Hello nairalanders.i would like to know your views about marriage.your greatest fear that keeps you from getting married and for those that are married-how did you overcome your fears and did it eventually work out well in the end and wish you had gotten married much earlier than you did?
I know that getting married involves a lot of factors comming to play- psychological,physical,emotional,financially etc
I do fear i have not really accomplished my dreams and would be in an unhappy marriage if I put put marriage first.
Please I want you guys to comment on marriage

Been in it, been out of it, and what I can tell you is expect anything, Don't trust too much Keep your eyes peeled, Modern ladies "70s" upward are Very untrustworthy.

As a veteran in marriage building and marriage breaking.
I can authoritatively confirm that the only thing to fear in marriage is when the marriage does not fear you again.

Those who know, know.

My wife tying wrappers....

Well, my greatest fear bout marriage is staying glued to one Puna for the rest of my life......

I can't come and be eating Egusi soup all the days of my Married Life??......Variety they said is the spice of life..

A cheating wife......., i can overlook any other behavior

See finish
Extra unnecessary spendings
Limitation due to dependants.

Having a failed marriage cos my village people will be looking and laughing at me like this.

Money management

Waking up one morning to a totally different person or bad character

My fear is that the lady may relax everyday with the feeling that she has married a MESSIAH

Bondage, I prefer to live alone with no women in my life

The trial time when love begin to fade while understanding and maturity are still in a kid stage...

Knowing ur partner is a chronic cheat and lives an irresponsible life style. Once kids are involved meeeen. You just see ya self confuse

too much of sex

Coming back early. I enjoy staying outside till 11pm.

Having children.
Can't imagine myself having those tiny annoying devils in my house

I don't want to make a commitment that will hurt me later.

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Hello nairalanders.i would like to know your views about marriage.your greatest fear that keeps you from getting married and for those that are married-how did you overcome your fears and did it eventually work out well in the end and wish you had gotten married much earlier than you did?
I know that getting married involves a lot of factors comming to play- psychological,physical,emotional,financially etc
I do fear i have not really accomplished my dreams and would be in an unhappy marriage if I put put marriage first.
Please I want you guys to comment on marriage

fear?.. can t hav girlfriends

Marrying the wrong person and having kids.