crackhaus:
Another one

So a man who provides more than the basic needs and is a great father suddenly doesn't love you because he does not say 'I love you back' during sex.

Aunty, just say you want to fvck this Telegram guy and you're looking for excuses. Is it not who will reply your 'I love you' during sex that you're looking for?
Look no further - it's that Telegram guy, I know him very well. I've heard he likes to shout 'I love you' during sex like a billy goat.
Okay thanks, I need the insult, maybe it will help get me right on track.
Mumu

IceeSeth:
There's an underlying problem somewhere that's causing what you're seeing now. And maybe something else is taking his attention away.

I think you should start by telling him about your feelings and how it has been affecting you.

Getting attention from another person can only divide you both further and further till it turns to divorce.

Approach your husband for a start!

dawnomike:
I understand what you're going through... But, please and please for the sake of your kids, do the right thing.

Xsem:
You are very useless.
A man is out there toiling and hustling to make ends meet for the family, satisfying all aspects of your life and yet you can't find something meaningful to focus on rather you go about cheating on him on the guise of him handicapping you emotionally. Just negodu a married woman

Olannajewel:
Please pardon my very long post. I also had to open another account so as to post this.

SPARE US THIS INTRODUCTION, NOBODY CARES!



I DO NOT SUPPORT THIS BUT, IF YOU EVENTUALLY CHEAT, I WILL NOT BLAME YOU.

MEN NEED TO LEARN THAT SOMETIMES, MONEY AND PROVISIONS IS NOT ENOUGH.
IF YOU CAN'T COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR PARTNER, SPEND TIME AND LISTEN TO HER, YOU'RE ONLY WASTING YOUR TIME.

PLEASE TELL MR. TELEGRAM TO USE PROTECTION JUST IN CASE.

KanwuliaExtra:
You are going through a test or phase every married man or woman will definitely go through.

Rule #1. Never date a single person if you are married. You are stepping beneath your rank and file.

You need to stop that crap right there and now. He has nothing to lose and you have EVERYTHING TO LOSE.

It is not love but LUST.

You are playing a dangerous game and you are a novice. Nothing good can come out of this 'crush' you have on this 'boy toy'.
He has nothing to offer.
Abeg go find beta 'frog' chop!
If you marriage crashes. . . .it would be shameful to point in the direction of a 'RIFF RAFF' as the cause!
Please, play the game of CHAMPIONS!
First, you must GROW UP!

zeestone99:
Most Women are just selfish... See how all this man's investment goes down the drain. When they get one they crave for another,if you don't have they go elsewhere, Forgeting all your sacrifices.

KanwuliaExtra:
You are going through a test or phase every married man or woman will definitely go through.

Rule #1. Never date a single person if you are married. You are stepping beneath your rank and file.

You need to stop that crap right there and now. He has nothing to lose and you have EVERYTHING TO LOSE.

It is not love but LUST.

You are playing a dangerous game and you are a novice at it. Nothing good can come out of this 'crush' you have on this 'boy toy'.
He has nothing to offer.
Abeg go find beta 'frog' chop!
If your marriage crashes. . . .it would be shameful to point in the direction of a 'RIFF RAFF' as the cause!
Please, play the game of MARITAL CHAMPIONS WHO CAN CHOP AND STILL KEEP THEIR MARRIAGES!
First, you must GROW UP! You need to think with the head above your waist.

Vyolet:
If you have sex with lover boy and you get caught, you have everything to lose while he has nothing to lose.
Your way older husband will still get another younger woman to marry and if you are unlucky, you won't have access to your kids.
Use your head girl, have some patience, wait till you graduate from school, start living with your husband and build a close relationship, you will bring out the baby boy in him and you will be surprised at how much of a lover boy he can be.

wunmi590:


Your attitude really got me to the bone, I really feel for the man who has been trying all his best to make you a better woman, despite the fact that not all men can allow the privilege of what he has given to you, providing your basic needs, and even allowed you to go to school while you are married in another state.

My advice, please and please cut off from that guy, and concentrate on your studies, making your husband proud by graduating with a good grade should be on your mind now, what you looking for after 2kids, when you are still schooling.

Your husband loves you, I guess the main reason he changed is because he wants to give you more space to read and graduate top of your class without having to regret why you went to school.

After your school and he still behave like that, then you can come on nairaland and ask what you need to do more to make him attend to you more.

You are already exposing yourself and endangering yourself by sexxx chating with another person.

Please desist from that and face your book...

Olannajewel:
thank you, I have cried, screamed, talked, even joked about it,but he doesn't want to understand, he used to be very sweet and passionate about us.

Olannajewel:
thank you, but I have been making him proud, I adore and appreciate him, I am not a bad woman, I just want a little romance, friendship and compassion from my husband.. this has been going on for 4 years now, I don't own my life, tomorrow is not assured, am I wrong to want to feel like a woman from my husband. I read so hard,more than i should, just to continue making him proud. But i need a friend in my husband. Thank you

crackhaus:
Another one

So a man who provides more than the basic needs and is a great father suddenly doesn't love you because he does not say 'I love you back' during sex.

Aunty, just say you want to fvck this Telegram guy and you're looking for excuses. Is it not who will reply your 'I love you' during sex that you're looking for?
Look no further - it's that Telegram guy, I know him very well. I've heard he likes to shout 'I love you' during sex like a billy goat.

Mumu

bukatyne:


What do you think changed? Can you trace where the coolness began?

And how hectic is your school schedule that you can't visit more often or visit unannounced?

Unfortunately, you both have become used to been married and living single.

Forget Telegraph Bobo, he might even be your husband. Afterall, you said he contacted you.

Go home, do a heart to heart review with your husband. What can you do better? What can he do better? What does he like about you? What do you like about him?

Look at it this way: the telegraph guy is seeing the fresh babe your husband has invested love and resources in. He wants to reap where he did not sow.

Go back to the sower and tell him that he needs to keep maintaining his garden so it does not wither.

Goodluck.