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Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by LadySarah: 5:06am On Dec 08, 2019 |
Born2Breed: chai'!I understand You but You put it the wrong way.Even Dangote owes. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Nicklaus619(m): 5:17am On Dec 08, 2019 |
I feel your pains bro, you should call for a family meeting,explain to your mother what happened she caused everything when she gave her the impression not to respect you as you are just a little older than her, cry if you must to clear your head, stop eating in the house, but always provide for the family,minimize irrelevant chitty chatty with your sister, Lastly, move out of the house I wouldn't advise you dis but if I am in your shoes ayam going old school on her butt AMA whop respect into her ASAP 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by LordKO(m): 5:51am On Dec 08, 2019 |
You've a chauvinistic mother, that's the root of the problem, and she's indoctrinated and inculcated its associated negative values into your sister. You've frenemies in both of them. Nevertheless, continue to be good to them mostly from a distance and stop expecting from them understanding and ecstatic feelings as you ought to gain/experience from selfless and meek relations in their position in your life. You've to bear in mind that whatever good thing they may do for you at any point in time in life can never come from the place of selflessness - any of such good thing will always have self-interest overtone. If you eventually amass big wealth, they'll be the first set of people to take to worshipping you - superficial love. Blood makes people related, but mutual ethical leanings make people lovers or family or intimate friends. 5 Likes |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Techcrunchng(m): 7:31am On Dec 08, 2019 |
Depressed101:but paying an owed money like that is wicked and annoying so you caused everything yourself. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Lonelypacifist6: 8:00am On Dec 08, 2019 |
Depressed101:Op leave that house your efforts are not appreciated, and stop paying for the accommodation. What kind of mother is too busy to hear complaints from her children their character alone is enough for your moniker. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Lonelypacifist6: 8:05am On Dec 08, 2019 |
KiidaACE:Sometimes you just don't understand women, I'll never disrespect my elder brothers, just two years and four years difference, I'm the last. we call ourselves sir/Mr. because we grew up hearing it from our parents. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by franklingud(m): 8:09am On Dec 08, 2019 |
Bros, am telling you from experience. Are you the only male child in your family? If yes then quickly find a room and pack out of that house for them. ASAP These females can make you do the unthinkable. Very annoying set of people. Unreasonable, impatient! 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Lonelypacifist6: 8:15am On Dec 08, 2019 |
Depressed101:DON'T EVER DISCLOSE YOUR PLANS OF MOVING OUT. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Lonelypacifist6: 8:15am On Dec 08, 2019 |
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Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Lonelypacifist6: 8:18am On Dec 08, 2019 |
Nicklaus619:Op, don't do this, they'll make a mockery of you unless those women aren't in the meeting, surprise is the best in a situation like this just ghost them leave the house, they'll learn. |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Lonelypacifist6: 8:21am On Dec 08, 2019 |
LordKO:You hit the nail on the head. 3 Likes |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by zmpp(f): 8:56am On Dec 08, 2019 |
it is well, forgive her 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by DonBenny77(m): 9:06am On Dec 08, 2019 |
If you must borrow always try to pay your debt on time 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by YorubaLord: 9:11am On Dec 08, 2019 |
Depressed101: OP craze dey worry you. On top that, carry hot water pour for her head na... since you dey act like say the subtle advise no dey enough. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by najib632(m): 9:18am On Dec 08, 2019 |
Depressed101:you have to show your mum and sister that you're really angry with them. If possible start eating outside or reduce the amount of food you consume at home. You to show both them that they must treat you as the man of the house since your father is no more or infact just live the house without informing them if they don't change. This is really annoying, as if you chose to be broke. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Yxxx: 9:20am On Dec 08, 2019 |
First you must gain back your respect. How? Become cold,like become cold. People are saying don't owe again,pay your debt. If you are paying rent and you are being treated like this ,imagine if you don't have at all. Put them in their place,remember the younger ones are watching. You see that your sister if you need to reset her brain small by giving her a once in a lifetime scolding with much fury showing(remember to do it well but without injuries). It will linger in her memory,she won't try shit next time. Your mum too, you have to be tough on her. Ignore her in some decision making process,act firm,make her understand it's not business as usual, eat outside if possible. Then finally leave the house. Na dem go find you come respectfully but you have to gain your respect. You have to act fast for future purpose. |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by frozen70(f): 9:27am On Dec 08, 2019 |
