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Dbdjdjxjcjjc by shomutuski(m): 5:17pm On Dec 15, 2019
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Re: Dbdjdjxjcjjc by 0ppa(m): 5:33pm On Dec 15, 2019
You don't know whether or not to believe she went in your room or you went with her, or you and her went together?
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Spider Man, go and get married -- simple advice and leave these many Mary Janes.

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Re: Dbdjdjxjcjjc by donbachi(m): 6:03pm On Dec 15, 2019
she's not....if she give u d thing and e tight....she use alum tighten am.
Re: Dbdjdjxjcjjc by Nobody: 6:05pm On Dec 15, 2019
Ok
Re: Dbdjdjxjcjjc by zyzxx(m): 7:04pm On Dec 15, 2019
I am confuse along with your bro
Please don't put your all in all until you are certain
Re: Dbdjdjxjcjjc by Nobody: 7:20pm On Dec 15, 2019
0ppa:
You don't know whether or not to believe she went in your room or you went with her, or you and her went together?
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Spider Man, go and get married -- simple advice and leave these many Mary Janes.

Lol...��� no be small spider man.
Re: Dbdjdjxjcjjc by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 15, 2019
shomutuski:
Bro wassap!!!

I'm in a pickle..
So i got introduced to a lady around sept. She stays lagos while I'm in abuja and we got talking and all that. Fast forward to this month, i flew down to lagos to spend time with my parents and we hung out and i told her how I felt and that we should date. I also mentioned that it's okay for her to take her time and process which she replied there's no need for that. She doesn't waste time doing that. Fine.


The next week she's over at my house we having this intense make out session and i told her let's go inside! Her reply was ''do you mean go all the way'' sure why else. She told me she hasn't gone all the way which translates to she's a virgin.
Now that's where my issue comes in play!!! I can't trust nobody! It's in my nature.

I noticed our energy just dropped cus we started talking about it. She was like hope it won't change anything! I said no that worst comes to worst. We'll find other ways e.g Mouth Gig and the likes, she was like ewwwww!!! That's gross.

We continued our regular make out session and it got to a stage she was like let's go in. OMG!!!

I said for real!!! She said yes, i was like you sure and is it what I'm pondering. She said yes naah, let's go. My Gee i had to ask more than four times before i noticed that she was feeling a type of way. We went inside the next thing she said was she just want to see my room., why frustrate me like that..... I just took everything with a pinch of salt.

My intuition tells me she's not because she asked us to go inside and probably due to the way I asked she felt i would see her in a bad light that she lied to me. We had a discussion and i asked her sternly about the let's go inside line she dropped. She was like probably she was joking, she only wanted too see my room.


My Gee I've been in so many friendship type situation where we just have fun.

This is my first genuine relationship buh my spider sense has been alerting me since. I love the babe no doubt. I think it's obvious that i don't have the indepth experience needed to deal with the intricacies involved with womenfolk and if i get scarred in the process l. I'll be a wicked ass Casanova. Long term that might be beneficial shaa.

Pls share with me your thoughts on this issue.

Cc: @Ubunja

Mumu post everywhere.
Re: Dbdjdjxjcjjc by MedicH: 7:33pm On Dec 15, 2019
It's simple. No sex. Okay but hey i need to take a look down there and see the situation of things. She needs to lie down in a lithotomy position you know like a woman that wants to give birth or is in labor I'm sure you know what i mean. You will look and behold the situation of things. If the hymen is not intact chances are she's lying. If she wont let you carrry out this assessment she is definitely lying. After this exercise you can now know whether to proceed with marriage rites or run.
Re: Dbdjdjxjcjjc by xerxesII: 7:52pm On Dec 15, 2019
undecided

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