I just saw a picture of a (Nigerian?) lady who was fully dressed, not too much nudity.

And a few men on the thread panicked, saying they were being tempted.

How do you cope with such innocuous situations which are open to different interpretations, one of which is you feel the woman is trying to tempt you?

Just wondering, because it almost seemed like she was admiring her shoes, looked somewhat ambiguous.

First you need the grace of God to help you cope and avoid temptation. And then practically, try and know your triggers then avoid them...

Sometimes you cant avoid random pictures on a thread.

What do you do in that instance, to help you cope with your feelings? Especially if you consider some things just too irresistible. I was surprised by some of the comments.

castration

In the sense of using physical methods to manage your feelings? eg splashing cold water on yourself which is generally considered a libido deterrent.

tpiar:
In the sense of using physical methods to manage your feelings? eg splashing cold water on yourself which is generally considered a libido deterrent.

Is this real.

tpiar:
I just saw a picture of a (Nigerian?) lady who was fully dressed, not too much nudity.

And a few men on the thread panicked, saying they were being tempted.

How do you cope with such innocuous situations which are open to different interpretations, one of which is you feel the woman is trying to tempt you?

Just wondering, because it almost seemed like she was admiring her shoes, looked somewhat ambiguous.

Not all of us, some of us just want the paper