Depressed101: Sorry for the hurt It's time for you to start your own life if being separated with your own apartment It might not sound easy but a bold step will make you plan well You don't need to confront her, just be yourself and never ever borrow from her so tgat you won't experience rancour because your mum will take side with her Start saving to have your own apartment and if the present rent expires, you and them can share the bill or they look for a smaller apartment since you have packed out Don't quarrel vabaly with her but keep her at arms length and still relate with them all 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Nicklaus619(m): 9:31am On Dec 08, 2019 |
Lonelypacifist6: Let them make mockery that wat families is for, they make you they break you and at last u can't do without them Family is forever and one day dey all gonna look back and laugh. But his moving out of the house should not be negotiable 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Born2Breed(f): 9:44am On Dec 08, 2019 |
LadySarah: Yes everyone owes,but you don't flaunt money in front of your creditor. The bros is only telling us his own side of the story. Women are always kind hearted and care more for their brothers. For the mum to even cut the call on him means there is something Bros is not revealing here. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Nobody: 11:03am On Dec 08, 2019 |
Lonelypacifist6:Same as my family bro.. My parents made sure to hammer the importance of respect to an elder sibling even if the difference is just a year and we haven't departed from it.. My siblings and I have a very tight bond with a clear hierarchy in place.. This doesn't stop us from loving each other and I'd take a bullet anytime anyday for anyone of em... Women are the ones that are mostly responsible for how a child is gonna turn out and they should do well to teach em well lest they become monsters in the near future.. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Lonelypacifist6: 11:11am On Dec 08, 2019 |
KiidaACE:Same here too my brothers have saved my ass many atime especially from financial ruin, They both have Foreign nationality and I'll gladly do the same for them in 2017 was the time I knew I had people who love me, Only thing they couldn't save me from was a woman, I'm sure if they saw signs they would have warned me. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by VanillaIce5(f): 11:19am On Dec 08, 2019 |
Have u complained to your mother before about this things 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Xmen149(m): 12:33pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
Depressed101: Play on it it's on her conscience,she knows she has wronged you even though you owed her. dnt confront her,when its time you leave..she is automatically one financial problem less for you with what ua making bcs it will always be at the back of her mind..Pride no go gree am Las Las Na u go win 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by FromZeroToHero(m): 12:51pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
If a snake doesn't do what makes it a snake small children will use it as a rope to tie firewood. A word is enough for the wise. 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Nobody: 2:01pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
Lonelypacifist6:Lmao, sure they would've... 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Depressed101: 3:39pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
Thanks to everyone who contributed to this issue.... I have resolved not to take it out on her or even caution her afterall i am the debtor. She slept at a friend's place yesterday. I dont know if she was afraid of what i did do. I just wish she realises that i am a brother sooner... Once again, thank you guys. |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Depressed101: 3:47pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
Lonelypacifist6: Hmmm. I have indeed called meeting before, but as usual they didn't take it serious... |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Depressed101: 3:48pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
franklingud:i am not, i have other male brothers, but they are still in secondary school.. Indeed moving out is inevitable |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Depressed101: 3:50pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
Techcrunchng:i was broke i am not one to owe money for long. |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Depressed101: 3:53pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
LordKO:she has always been the first person to come close to me when everything is smooth,this is someone I love so much, i can't hate her. |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by Depressed101: 3:55pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
Nicklaus619:i have cried before, i don't think i want yo cry again. The plan is to move ahead, and make my other siblings especially the boys dont take after them. |
Re: How Long Should Should I Have Patient With My Sister by adidasBarca: 4:25pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
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