Saintmary:

Marriage is not equal to love

DonJayrome:


That one concern you. I said my own and being jealous ain't my stuff. I can also get whatever I want so why do I need to be jealous. Am only speaking my own from her own post. Now come to think about it, why did she have to post it if not to try to proof certain point that is probably bothering her or the people around her. Why didn't she just keep it to herself and enjoy her happiness quietly.
*No woman born of a woman is ever fulfilled when she didn't reproduce in her lifetime. No matter how rich she is, the main purpose of being a woman and having a womb that was unused is never a lifetime achievement*. If her mother were to do the same, she definitely won't be existing today to achieve whatever she claims to have achieved.

Tundesam923:
chai! So some men still think like this? God must be very stereotyped then....creating only women to be baby factories...

izzou:
That's one fact about life almost everyone doesn't understand

People have their choices and priorities in life.

She wanted a career, not marriage. And she's happy about it. Everyone has their own definition and version of happiness

So no need to remind her about menopause. She wasn't interested from the beginning

izzou:


She's happy because she said she's happy

Why should I believe she's unhappy? Because you said so?

ePoster:
your type is rare.

dominique:


Men post about their accomplishments online all the time, who asked them? It's her social media handle, she can post Whatever she damn pleases.

I don't know why it hurts you men so much when women say marriage is not their ultimate goal. Such women are in the minority, you shouldn't even be bothered about them. Plenty women out there are willing to depend on their husbands for money for salt and Maggi, they outnumber the independent ones by a huge margin

victorian:







Because u think and feel so?

Mr man, go and seat down.

You think getting married to a Nigerian man is the ultimate in life?

Nigerian men and their families, that will not give the wife breathing space.
The man himself nko? Carrying babes here and there as if he's still single. Infecting with the wife with gonorrhea and stds times without number
Bills he's not even willing to pay, expecting the wife to shoulder most of the family bills.
Go to churches and see how married women full there remain! They out numbers the singles.
My next door colleague in the office, came in last week with a black eye. She lied she knocked her face on the wall while trying to carry her baby. We all knew it was a lie. She must have gotten a beaten from her husband. We kept quiet and said Welsh sorry. Hope ur applied balm or something? She said yes and walked away with a smile. We all exchanged glances .

And you feel marriage is what 95percent of women want?

Lol.. You make laugh!

Oh jeez!

bukatyne:


The fact that a number of 'Nigerian' husbands are horrible doesn't negate the fact that women or men don't want marriage and companionship.

Fountainofyouth:

[s]
How do you know those that committed suicide made people believe they are happy? Do you know all those that committed suicide? Do you know their heart or mind? Where you there?

So the fact that you lived in denial for a ling time means all unmarried women are living in denial, is that it? So single people are not happy? What kinda thinking is this for Pete's sake?

You're giving me examples of your aunt and yourself, so speak for your family only, you do not speak for all women,

How do you know Genevieve and Linda is not fulfilled, did they tell you that in person?

Money is very much part of happiness and living a fulfilled life, everyone is allowed to choose a type of life that makes them happy, if marriage is the greatest achievement for you in this lifetime, good for you, you do not decide, conclude or generalise for all or most women cos you have not and will never meet one tenth of women in the world, relate your archaic thinking to the immediate people around you [/s] .

Fountainofyouth:



You have a very low self esteem, speak only for the yourself, your family, friends and relatives, you do not speak for all women.

How do you know why she is posting this? Are you in her mind or heart? She says she is happy, who are you to say she is not happy? Are you God?

Fountainofyouth:
[s] eez, look at the high level of pains displayed by manboys on this thread, a woman is successful and independent, but they are pained cos she's not married, I've come to notice that guys that say rubbish about independent women only hate the fact that they are way above their level, they see women like that as threat to their dwindling manliness, these are the same guys that will insult broke ladies asking for stipends, confused hypocritical lots.

SBL28:
I hope you all know that someone is definitely shining 'miss independent's Congo on the downlow.
No be by force to marry, that she's not married does not mean she's spending her nights alone.

Fountainofyouth:


How do you know those that committed suicide made people believe they are happy? Do you know all those that committed suicide? Do you know their heart or mind? Where you there?

So the fact that you lived in denial for a ling time means all unmarried women are living in denial, is that it? So single people are not happy? What kinda thinking is this for Pete's sake?

You're giving me examples of your aunt and yourself, so speak for your family only, you do not speak for all women,

How do you know Genevieve and Linda is not fulfilled, did they tell you that in person?

Money is very much part of happiness and living a fulfilled life, everyone is allowed to choose a type of life that makes them happy, if marriage is the greatest achievement for you in this lifetime, good for you, you do not decide, conclude or generalise for all or most women cos you have not and will never meet one tenth of women in the world, relate your archaic thinking to the immediate people around you.

Fountainofyouth:



You have a very low self esteem, speak only for the yourself, your family, friends and relatives, you do not speak for all women.

How do you know why she is posting this? Are you in her mind or heart? She says she is happy, who are you to say she is not happy? Are you God?