LoyalRccgMember:
hey guys, so I made a post here last week about a mistake that would have cost me a life time. read it here
https://www.nairaland.com/5544700/regret-decision-later-life

so, the guy later brought the stuff but I refused to collect it ( thanks to some helpful comments here). although he looks disappointed, he still respects my decision but I'll rather keep a distance from him sha.

also, I told my sister's friend never to enter my room again (it's been a week now she last visited our house)

Now, in a world where indecency is being celebrated and sex being worshipped and virgins being looked down on by their friends.

Please nobody should quote me as being holier than thou. I know what I'm saying! ( had my first masturbation when I was 14. I cried and prayed for God's forgiveness. the second masturbation was last week due to some unforeseen circumstances, which I also pray for forgiveness)

In case you're wondering, My parents are not pastors or anything but my dad made sure he brought us up in the way of the Lord.

To those giving excuse in committing formication with "Body no be firewood" please that isn't an excuse!!! I've been called numerous names by my chaps before. names like Introvert,VN (an acronym for virgin nigga) and Also Importency!!! yes, that's how far some people go just to see you to join them in sinning.

as far as I could remember, I've never had a girlfriend in my life nor do I have female friends apart from my sisters and cousins. and in case you're wondering, I'm not ugly, rather girls in our department, (I'm in 400l currently) have been trying to gain my attention which I ignore all of them.

To those who might consider my post a childish post, only shows that you're guilty in fornicating!.

Now, my quick question is, can you marry a Non virgin lady? as for me, I can't. because of the thought of seeing someone down there, disgusts me! you can say I'm the jealous type which I agree. as Someone like @Slawormir have said " it doesn't matter who have swim there before, it doesn't matter who is swimming together with you" like WTF? seriously bro?. please I need matured answers only. peace out!

bukatyne:


Interesting.

Good one to stir clear from your Pianist and sister's friend.

I also admire your stance to avoid pre-marital and the measures (no relationship).

Since you have been able to hold yourself till now, continue to do so and stop telling people you are a virgin.

Also look for people with similar views who would encourage you. When you roll with the wrong set of people, they can do anything to prove you wrong.

Imagine your pianist advising you to have causal sex with someone you don't like.

As to your question, it is really your choice and I understand the disgust of sharing your body with people who have had previous lovers. However, if you are willing to be led by God, you should know that His ways are not yours and His plans are different.

Don't let your quest for a virgin bride make you mono-focused and lose sight of God's ultimate plan.

@bold: Also, ease up on the haughty attitude. A liar is same as a fornicators is same as a thief.

The wages of sin is death.

bukatyne:


Interesting.

Good one to stir clear from your Pianist and sister's friend.

I also admire your stance to avoid pre-marital and the measures (no relationship).

Since you have been able to hold yourself till now, continue to do so and stop telling people you are a virgin.

Also look for people with similar views who would encourage you. When you roll with the wrong set of people, they can do anything to prove you wrong.

Imagine your pianist advising you to have causal sex with someone you don't like.

As to your question, it is really your choice and I understand the disgust of sharing your body with people who have had previous lovers. However, if you are willing to be led by God, you should know that His ways are not yours and His plans are different.

Don't let your quest for a virgin bride make you mono-focused and lose sight of God's ultimate plan.

@bold: Also, ease up on the haughty attitude. A liar is same as a fornicators is same as a thief.

The wages of sin is death.

LoyalRccgMember:
hey guys, so I made a post here last week about a mistake that would have cost me a life time. read it here
https://www.nairaland.com/5544700/regret-decision-later-life

so, the guy later brought the stuff but I refused to collect it ( thanks to some helpful comments here). although he looks disappointed, he still respects my decision but I'll rather keep a distance from him sha.

also, I told my sister's friend never to enter my room again (it's been a week now she last visited our house)

Now, in a world where indecency is being celebrated and sex being worshipped and virgins being looked down on by their friends.

Please nobody should quote me as being holier than thou. I know what I'm saying! ( had my first masturbation when I was 14. I cried and prayed for God's forgiveness. the second masturbation was last week due to some unforeseen circumstances, which I also pray for forgiveness)

In case you're wondering, My parents are not pastors or anything but my dad made sure he brought us up in the way of the Lord.

To those giving excuse in committing formication with "Body no be firewood" please that isn't an excuse!!! I've been called numerous names by my chaps before. names like Introvert,VN (an acronym for virgin nigga) and Also Importency!!! yes, that's how far some people go just to see you to join them in sinning.

as far as I could remember, I've never had a girlfriend in my life nor do I have female friends apart from my sisters and cousins. and in case you're wondering, I'm not ugly, rather girls in our department, (I'm in 400l currently) have been trying to gain my attention which I ignore all of them.

To those who might consider my post a childish post, only shows that you're guilty in fornicating!.

Now, my quick question is, can you marry a Non virgin lady? as for me, I can't. because of the thought of seeing someone down there, disgusts me! you can say I'm the jealous type which I agree. as Someone like @Slawormir have said " it doesn't matter who have swim there before, it doesn't matter who is swimming together with you" like WTF? seriously bro?. please I need matured answers only. peace out!

LoyalRccgMember:
Now, my quick question is, can you marry a Non virgin lady? as for me, I can't. because of the thought of seeing someone down there, disgusts me! you can say I'm the jealous type which I agree. as Someone like @Slawormir have said " it doesn't matter who have swim there before, it doesn't matter who is swimming together with you" like WTF? seriously bro?. please I need matured answers only. peace out!