In one of the counseling session,a man confided that due to some challenges on how things are going that atimes he goes to meet seers for spritual evaluation and assistance and that some of the messages he do get is that his wife is not faithful to him that she do sleep with other men and that he knows what it means to a man still sleeping with such a woman or eating what she cook as such act is one of the things that constitute to his challenges of success and some of the difficulties he do face.

He said that he never take it serious but on a second note he decided to be worried that if like four persons can summon courage and give him such same message which most seers can find difficult to tell any man even when they see such a revelation for fear of not splitting the family or causing divorce for the husband and wife,then it calls for concern.

He said he had sat the wife down and asked her severally that this is one of the messages he used to get about her most times he goes for spiritual direction/help over the way things are going in the family that he is not happy with the message but the message will keep coming up.The wife denied severally that may be what they are still seeing may be the one that happened when she and her husband had five months separation when they have differences which she told the husband when they United again which the husband forgive despite that the husband said that even one man of God had already given him the message that she slept with another man before the wife made the confession during reunion .She said that since they have resolved their differences and get united,that she had never slept with another man apart from him(the husband)

The husband was so worried that even when he decided to tell one of the seers that may be it was the one that happened when they separated that is still being revealed, the seer said not that it's not but that's what she is doing.

Knowing well that this kind of matter is hardly revealed between couples to avoid causing problem between them, and even the person(s) that gave the message if known, otherwise taking her to any of them or a way she can prove herself can it offer solution or is it to keep ignoring the message despite the adverse effect it do have on a man considering the tradition of where he comes from and the effects it ha to any man whose wife slept(sleeping) with another man(men). The husband agreed that if she can open it and tell her the truth so they can again go and do the traditional cleansing the way it's used to be done in their side to avoid the effects it do have on the man and family that he is still willing to forgive her but he doubt whether she can tell the truth

Please a kind advice on how to handle this matter is needed. Please a mature and genuine advice is necessary over this challenging matter as well as how it can be handled to avoid affecting the marriage.

Pr

I would like to see a reasonable reply to this

Firstly, this thread will surely make frontpage...


Secondly, you are asking the wrong persons... Why not ask the seer what you should do about the revelation or what ways you can catch your wife red handed

It is always better to get them red-handed..so their ugly butts can be kicked out without hesitation..

I don't believe in seers. They get hints from Jinns and there are so many evil Jinns around. Getting the same message from different seers does not automatically mean it's true.... Jinns are very powerful...some of them have the power to be in 10 different countries in 5 minutes..This is to make you know how easy it is for them (Jinns) to whisper same thing to different people at different times and location

You need no seer in your life. They may be the cause of your problem sef (telling you from experience).

Take note that I am not saying you should trust your wife. If she can open her legs for some other men during the five months of separation, it means she can't be trusted. ...it could be that she slept with that man a week after the separation.

So man, pray, put on your thinking cap and device ways to monitor her like a man with ballz... I pray you catch her red-handed. It is only a foolish man that will divorce based on what a seer tells him

Be a man with ballz!

If the deer can see the problem, let him give you solution to it also

Never

Trust

Any

Woman.

Going to see seers. Fck up.


Story. Fck up.

.damn.

Well the first thing that makes a man is his urge to be successful and his ambitious nature to maintain his success. The second thing is starting the smallest unit in a society, which is family.

Now in all these, you are the greatest Seer, not some man In a mud house trying to piece sand tray with his eyes. I am not saying spiritualism is false but since your wife has cheated once, she will and must have been doing it again.

There is this glow when a woman is being unfaithful. I am sure you must have seen it and probably ignored it. Just stop sleeping with he for the time being and observe.

See this one trying to break his own family. Biko since the seer saw the affair, he should give you full details such as name of the person, his phone number, address, where he works, where they meet, etc. That way, you could go and catch them straight away. EOD.

These people you call seers are using alujonu, what they tell you is not reliable because it doesn't come from God but most of you have been gullible before Adam and Eve

@farous the man has to stop sleeping with that wife for sometime. To do this he just needs to travel some place else under the pretext of going to land a contract or do a job or on an assignment. He needs to plant a hidden camera in his bedroom and sitting room and place a hidden audio recorder in the bag that she uses frequently. Surely a woman that cheats will not go a week or two without visiting her demonic lovers and hence you will be able to have evidence. As soon as you get the evidence you need report the matter to everyone that needs to know...if she defends herself, file for a divorce but if she confesses and seeks to repent you, the children and her should go for urgent deliverance with anyone of the seers...after deliverance continue with the marriage!

SmellingAnus:
Firstly, this thread will surely make frontpage...


Secondly, you are asking the wrong persons... Why not ask the seer what you should do about the revelation or what ways you can catch your wife red handed

Obrigado

sisisioge:


See this one trying to break his own family. Biko since the seer saw the affair, he should give you full details such as name of the person, his phone number, address, where he works, where they meet, etc. That way, you could go and catch them straight away. EOD.

Did you read the op post at all

MadelnNigeria:


Did you read the op post at all

Care to explain it? Sometimes, English language eludes me

chatinent:
Going to see seers. Fck up.


Story. Fck up.

.damn.

Please kindly note that this is a serious matter that is giving a great concern to your fellow being.

Please the SEER here is neither a native doctor nor babalawo or Witch doctor. All are Christians-Good men of God - Pastor, Prophets with prayer ministries with clean records. Having a Pastor,Prophets or prayer warriors whom you share some life challenging situations even though you are also praying on your own is not a bad idea and that is the category the man in question(husband)met. So don't mistake using seers to quantify it.Again he did not have the wife in mind when going rather in the process of praying for him and thereafter giving him messages with prayers,such wife issue (message) will be revealed. Please understand the point

Thank you.

Put her phone on automatic call recording, and be sure to transfer each day's records to your phone every night as she sleeps or at any chance you can get.
Be discreet about it, don't let her have the slightest idea.

Please advice is needed.

One of the worst things in marriage is adultery and dealing with a wayward wife. A marriage that has such is almost at 50petcent on brink of collapse and having adulterous wife constitute alot of man's risk. Divorce seem to be the solution. Imagine a woman secretly opening her honey pot to other men to be piping from it,terrible and wickedness

Nonsense!
It then means that the adulterous men are the reasons their wives don't do well.
Stupid seers.Reveal problems without commensurate solutions.

Duru9:
If the deer can see the problem, let him give you solution to it also

I agree

By divorcing her so that we won’t send each other to early grave sooner or later . ( too much English is not allowed )

LadySarah:
Nonsense!
It then means that the adulterous men are the reasons their wives don't do well.
Stupid seers.Reveal problems without commensurate solutions.

I may not know your tribe but are you aware that in some traditions that once a married woman slept with another man, the husband of the woman will not sleep with the wife again or eat what she cooked unless traditional cleansing was performed otherwise something bad & misfortune will be happening to the husband. Same applies to the woman. Make enquiry should you don't know.

Tell him to

i. put God first in his marriage
ii. quit parading seers upandan

If really where the man comes from there is a process of cleansing then ttthey have to go for it.... That is if they believe in it.
Even if you are separated you are still married and as such its adultery. Especially if traditionally the marriage still held at that time....
So if he lays emphasis on it then go for the cleansing.
Regards the visions.....
I reserve my comments... If I tell someone his or her spouse is cheating, there's a good likely hood that it is true. This is because it's not uncommon.
However, it makes life allot easier to deal with God directk and put your faith in him..
His grace is enough you don't need a seer to communicate with God.
Allot of marriages and family bonds have been disrupted by prophesies...