? It can mean so many things. What happens if you violate the contract. What if that girl is finishing you and you dont talk because you dont want to break your so-called "oath"?

What is the meaning of "bring [your] marriage"? What if you come here and make a harmless statement and she uses it against you?

As in whats really this mans problem How can such a person exist in this world? Marrying to get inheritance and signing away the same inheritance to strangers. Cant you use part of that so-called inheritance to get yourself a legal team?

If everybody married like youre doing do you think any of us would exist right now??

generationz:


Abeg wetin dey shele for hia?

I'm lost. They say Uyai don marry?