....

Hmmn.

Wow. Oh my God. Where are the elders here. Abeg elders make una come tuck mouth abeg

Franchasng

Daddytime

Pansophist

What kind of help do you need?
How to not do it again?
I know you don't even trust yourself to not meet up with this "knight in shiny d/<k" again.

This life eh......


So, as a married woman.... You decided to let the devil to use you....


And your hubby is not matured to wife and father any child.... Even if he's tired of sexing you.... He has you to personally confine with....Keeping malice with a woman is uncalled for.... But, you should do a self evaluation, are you clean beneath? Do you brush before going to bed? Are you always naked before him?


Change certain attitudes and be your self..... Understand also that, this moments will surely come in marriages. Be prayerful and keep your struggles to yourself.... Don't go telling your pastors.... Reevaluate his behavior and see how you can be a part of it....


Know that, one of you need to build that home, it's nobody's responsibility, it's either both of you or one of you....

There’s nothing there... what’s dere in fvckin ur friend.
Go girl, u have only one life to live. Don’t feel guilty at all

cheenway:
Please don't judge me. I know I am wrong. I feel guilty already.
My story goes like this. For sometime now and I mean in months, my hubby has changed. He comes home late around 11pm to midnight, passworded his phone,chats, picks calls and talks secretly, loves to stay alone all by himself, he doesn't talk to me anymore, we haven't spoken to each other in like two months and all. He sends the children to me if he wants to say anything to me. I've never had any reason to say he's cheating until this new development. I've tried all I can to find out if I offended him, I've cried, begged, talked, even reported to his brothers and mom to help me talk to him but he will laugh and say there's nothing. He even started sleeping in another room at home. We have two kids, 6 and 8 years old and we live in a 3 bedroom flat. So he now sleeps in the third room.

Now to the issue, I've been sex starved for months and I have been watching videos online to help myself, and I try to keep myself happy.
But this past week, an old 'friend' (we were dating casually then but we never had sex) contacted me through fb and we met after loosing contact for over 10 years. Me, him and other friends of ours at a friend's wedding.
During the after party, we got all drinking, eating, and later cuddly and it happened, we had sex in his car. Truly, I tried to resist but I couldn't help it. He didn't force or pressure me but I lost hold of myself. Now I feel dirty. I don't know if I can move past this. I know my husband's new attitude doesn't justify my actions.
But I'm deeply sorry. I don't know what to do.
Please help me out

Next time buy a Love Machine and do the needful, as for your husband,may be he is just tired of you for the mean time just let him have his space,it happens to most men,especially when they are reevaluating their life and thinking about their children future as well as there,or when going through a personal challenge and don't want their wife to know ,I really don't know why that married friend of yours took advantage of you,the guy has no respect for you or your family.
..meanwhile you need to go do a HIV test,I really doubt he used a condom.

Lol SMH!!
Once your husband find out that you cheated on him, I'm sure the marriage will almost be 90% over.
Nothing damage a man mental balance like a cheating wife!

I don't know how to advise you op, because once a woman starts cheating, she is emotionally out of that marriage. Cheating should never be an option in marriage!!

Your husband is one over grown baby, what kind of man, will keep malice with his wife for 2 month without any just cause?? Where is the fun in that.

Women, some of you are not worth it. He wasn't talking to you for two months, the best you can do is to go out, drink and have sex inside car. You truly sound dirty, no packaging at all. No wonder the guy no send you, you wanted to remain married in the eyes of society while being single. Snap out of the guilt. Sit down and ask your self, how long are you going to be living this type of life? How can your husband not talk to you for 2 months? Where una dey see all these kind marriage?

cheenway:
Please don't judge me. I know I am wrong. I feel guilty already.
My story goes like this. For sometime now and I mean in months, my hubby has changed. He comes home late around 11pm to midnight, passworded his phone,chats, picks calls and talks secretly, loves to stay alone all by himself, he doesn't talk to me anymore, we haven't spoken to each other in like two months and all. He sends the children to me if he wants to say anything to me. I've never had any reason to say he's cheating until this new development. I've tried all I can to find out if I offended him, I've cried, begged, talked, even reported to his brothers and mom to help me talk to him but he will laugh and say there's nothing. He even started sleeping in another room at home. We have two kids, 6 and 8 years old and we live in a 3 bedroom flat. So he now sleeps in the third room.

