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UyaiIncomparabl:
But I just said the truth. You're a joker. How you men fail to dish out advice without being lopsided is what never ceases to amaze me.

What did you want me to tell her?
That her husband prefers the company of his friends because he has an evil spirit?

Anyhow you look at it, she still has a part in his behavior.
Just like you and most people, we spend more time with those we feel are most interesting/fun to be around - and just because someone is a spouse does not automatically mean they are interesting to be around all the time.

How you women always feel the world should revolve around you and your feelings is why you keep seeing problems where there is none, or when part of the problem (if it exists) might be yourselves.

pocohantas:
Aunty, forget the things guys here say. They will definitely support their own.

He knew you were an introvert and married you like that. It was a very intentional move as they are believed to be more homely. Your husband's actions are irresponsible. EOD

The part in red caught my attention. I have said it once here and I will say it again. Any grown man that keeps saying these words, run from them- they are ALWAYS bad news in serious relationships. They behave like bots running on some codes.

Tip: Next time you wanna open a thread like this, open it as a male. You will get TRUTHFUL responses from his fellow men.

lol at the last paragraph.I will have that in mind.

duduade:
How long did you guys date/court before marriage... You must have observed these things in him...


I will advise you also engage his time too.. Plan hangouts for you both... Spice up sex life too at home... I am sure there must be a way to hold him down... Get his whole attention and you still haven't found his mumu button..

Look at them.

One major thing women thrive on is attention. A woman wants to be able to discuss her day, her concerns, fears etc with her husband.

Honestly, I say it all time. A lot of people want to get married, but are not willing to PAY for marriage.

What usually happens in this case is that the woman looks for a male confidante to share her feelings with or she goes miserable.

When this happens, we want to blame the woman for having a male confidante, just because the husband hangs out with friends "a bit too much"!

You think it's not a big deal? IT'S A BIG DEAL!!! Hubby needs to create a balance.

duduade:
I think you should also try to dress up and go out with him on such occasions

Not the best approach but this will solve your problem