If your spouse asked you to "go down" on him/her would you? Isn't this act against our culture and religion? Are we then obligated to do this because we are married and took vows? Can a wife be accused of shirking in her wifely duties because she wouldn't do it?

Srry not married!
Has a man ever gone down on you b4? If yes, whats new now that you are married.
If no, gurl, you don't know what you hv been missing.

omg!!ur reasons for not "going down" are ridiculous!pulease in our bedroom,the only rule that stands are ones we make.

ifyalways:

omg!!your reasons for not "going down" are ridiculous!pulease in our bedroom,the only rule that stands are ones we make.

I asked a question that was posed to me and I didn't know what to say so I brought it here so technically, they are NOT "my reasons" and there is absolutley no need for name callings or bashings. All i asked for was what a couple, especially one that is married would do and think if faced with something like this.

I don't see anything wrong there thats if you guys are married.

The rule of marriage is determined by God,but the pattern it takes is left to the couple,its strictly on agreement.watever they choose to do in bed,the fact is not to be debated publicly,cos it is a sacred affair.nevertheless,it is not a rule but a choice.