Now to the issue, I've been sex starved for months and I have been watching videos online to help myself, and I try to keep myself happy.
But this past week, an old 'friend' (we were dating casually then but we never had sex) contacted me through fb and we met after loosing contact for over 10 years. Me, him and other friends of ours at a friend's wedding.
During the after party, we got all drinking, eating, and later cuddly and it happened, we had sex in his car. Truly, I tried to resist but I couldn't help it. He didn't force or pressure me but I lost hold of myself. Now I feel dirty. I don't know if I can move past this. I know my husband's new attitude doesn't justify my actions.
But I'm deeply sorry. I don't know what to do.
Please help me out

First and foremost delete your phone number and address location from all your old posts to guard against blackmail. Cause of your husband is supposed to know, it should be through you and not from third party elements

Thank God for Xvideos, u for don rape someborri pickin. Konji na baskard

cheenway:
Please don't judge me. I know I am wrong. I feel guilty already.
My story goes like this. For sometime now and I mean in months, my hubby has changed. He comes home late around 11pm to midnight, passworded his phone,chats, picks calls and talks secretly, loves to stay alone all by himself, he doesn't talk to me anymore, we haven't spoken to each other in like two months and all. He sends the children to me if he wants to say anything to me. I've never had any reason to say he's cheating until this new development. I've tried all I can to find out if I offended him, I've cried, begged, talked, even reported to his brothers and mom to help me talk to him but he will laugh and say there's nothing. He even started sleeping in another room at home. We have two kids, 6 and 8 years old and we live in a 3 bedroom flat. So he now sleeps in the third room.

Now to the issue, I've been sex starved for months and I have been watching videos online to help myself, and I try to keep myself happy.
But this past week, an old 'friend' (we were dating casually then but we never had sex) contacted me through fb and we met after loosing contact for over 10 years. Me, him and other friends of ours at a friend's wedding.
During the after party, we got all drinking, eating, and later cuddly and it happened, we had sex in his car. Truly, I tried to resist but I couldn't help it. He didn't force or pressure me but I lost hold of myself. Now I feel dirty. I don't know if I can move past this. I know my husband's new attitude doesn't justify my actions.
But I'm deeply sorry. I don't know what to do.
Please help me out

Just a few months, you guys find a ready mate to do your shenanigans with? This story line is getting to be a common theme here.

No perseverance? No endurance?

Was your sex life so fantastic prior to the sudden change?

Again, when you are vulnerable, common sense dictates that you run away from whatever situation makes you tempted to fall.

Since you watch porn, why don't you buy intimacy gadgets while you find out what is wrong with your husband?

I find his distance and sudden change strange especially since he has not told what is wrong. Stop begging and when he sends the kids to you, ignore him till he comes himself.

You have cheated so the guilt is natural. First ask God for forgiveness and steer clear situations that would make you fall again.

Also check yourself for STDs et AL.

Should you tell your husband? I can't advise on that.

uruba23:

Next time buy a Love Machine and do the needful, as for your husband,may be he is just tired of you for the mean time just let him have his space,it happens to most men,especially when they are reevaluating their life and thinking about their children future as well as there,or when going through a personal challenge and don't want their wife to know ,I really don't know why that married friend of yours took advantage of you,the guy has no respect for you or your family.
..meanwhile you need to go do a HIV test,I really doubt he used a condom.

Took advantage bawo?

Is he responsible for her morality or sanctity of her marriage?

I am sure dude wanted to sleep her since and she came to him willingly.

bukatyne:


Took advantage bawo?

Is he responsible for her morality or sanctity of her marriage?

I am sure dude wanted to sleep her since and she came to him willingly.

Biko don't judge her,it takes a discipline man not to take advantage of a vulnerable woman,I don't know,but since they have been chatting I am sure the dude would have been making her feel special and all what not,i think the man is just disrespectful he should have help her through her crisis not take advantage of her and quite honestly sometimes the woman hormones get me wondering how it shift their thought process.I believe she must have resisted and latter gave up.

cheenway:
Please don't judge me. I know I am wrong. I feel guilty already.
My story goes like this. For sometime now and I mean in months, my hubby has changed. He comes home late around 11pm to midnight, passworded his phone,chats, picks calls and talks secretly, loves to stay alone all by himself, he doesn't talk to me anymore, we haven't spoken to each other in like two months and all. He sends the children to me if he wants to say anything to me. I've never had any reason to say he's cheating until this new development. I've tried all I can to find out if I offended him, I've cried, begged, talked, even reported to his brothers and mom to help me talk to him but he will laugh and say there's nothing. He even started sleeping in another room at home. We have two kids, 6 and 8 years old and we live in a 3 bedroom flat. So he now sleeps in the third room.

Now to the issue, I've been sex starved for months and I have been watching videos online to help myself, and I try to keep myself happy.
But this past week, an old 'friend' (we were dating casually then but we never had sex) contacted me through fb and we met after loosing contact for over 10 years. Me, him and other friends of ours at a friend's wedding.
During the after party, we got all drinking, eating, and later cuddly and it happened, we had sex in his car. Truly, I tried to resist but I couldn't help it. He didn't force or pressure me but I lost hold of myself. Now I feel dirty. I don't know if I can move past this. I know my husband's new attitude doesn't justify my actions.
But I'm deeply sorry. I don't know what to do.
Please help me out

mama...did as been done


just goan delete anytin deleteable.....
u 4 just open new moniker fa

. Stop hurting yourself ma'am as once fvcked can never be unfvcked. Keep your mouth shut or find a Catholic priest at a far away confessional and pour your heart content. It never ends well when a Pandora's box is open.
This is just nature. You needed to have it, nature being a piss of crap it has always been never cared who you have it with.

Hahaha

They always "form" feeling dirty after the enjoyment.

Women? Dread them.

