If you are a guy that has dated any number of ladies, atleast two.

and you are observant.

You must have noticed this before.

There are sometimes you will call your girlfriend and ask her where she is.

She will say she is with: "A Friend"
Sometimes she will say she is with: "My friend"

Have you noticed that there is this reluctance that you sense in her voice when you ask the question and the answer is "A Friend"?
Have you noticed the unease that enters your body when she gives that answer: "A Friend".

The reluctance is there when she is answering you: "My friend". In fact, after she answers "My Friend" She usually proceeds to give you the full name of the friend and sometimes she will allow you to speak to the friend.

On the other hand there is usually an uncomfortable silence that follows the answer "A friend" and an eagerness for her to end the call and "Talk to you later"

The difference is very very very simple.

A Friend = Male friend

My Friend = Female friends.

That male friend is usually someone who is romantically and sexually interested in her.

Ladies why is it that you usually subconsciously make that distinction? "A friend" when it is a male friend and "My friend" when it is a female friend.
Why can't you refer to both as "My friend"?

Keep analysing girls and their pep talk. You better get a job.

kulobyno:
Keep analysing girls and their pep talk. You better get a job.

That talk ain't gonna make him a dollar richer

Elucidate the difference between "Uncle" and "My Uncle"

Absolutely correct OP!

I don’t know how to cheat. An attempt, and I’ll be caught in a blink. What you described up there is what I’ll typically do!

kulobyno:
Keep analysing girls and their pep talk. You better get a job.

1. You logged on to Nairaland.

2. Came to the romance section.

3. Viewed on a couple of topics including this one.

4. Clicked on reply.

5. Typed the rubbish you typed.

6. Exhausted some limited brain cells doing so.

7. Clicked "Submit"

How many dollars did you make doing all of these?

Teenage Troll.

PrimadonnaO:
Absolutely correct OP!

I don’t know how to cheat. An attempt, and I’ll be caught in a blink. What you described up there is what I’ll typically do!

I'm sorry but I don't know how to cheat is the slogan of many a great cheat.

AkeNathan:


That talk ain't gonna make him a dollar richer

And did typing this response here in the romance section make you a dollar richer?