please expert should help me, for the past 31 years of my life, I have completely abstain from sex, I got married last two week, now I am finding it difficult to master the art of having sex, I don't have interest for it at all, I see it as a very big work, i hear, see people craving for it, but mine is the opposite could this be normal or am I medically ok? I need help my people.

Do you like pre intimacy?

Are you sure you are not gay.not having feelings for a woman is different from not beimg interested in sex.if the above is not your case then you are not sexually and physiological okay.pls.go see a gynecologist or sexologist doctor.

I think it's fairly normal that you're uninterested in having sex, after so many years of abstinence. You've probably trained yourself to ignore sexual arousal and that in turn may have caused a temporary psychological readjustment when it comes to sex.

Another thing is that you may be having low testosterone level. Testosterone is the male hormone that's primarily responsible for sex, hence the lack of interest. Whatever it may be, it's quite correctable.

As long as you're still having erections, you can redirect your mind to get interested in sex again. Stay active, go to the gym, take mens supplements and I can guarantee that your feeling and interest in sex will gradually rise.

How do you expect to like sex when you abstained for 31 years? Abeg give yourself time to adjust mbok

Story doesn't add up. Before you made the decision to marry someone, you didn't wonder why don't feel any urge to be intimate with this person?

Men in the house, is it possible for a healthy notmal male to suddenly not want sex anymore even tho you dont have a problem getting hard. ?

You get hard but do not want sex or even Mouth Action.

Someone told me this and i am finding it hard believing.

Josephilemona:
please expert should help me, for the past 31 years of my life, I have completely abstain from sex, I got married last two week, now I am finding it difficult to master the art of having sex, I don't have interest for it at all, I see it as a very big work, i hear, see people craving for it, but mine is the opposite could this be normal or am I medically ok? I need help my people.

Bro this means that you have low sex drive. Go and see a doctor, he/she will give you advice and hormone boosters or you might be given Viagra to supplement. This is a medical problem

You need to get those dead or too relaxed nerves up and running. Be very careful how you awaken this beast.

Every object assumes a state of rest until a relevant force is applied.

eduman365:
I think it's fairly normal that you're uninterested in having sex, after so many years of abstinence. You've probably trained yourself to ignore sexual arousal and that in turn may have caused a temporary psychological readjustment when it comes to sex.

Another thing is that you may be having low testosterone level. Testosterone is the male hormone that's primarily responsible for sex, hence the lack of interest. Whatever it may be, it's quite correctable.

As long as you're still having erections, you can redirect your mind to get interested in sex again. Stay active, go to the gym, take mens supplements and I can guarantee that your feeling and interest in sex will gradually rise.

thanks so much

[quote author=Aladdin1 post=84606809]Are you sure you are not gay.not having feelings for a woman is different from not beimg interested in sex.if the above is not your case then you are not sexually and physiological okay.pls.go see a gynecologist or sexologist doctor.
gay ke! God forbid, is just that I have tame myself to avoid sex.

Nothing is wrong with you Mr,People are created differently and for different purpose.

People like you are best suitable been academicians,scientist,researchers and priest.

But since you are now married it's a different ball game.Hope your wife is very much like you sexually.

Because you can't cheat nature.
Nothing is wrong with you once more,you are just been you.

All you need is a bottle of Spanish fly.

[quote author=stinflame post=84610621]Not justhing is wrong with you Mr,People are created differently and for different purpose.

People like you are best suitable been academicians,scientist,researchers and priest.

But since you are now married it's a different ball game.Hope your wife is very much like you sexually.

Because you can't cheat nature.
Nothing is wrong with you once more,you are just been you.
wow!!! thanks ok noted.

DaddyMorenike:
All you need is a bottle of Spanish fly.

thanks so much, how and where can I get such?

Josephilemona:

thanks so much, how and where can I get such?

most supermarts have them.

Just meet the doctor to give you injection on your dick.

So you decided to get married knowing that you’re not interested in sex. I hope you discussed this fully with your new wife. We are not interested future stories that touch

If the issue is not low testosterone or you are not interested in females,then it is a conditioning problem.
You will need to go through a de-conditioning process.
You will gradually build it up.I hope your wife has some experience.

You need to see a sex therapist ASAP.

You should have done that prior to getting married though. Save your marriage, go and see one now.

thorpido:
If the issue is not low testosterone or you are not interested in females,then it is a conditioning problem.
You will need to go through a de-conditioning process.
You will gradually build it up.I hope your wife has some experience.

E better if she no get experience. Make two of them dey decondition together.

OP, before you try anything, pls go and do a semen test, or generally, go see a doctor. Poor sexual health can cause low libido. Tackle the real cause and not temporary solutions

Please, Who Suffers Most In This Kind Of Situation
Like For The Man
Share For The Wife

pocohantas:


E better if she no get experience. Make two of them dey decondition together.

That will actually be better.They can fumble and wobble together.

eduman365:
I think it's fairly normal that you're uninterested in having sex, after so many years of abstinence. You've probably trained yourself to ignore sexual arousal and that in turn may have caused a temporary psychological readjustment when it comes to sex.

Another thing is that you may be having low testosterone level. Testosterone is the male hormone that's primarily responsible for sex, hence the lack of interest. Whatever it may be, it's quite correctable.

As long as you're still having erections, you can redirect your mind to get interested in sex again. Stay active, go to the gym, take mens supplements and I can guarantee that your feeling and interest in sex will gradually rise.

you commented just like one of those sensible people on quora

payperpost:
you commented just like one of those sensible people on quora

LoL I am on Quora.

eduman365:

LoL I am on Quora.

I sensed it, respect!