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Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by romenna: 12:08pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
misplaced priority. i expect to see a thread that says u desperately need a job but u disappoint urself. u dnt know ur problem yet. wat u need is a job and trust me, there r many CEOs here. get wisdom 2 Likes |
Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by maasoap(m): 1:32pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica: Believe me, I'm married and I have sisters and brothers, cousins, nephew, etc. But like I said before, his happiness should come first, he has to live for himself before living for others. @op is not buoyant enough right now, he wants a girl to be called his partner. Right now, he can barely spend on himself. If he had to choose between spending on a potential wife or his families, he has to choose the potential wife even if it's not guaranteed. Because that's where his happiness lies now. At a point in life, a man has to prioritise his nuclear family above extended family, that's the cold bitter truth. |
Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Nobody: 3:24pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
pcguru1:all hope lost |
Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Nobody: 4:25pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
[quote author=pcguru1 post=85152196] Sorry can't help you at this moment. [/quote i need some money to collect my phone from the repairer. i wanted to start forex trading |
Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:29pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
franchasng: stick to the bloody issue at hand.... here is a man who cant provide for the basic necessities of life, yet want a woman in his life....THATS IMPOSSIBLE and this has nothing to do with confidence, but all to do with life. how can you be confident to go look for a woman with an empty stomach?!?!?! what are the priorities in this man's life?!?! before anyone intend to look for women they should sort their life basic necessities out. He doesn't need the money to squander it on ladies or girls or women, he needs the money to take care of his basic needs which will give him the confidence as a man to even start looking happy, good and confident enough to attract his desired women. then let the OP do exactly that before coming to NL seeking for a mate... but money still has nothing to do with finding a right mate. stop confusing the two. Misery have no friend, haven't you heard of that Any man that is still struggling to take care of his basic needs doesn't need a girlfriend or wife in his life unless the girlfriend or wife will help him improve his life financially. tell that to the OP... We live in a capitalist world today, everything you need to survive requires money, and if you don't have the money to feed yourself properly, clothe yourself adequately, provide a conducive accommodation for yourself and be able to take care of your other human basic needs, my brother I can tell you boldly that as a man, you won't have the confidence to approach any woman or accept to date any woman who won't help your life financially, you can take this to the bank and I am sure if you are in a tight financial situation that you don't even know where your next meal will be coming from or whether it will ever come for the day, and don't know how your future will be because you have no job, no hope of securing one after 2 years plus, the least thing that will be on your mind will be how to get a girlfriend, that's if the guy in question is sensible and reasonable enough to tell himself the truth, but if you insist, no problem then, preach on! lol stop repeating what i have said time and time again.... there is a huge difference between basic necessities of life and seeking a mate. many are broke after paying rent and spending little chop money, these people can still attract women and be happily ever after, while the ones that cant even afford a meal or where to live should 1st sort their miserable lives out before thinking of dating. On the part I put on bold in your comment, if you are too broke to even provide your basic needs as a young graduate after 2 years, I bet you, when you look yourself in the mirror, you will not like yourself to even think of being happy enough to approach ladies to woo them or attract one, please brother, try and be real, put yourself in the op's shoe....let's not comment just for commenting sake, not cool sadly, i fully disagree again... no matter how miserable you are, it shouldnt change the way you look at yourself proudly in the mirror, and this has absolutely NOTHING to do with dating, because if you cant provide for your basic necessities of life, then the world of dating shouldnt even remotely be in your mind, duh! what kind of DELUDED priorities do you think men have that they cant feed themselves or have a place to stay but would think of dating?!?!?!?!?! 1 Like |
Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by smasher1(m): 2:50am On Dec 24, 2019 |
eniorisha: Try and move out. It's easy to save money in a free home, but when you rent an apartment it becomes more difficult. That's when you learn how to be prudent or responsible with your cash. |
Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Peaceagain: 2:30pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Dude, chase the money. The women will come later. "You will always lose money, chasing women. But you will never lose women, chasing money". 2 Likes |
Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by richmanrichard: 10:10am On Dec 28, 2019 |
If u hear my story u go know say your own na beans. Jst get an online skill that can help u earn in dollars. If u ar able to accumulate ur earnings over few months-u are a big boy. Jst get a daily job to take care of your needs&spend the night learning viable skill. I video-edit mostly for foreign clients&earn $2500+ at the end of every month. |
Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Eyitayo29: 5:37pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
As a guy like you, I understand this pain. Although I am just 21 but I have also finished NYSC too. Truth is, you don't need to have all the money in the world before you can woo a girl. But you do need to be able to meet your own basic needs. As a man, you WILL need to meet some financial responsibilities of your babe regardless of whether she is financially independent or not. Now, I always tell people (Guys and Girls) NEVER to be in a relationship if they are still financially dependent. Asides guys, even ladies should never be in a relationship if they cannot meet their basic needs, this just makes the girl heap all her financial responsibilities on her man really. The implication of this is that undergraduates/broke guys & girls shouldn't be in a relationship for any reason. If you are lonely and need someone to talk with, get females friends for that. If you are having sexual urges, handle the matter some other way. So sir, please just focus on getting something to do first. No matter how small. Keep working and striving. Things will get better soon. I know you must be getting alot of pressure from being that age and still jobless and not in a relationship. But sir, just ignore the pressures and move on. I know it's not as easy as I am saying but please just try. Thank you and I wish you all the best. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by SirLiquidGold: 8:57am On Feb 21, 2020 |
ShenTeh:Lol teenage years is hard too. Peer pressure |
Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by ecstasy357(m): 9:00am On Feb 21, 2020 |
SirLiquidGold: Forget women Focus on your life Be intentional with your goals All good things come to those who wait on the LORD |
Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by robosky02(m): 10:15am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by meobizy(f): 10:27pm On Nov 05, 2021 |
...and OP abandoned the thread without any form of resolution. Typical of Nairalanders. |
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