One thing I know for a fact is she'll still fvck him if an opportunity presents itself.

A puss! Once fvcked cannot be unfvked. Instead, it can always be refvked over and over again.

Hmmm

At last, wetin the guy mind dey tell am don finally happen so, make him dey vex dey go like Vespa.

So much unsaid, plus zero communication, a huge recipe for disaster.

uruba23:

Biko don't judge her,it takes a discipline man not to take advantage of a vulnerable woman,I don't know,but since they have been chatting I am sure the dude would have been making her feel special and all what not,i think the man is just disrespectful he should have help her through her crisis not take advantage of her and quite honestly sometimes the woman hormones get me wondering how it shift their thought process.I believe she must have resisted and latter gave up.

This is a joke right?

Except you are implying that a woman cannot think critically and should rely on a man to do that for her which is an insult of you ask me.

You mean a grown woman should rely on a man to help her through her 'vulnerable' moments?

Is the man's body made of stone? What gives you the impression that his wife is not starving him of sex as well and he is in the same bucket with the OP?

Even the OP wisely did not blame the dude, she blamed herself.

bukatyne:


This is a joke right?

Except you are implying that a woman cannot think critically and should rely on a man to do that for her which is an insult of you ask me.

You mean a grown woman should rely on a man to help her through her 'vulnerable' moments?

Is the man's body made of stone? What gives you the impression that his wife is not starving him of sex as well and he is in the same bucket with the OP?

Even the OP wisely did not blame the dude, she blamed herself.

I agree with you ,but I am talking from the few experiences I have seen,especially when the guy mumu button isn't working again and nothing they do can change him.The next available guy becomes their prince charming.Moreover she is too emotionally stress to see she is been manipulate, she might think she is trying to find a way out....At least going through are previous thread I can understand.

uruba23:

I agree with you ,but I am talking from the few experiences I have seen,especially when the guy mumu button isn't working again and nothing they do can change him.The next available guy becomes their prince charming.

Well, picking a guy as the next available prince charming doesn't work except the wife needs a man's affections.

If she needs her husband's affections, then she has to seek it and if not working, let him be or separate (if there are acceptable grounds to do so).

Bed hopping doesn't solve the problem: revenge cheating just sounds as stupid.

Like they say, don't use a problem to solve a problem.

Your phone number is all over nairaland and you are here confessing you adulterous behavior, you didn't even have the brain to use another moniker.

So you don't know that some jobless nairaland can use your number and trace you on Facebook and blackmail you.

Madam, better go and confess to your husband before he hears it from other source.

uruba23:

I agree with you ,but I am talking from the few experiences I have seen,especially when the guy mumu button isn't working again and nothing they do can change him.The next available guy becomes their prince charming.Moreover she is too emotionally stress to see she is been manipulate, she might think she is trying to find a way out....At least going through are previous thread I can understand.

Please manipulation out of this.

bukatyne:


Well, picking a guy as the next available prince charming doesn't work except the wife needs a man's affections.

If she needs her husband's affections, then she has to seek it and if not working, let him be or separate (if there are acceptable grounds to do so).

Bed hopping doesn't solve the problem: revenge cheating just sounds as stupid.

Like they say, don't use a problem to solve a problem.

See there is a reason they say Konji is a bastard ,my dear 2month is Konji reloaded ...please don't expect her to be rational in her thought process.

bukatyne:


Please manipulation out of this.

okay I hear you ,your royal highness.

Clap for ur self. u try well well...

uruba23:

See there is a reason they say Konji is a bastard ,my dear 2month is Konji reloaded ...please don't expect her to be rational in her thought process.

I have not discounted konji, in my first post, I said she should get intimacy gadgets since the porn only is not working

And if intimacy gadgets are not working, I am a staunch fan of spiking his drink, mounting him and riding him till she is satiated.

She should confirm he does not have a disease sha.

I have only said she should not solve her problem with another problem.

uruba23:

okay I hear you ,your royal highness.

Hahahahahahaha

bukatyne:


I have not discounted konji, in my first post, I said she should get intimacy gadgets since the porn only is not working

And if intimacy gadgets are not working, I am a staunch fan of spiking his drink, mounting him and riding him till she is satiated.

She should confirm he does not have a disease sha.

I have only said she should not solve her problem with another problem.

Lol spiking his drink Ke....I think the guy is thinking about money sometimes when a man is engrossed and worrying about money is one eye snake would be in default sleeping mode even the spike would have no effect.

fertilewomb:
Your phone number is all over nairaland and you are here confessing you adulterous behavior, you didn't even have the brain to use another moniker.

So you don't know that some jobless nairaland can use your number and trace you on Facebook and blackmail you.

Madam, better go and confess to your husband before he hears it from other source.

Am I a fool to bring something as delicate as this here if it were to be me in the picture.

If you must know, it's a copied post from fb

Ode!

cheenway:


Am I a fool to bring something as delicate as this here if it were to be me in the picture.

If you must know, it's a copied post from fb

Ode!

You are very stupid.

crackhaus:

You are very stupid.

Your stupidity must have inspired me. Mumu