Hello ma,

So the problem is:me and my husband have been married for a year but both of us are working in different towns (not too far apart ). We kinda try to see each other like every 4 to 4 days sha.

My husband takes care of me, respects me,does every thing a girl could want but I recently came to know that my husband is a porn addict and he likes to sext and send his nudes on online dating apps .

The sole purpose is to watch erotic things and satisfy himself. I don’t like this thing and I had found out all in his mobile and confronted him many times so he says thats he just need to masturbate after some time.

That the only thing he does......

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I think distance is the problem here. Most married men wants the real thing with their wives and not indulge in guilty - filled, strength draining, and sex life disorienting act.

I want you to appreciate the man, he didn't want to cheat on you (That's if he is not) he loves you to choose that option, but it is with time, what he sees he will practice. We become what we see. For the mean time, give him mind-blowing ride in the ozza room in Buhari's voice. Keep praying for him and plan staying towards living together. Lack of sex break marriages faster than lack of money. God bless your marriage.

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Pray for him to change and you just have to transfer to meet him where he's staying, maybe seeing you everyday, he will change the habits.

my dear. distance is your problem . (thank God you mentioned it)

your man needs to release he probably has high sex drive.
i forever will advocate masturbation to adultery .
if your man is not cheating on you which seems less likely because he is busy watching porn. then you should be happy for the mean time and try to work out your distance issue quickly .

but if his porn watching is not mainly to masturbate then sister you may have a problem in your hands . that means the females nudity has not yet sunk into his head and he is forever still amazed by unclothedness .

my advice hence is to check why he really Is into porn.

-- if it solemly for masturbation, then you are safe

---if it solemly for nudity, then you have a problem .

---if its both, then you can manage but you still have a problem .

Why everybody reply just dey long like this